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How to trigger a man's hero instinct



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hi okay I had the question from someone

in my from someone in my Facebook group

the love tribe saying so many dating

coaches out there talk about the

importance of triggering a man's

so-called hero instinct and frankly they

make it sound as though if women don't

master these techniques they're doomed

to failure in their love lives could you

please give us your thoughts on this

okay so yes of course triggering a man's

hero instinct is a fabulous wonderful

thing however the only problem with

trying to do it or having techniques to

do it is it becomes a strategy so let's

go back to masculine and feminine energy

okay so heroic energy is about action

it's about giving it's a masculine

energy action strategy planning

organizing having techniques and tricks

to and strategies to get someone to do

something is all masculine energy so

it's gonna get its gonna be exhausting

for you if you are trying to make

something happen with a man if you're

trying to trigger something in him okay

so if if hero energy is masculine energy

and you are wanting a masculine energy

partner in your life being in your

feminine energy is what is going to if

your man is capable of stepping up into

hero energy if hidden his hero instinct

if he wants to do that for you then your

best shot at that is for you to be in

your feminine energy and feminine energy

is about being receptive it's about

feeling it's about being rather than

thinking so rather than thinking it's

about feeling rather than doing it's

about being and receiving and it's about

intuition and it's about breathing out

okay so it can often feel like you're

not doing enough now yes being in your

feminine energy

is what will give you the best shot of

having a man man step into his masculine

hero instinct if you want to call it

that however I'm really really against

having any kind of strategy to make

something like that happen because I

don't think long term that works being

in your feminine energy is about you and

about how it feels for you as a woman I

was a very masculine energy woman I

found it very hard to feel I found it

very hard to let go of control but

actually being in your feminine energy

feels really good it feels like a

complete relief you don't have to try

you don't have to make anything happen

it's sensual its sensory so my answer to

that how to get a man to step into his

hero instinct he will if he's going to

and the best shot you can have of

attracting that is just by living your

life in your feminine energy expressing

your feelings not drama occasionally we

get dramatic but really expressing I'm

feeling sad and allowing yourself to

feel them I mean I have so many tools I

teach about how to just really feel what

you're feeling a simple one I'll give

you now you know to put your hand on the

table put your hand on the couch put

your hand on whatever is solid around

you and just feel it and just feel the

texture of the whatever it is under your

hand because if you're warm does it feel

cool does it feel soft notice if you're

thinking anything No

how it feels just to be feeling the

texture of the wood or the fabric or

whatever it is under your hand that is

feminine energy it's also called

mindfulness it's many things but that's

about being in your feminine energy so

whether you're in a same-sex

relationship whether in a heterosexual

relationship if you are wanting a

masculine energy partner you're going to

need to be in your feminine energy

you know the masculine energy wants to

be the hero wants to be the knight in

shining armor but if we are in our

masculine energy weak we are not

allowing the other part they are partner

to do that for us it's like if there's

one pair of trousers in the relationship

one metaphorical pair of trousers on one

metaphorical skirt then you need to

decide which you're gonna wear and if

you're gonna wear the trousers he can't

wear them and I don't know how good your

man looks in a skirt and how good you

feel in the relationship trousers so if

you want him to wear those relationship

trousers be all heroic in his Levi's

then you need to what be in the feminine

limiting you can still do that in jeans

that is a metaphor so that's really what

it's about that's how you do it but

don't have an agenda about it don't have

an agenda that you're gonna get your man

into his hero instinct and I'm just

gonna do this this and this and then

he's gonna do it know you live your life

in your feminine energy because it feels

damn good feels damn good for you to do

that and the beautiful results you will

have in your life is that the men around

you will become like heroes to you they

will want to help you probably just

because you're letting them they

probably wanted to all along so I hope

that's helped I hope that's answered the

question and loads of love to you all