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jeffrey stares at her from a distance
he's found his victim
he moves in awkwardly and taps her
shoulder from behind she's startled and
immediately shows close
frightened body language he's already
lost his chance jeffrey stutters a few
words
but he's already come across as creepy
adonis
girls act creepy to adonis but he
doesn't judge them for that
it's natural to overthink and act weird
when you're interacting with someone
who's far higher in the social hierarchy
than you
and so adonis gets to enjoy the awkward
acts of the pretty girls that most guys
dream of
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you aren't weird for being creepy around
women because men being creepy around
women especially hot women
is very normal but we didn't want to be
normal anyway so you're going to learn
how to be abnormal like me
speak to girls in a smooth flirty way
without being creepy my name is hamza
i help young men through the jeffrey to
adonis transformation you know you know
the deal come on
i just can't be asked click on the
subscribe in the post notification
button you know
tired of being a youtuber bro smash that
like at least i've never said that
before smash the like button
it really helps the channel guys it's
for the algorithm so i remember when my
target would look at me
there was one particular thing i used to
do when i had a crush on a girl bro
i'd be leaning back in the chair and i'd
be like imagine this was just a normal
pen lid i'd be like
a while looking at them i'm just staring
at the like this if you're in
school
i thought it looked cool and so now i'm
17 or 18 and i had a crush on this girl
and she sat in the library and i go
sit down right next to her i'm like you
know my heartbeat's like
and i'm like awkwardly like i had a
crush on her i wanted to speak to her
for a while we
kind of like no we like i spoke to her a
couple of times before this
and so i sit down next to her and she's
kind of like when i look back to it now
she's very reserved she wasn't
interested but younger hams are still
trying to so he's
just making small talk eventually she
gets up she starts packing her stuff and
she says
i'm going to go now bye i'm going to go
downstairs and i'm like oh yeah like
me too i'm going to go fill my water
bottle literally like walk down with her
so i'm pretty much following this girl
down the stairs we go from the library
downstairs and she's like two paces in
front of me i'm like speed walking to
get up to it
the water fountains up there but also is
her table where all of her friends sit
so it's like t-minus 10 seconds before
she gets to her friends and there's
witnesses for what i'm about what i'm
doing here and so i need to ask her out
this is like this is the opportunity to
ask her out right now and so
what do you think i did i finally pick
up the courage we've got literally like
two seconds before she gets to the table
and i say
do you want to go see guardians of the
galaxy with me in the cinema
she just looks at me where it says like
oh no and it sits down next to a table
everyone's looking at me
i've just got my water bottle i'm like
one of those guys like holding my water
bottle up here
quickly fill it up and get that out of
there and then things changed when i got
to university i was
correctly sexual i did and i would have
come across
as creepy to a fair amount of girls but
i also came across as flirty and sexual
to a fair amount of girls and that was a
win for me and that is the transition
that most guys are gonna have to go
through and it's uncomfortable and
that's why you're probably stuck in the
early stage
where you're either creepy or you just
don't really polarize women
so that you could even be perceived as
creepy
you have to go through the transition
period where you actually become a
little bit creepy
and then you start getting like good
with women your value goes up you've
been self-improvement you've been
building the body
and then when you actually start to get
some success with girls at least some
people will not find you creepy anymore
and it kind of converts
into this transition and now i literally
don't feel creepy
at all i don't think any woman that i
interact with thinks would be creepy at
all and in fact the girl that i'm dating
i sent her this text she's just saying
rape me out of ten for creepiness on our
first date
and she just said like not at all one
out of ten it was just a bit weird that
she thought
that i had my group of friends with me
like i brought my group of friends to
the dates
but i just got there early and i ended
up just like speaking to people around
me
you know dale carnegie speak to like
this group of utes
and i was just chilling with them when
she came so she thought like i brought
like
my whole gang with me to our first date
and so if i give you a few examples of
my interactions with women over the last
like let's say one to two months there's
a few that come to mind
one is a girl in kickboxing she was in a
couple of my sessions i wanted to speak
to her but i never kind of got
you know got up to her you've probably
had this with girls in your class where
you kind of like want to speak to them
but then you go home and then you kind
of think
oh i should have spoke to her i should
have spoke to her so probably about a
month ago i'm thinking okay today's the
day i'm going to speak to her and i see
her come in and i have like a quick like
nice conversation with her in our
training session and at the end of the
the session i see her like packing up
and i just walked straight up to her and
i said the name
and said what did i say i said like you
really caught my eye today and so i
wanted to speak to you and get your
number and she like she got really happy
like i said it in like a nice way
and she got happy and she said oh that's
so sweet but i'm engaged and she did
this like she's stunted on the
see that ring dumbass i'm engaged
i said something funny i remember saying
like oh is this what heartbreak feels
like
we're laughing i said okay just take it
as a compliment then and i'll see you
next week
yeah i will there you go if there's a
way to approach a girl especially in a
girl who's
in your sort of social situation i don't
think there's
even a better way to do it and then just
a nice genuine compliment
and as soon as you get rejected it's
almost you take it like light-heartedly
where i just joked and i emphasized and
said oh my god you know i'm heartbroken
but
in a funny way and so the reason why
you're creepy i'm assuming you're
creepy but the reason why you're creepy
is because you care too much
this one girl has taken up too many
thoughts in your mind like too much
mental space and that's we can say it's
you just over
investing into a girl who probably
doesn't even know that you exist
that's creepy so remember my library
girl this wasn't the first time like you
know i wanted to speak to her bro she
was like
constantly in my mind for weeks before
this and so i'm going to give you some
pretty depressing but truthful advice
for the beginning stages of dating you
have to not really care much
unless you like this girl you've got to
really not care about her that much for
the first
like beginning stages up until both of
you have had a nice connection together
you've got to have like a nonchalant
vibe where you're just kind of like yeah
like
they're cool that thought comes into
your mind when you think about them and
then you pretty much forget about them
for the entire day
up until you've said that you'd meet up
together and so most guys are creepy for
two reasons
one is that you have the anxious
attachment style which we can refer to
as just
caring too much about that girl and the
other one is that you are low value
you have a low smv sexual market value
so that means then there's two routes
that you can take
to be less creepy so number one is to
battle that anxious attachment style
anxious attachment style is like it's
kind of formed at childhood depending on
how your parents treated you if your
parents made you anxious
so if they shouted at you if they
slapped you if they threatened you
if you kind of felt like the love was
on and off and everything you're
probably going to be the anxious
attachment style you're probably gonna
like
care too much you're gonna overthink
you're gonna over analyze the actions of
people you're gonna like
really your mind gets taken up by your
relationships and so if that feels
relatable to you if you feel like you've
got the anxious attachment style you
have to start
emulating a secure healthy love this
comes from things like doing inner child
work and healing trauma and i know that
this stuff feels
and sounds kind of weird trauma like
most people are traumatized
even though it's not widely talked about
and this stuff is very interesting and
with men especially
men don't really pay attention to this
like we got at childhood
and we've kind of just like we haven't
moved on but we've like moved on from it
our body and our mind
remember but we consciously act as if it
didn't happen
because if you didn't have a perfect
childhood which most people haven't had
you will act in a way as an adult that
kind of reflects
the love and attachment that you got as
a child because when you were a child
your parents acted in a way to make you
believe that
potentially that love was like on and
off through
shouting slapping and threatening
welcome to be an asian and this makes
you cling on to
any love that you can get and this is
why you quickly get attached
and that means that you care too much
and so i can recommend you two books i'm
quite new on this myself so i can't
truly give you much wisdom i don't have
any wisdom on this myself i've got a bit
of knowledge but not enough to like
you know i've got the humility to show
that i can't really teach you much just
yet
but there's two books that i'm going
through one is attached by amir levine
this is
like a very nice book to read and i
highly suggest you get it so you learn
about attachment styles
and the other one is how to do the work
by dr nicole
lipera and this one's a very very
interesting book
if you've been like beat as a child i
highly suggest you start reading this
book
so if you find yourself caring too much
and that might come across as creepy
you have to heal the trauma that you may
have experienced as a child
and then begin to act in a more healthy
secure way and now let's talk about the
second route to stop being creepy
because right now
you are low value because the higher
value you are the higher your
smv your sexual market value pretty much
everything you bring to the table
in terms of dating like your looks money
status and your game
the higher your smv the higher the
barrier
for creepiness so for example if you
cross this height
you're creepy but if you've got hunter
eyes then the height up here if you're
tom cruise if you're a millionaire then
the barrier is way up here so you
understand how this works so maybe
you're a low value
unattractive piece of right now so
your barrier to being creepy is way down
here like no girls want to speak to you
maybe you're like a normal guy it's here
maybe you're a normal guy who's been
working out so it's here maybe you're a
guy who's now jacked and it's like way
up here what's interesting is that i'm
still the anxious attachment style that
hasn't changed but since my value my smv
has changed i have truly felt
this barrier this height of the line of
creepiness
move what actions i might have done
let's say years ago before you know i
got the confidence the looks the body
and the
business and everything would have been
defined as creepy now
no longer is and so for example about a
week ago i was at
the girl that i'm in love with i was at
her house with her mum and obviously she
was there too
so i already know a fair amount about
her but i probably knew like
more than what would be normal because i
had been on to like she got a random
blog that she linked in like
her instagram and everything i've read
the blog post and everything and so we
were just kind of casually talking i was
like yeah
you haven't posted since november have
you
obviously like takes them back something
like someone knows that much detail
about you and i knew her middle name
because i'm like it was in the blog's
url her middle name was there so like i
knew that too and so before i even
thought of this script i said this to
her i said if i wasn't sexy
that would be creepy but because i am
the man i am today
because she loves me because she thinks
of me as like a high value man that
she's attracted to
it actually is a good thing like it gave
i know for a fact it gave her like
a sense of security it showed her my
investment into her because what we said
before creepiness can almost be defined
as like over-investing into a person
caring too much about a person now that
is only creepy
when that person doesn't want your
investment into them because they don't
like you
but the person who likes you the person
who loves you would love to see your
investment into them and so you can act
like this you can take such an
extreme interest into a woman when she
values you in the first place which just
comes from smv now i know that a lot of
random little black pill guys are
watching my videos and i don't
understand why they watch but to my boys
you cannot take like the hopeless path
of the black pill and say that okay your
smv's like fixed at birth or some
you can improve it and the more you
improve it essentially the more that you
can just
get away with and i am living proof that
you can do this
and in my opinion the best thing that
you can do to improve your smv
is building the 10 out of 10 aesthetic
body which you can go down to the
description right now and click on the
link and you'll get
my workout routine sent to you do the
hard work especially when you don't feel
like it
