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recently I realized it can be difficult
for some people to leave their jobs
which is why I just want to make a quick
video to give a couple of suggestions so
the reason is it can be difficult
because there could be some tension in
the workplace it could be difficult
because and a boss has had a conflict
with the person or it can be difficult
just because they're not used to saying
no they're not used to saying I'm not
leave leave we're gonna move on so
initially I think it's really important
to express gratitude to say thank you
very much for the opportunity even if
the relationship has soured or even if
they weren't treated well you weren't
treated well in this situation I think
it's really important to express the
gratitude after that I think you know to
have a couple of different ways to say
no is important because if someone comes
I can really want it to stay or really
want you to tie them over for a bit but
you can't stand it anymore you have to
be prepared for that or always you can
find yourself slipping into agreeing to
something that you didn't really want to
do so we have to say thanks for the
opportunity but I've decided to move on
I'll be handing in my notice at the end
of the month supposing if they say ok
but we really need you to stay until
after the next deadline then you could
say all right this has been a very
difficult decision for me to make and I
understand that it's put you in a tricky
situation as well which is really
unfortunate but for me both personally
and professionally I've decided that
this is the best thing for me so I'm
going to have to stick with my original
decision but thank you for for me an
additional opportunity supposing they
come back again and they offer you to
stay but maybe stay in a different
department or stay in a different
capacity and you want to be able to say
no again in a different way and you
could say something like I understand
that this is difficult for you and I
empathize with you with your situation
but I'm still gonna have to stick with
my original
decision it's not something I've come to
likely and but I think it is the best
variable personally and professionally
and so what you can hear is obviously
the same answer of no but there's some
additional repetition in there and the
repetition is there consciously because
if we offer more and more new
information that's just going to lead to
more loopholes being opened so we want
to just say no politely elegantly and
and and to repeat the same phrases so
that there is no area for people to
offer additional suggestions or
additional alternatives okay so I hope
that has helps you it has helped some
other people before so I hope it helps
you if you're going to that particular
situation ok thanks for watching
