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want to know why she doesn't text you
back why she takes hours to respond back
to you
i'mma let you know straight up look
you're a boring ass texter bro it is a
little drag for her to have to respond
back because
there's nothing for her to gain out of
that conversation look if you're the
dude that's always opening up text with
like a hey or
what you're doing or a good morning
beautiful you're probably the boring
texture i'm talking about but yo yo
don't get pressed i'm here to help you
out today i'm going to show you exactly
what you should be doing to not be that
boring texter tap into it number one
you're taking too long see texting is
not a conversation like an in-person
conversation and it's not meant to be
treated like that type of dialogue and
it is because you do treat it like that
dialogue that you always lose so what
ends up happening is that you end up
dragging on these boring ass long
conversations with little small talk
where do you know how boring it is for a
girl to always have to respond to a what
you're doing type of text every single
day when her days are probably just
boring and normal that's why no girl
wants to engage with it or respond to
your text or hit you back or it takes
hours to respond back so when you do
text if you know you're a boring texter
always text with a goal in mind so it
should be to link up to set a date etc
number two i need you to switch it up
look i need you to start messaging her
with snaps or maybe hop on a facetime
call see it could be that you're just a
personable dude more likable when you're
in character versus through text maybe
your texting is whack and that's
understandable bro once she sees that
money maker yo of course she's gonna
fall in love but before you hop onto
that snap or that facetime call make
sure that mug is nice and smooth it's
not oily acne or all dirty looking your
grooming needs to be on point so you
better go grab that heat grooming
scrubber the one that i hooked you up
with and exfoliate that skin remove the
dead skin cells remove that oiliness
when you hop on camera yo that's sexy
stunt of course she's gonna engage with
that dude oh what's that
you probably missed out didn't you
yeah i can tell you missed out see the
last time we dropped that facial
scrubber from he grooming it literally
sold down in two hours chances are when
i said that you didn't pick up you're
like yo where's my facial scrubber where
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see you there so you have the products
that make men handsome the third reason
why you're a boring texter is because
you're following dumb rules oh double
the wait time that she made you wait to
text her back oh no no after the first
date wait three days to text her no no
no what are you doing never text at
first how many times have you heard
gurus tell you any of these dumb rules
see the reason you're such a bad texter
is probably also because you don't have
good practice and you're not having good
practice because you're always avoiding
the text putting the pressure on her to
text you first when you follow dumb
rules you're not putting into practice
the one thing you're trying to perfect
and like anything else in life
practice makes perfect number four never
send the same greeting every single day
this is the mistake that 99.97
of guys make they don't know how to open
or start a conversation so what do they
do they start with the same opener with
the same girl every day hey
uh what you do today what you're doing
good morning beautiful like that is
literally the extent of knowledge that
they have when it comes to openers see
what you need to understand in this
dynamic is that you when you open the
conversation are the one that wants to
talk to the girl when you open up with
one of these openers you're basically
putting up all the pressure on her to
build and hold the conversation do you
really think she's going to want to drag
herself and do that so anytime you start
a conversation have a purpose in mind it
could be something as simple as oh
something you experienced reminded you
of her or maybe you want to link up the
study or maybe you just want to go on a
date and set a time in a day see when
you start with the purpose you're going
to lead the conversation with excitement
and that
yeah she's going to be down for that
ride number five i need you to switch
between questions and stories see asking
her genuine questions is always a great
way to get her to open up to get to know
her but you also need to understand that
we're grown men and we're not going to
be playing 21 questions so instead of
always starting with the questions you
could start the conversation like you
won't believe what happened to me this
reminded me of blank and then insert any
situation that you both experienced and
look when it comes to stories i get it
maybe your life is boring so is 99 of
other guys life the difference is that
you need to be creative the same way
comedians can take like a little slice
of their life and blow it up into a skit
you can do the same thing with your
stories and finally number six you're
just sending too many emojis bro look
the rules i'm giving you guaranteed
success i'm telling you from experience
you use these it's gonna help you out
the one rule that i've heard so many
guys say is use more emojis especially
gurus
don't use emojis see emojis come across
as feminine or like you're trying too
hard most of the time you should be able
to express a message with the text
itself when you do use emojis using
sporadically there is no reason why you
should be using more emojis at her all
that's going to let her know you're kind
of nervous and you're making up for the
fact that you're probably a boring
texture boys that's it for me today
those are six things that you need to
start doing today to not fall into the
trap of being a boring dry texter that's
it for me today boys see you next time