15 Rules To Live A Happy Life

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this is the sunday motivational video

every Sunday we bring you a different

type of video which should improve your

life today we're looking at 15 rules to

live a happy life welcome to a Lux calm

the place where future billionaires come

to get inspired hey there a lack sirs

initially we were going to make a fluff

video about spirituality and how

happiness comes from within but after

giving it some serious thought we said

screw it let's just do this right it's

unlike any other video about how to be

happy in life that you've probably ever

seen because we're not going to hold

back and fill your head with meaningless

quotes you'll forget in a second instead

we recommend you pay attention to what

we're about to share with you because if

you really absorb this information it

could save you a lot of pain and

sleepless nights you got to put in the

work and not sabotage yourself in order

to live a happy life you basically need

to figure out how to minimize the amount

of stress and harm you caused to

yourself and others combine that with

the satisfaction of achieving some of

your goals and you're off to a great

start if you are new here welcome be

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instagram at a lux if you want to live a

happy life here's our take on the things

you need to get right number one define

from which point you consider yourself

successful the big mistake most people

make is they think they need a billion

dollars to be happy they think they need

a large yacht a big house 100 friends

and millions donated to charity these

people will never make it

money is an amazing tool to have in your

arsenal but that's all it is one of the

tools it's by no means the end goal

statistically you're a lot more likely

to be happy with just two friends than

over 10 because the more the size of

your friend pool increases the less

amount of attention each of the

participants can show one another also

comfort is really awesome but happiness

comes from not having to worry about the


everything beyond basic happiness is

called pleasure if you don't know where

you're going it doesn't matter how hard

you run number two realize how much you

already have and be grateful for it

without the appreciation of how blessed

you really are you're not going to be

able to move forward just take a step

back and analyze your current reality

the fact that you're able to watch this

video right now means you're actually

doing great having access to the type of

information our channel provides is

another form of luxury these days think

of what your life was like five years

ago and how much it's changed for the

better do not take these changes for

granted don't take your health your

family your progress for granted being

grateful for what you already have is

the perfect place to begin this journey

from number three don't eff up the big

things and this is a big one if you get

this one right everything else in this

video is just a bonus the most important

things in life are family health and

relationships get any of these three

wrong and it doesn't matter how much you

try to overcompensate with anything else

your foundation is rotten and your

entire life might collapse if you find

the right partner in life you can

withstand almost anything they have to

throw at you your family is your most

valuable support group you grow up

inside a family and then develop your

own for a reason they have your back no

matter what in order to help others you

need to first help yourself make sure

you're able to do so that's why you need

to be healthy and finally the beauty in

life comes from sharing the good times

with others you will feed your soul with

the relationships you build throughout

your life if those relationships are

toxic your life will be as well

from this point on in the video it's

just strategic tips for incremental

improvements to your life number four

don't compromise the more you do things

you don't want to do the less happy you

are your life is just the sum of events

that take place in order to be happy and

you need to have your conscience clear

every time you do something you don't

want to do you're tearing down pieces of

what makes you you don't stick with the

soul-crushing job stuff letting people

treat you like [ __ ] and never settle for

something or someone who doesn't make

you happy it doesn't get better with

time instead you learn to tolerate it

and it makes this type of existence a

part of who you are

number five stop worrying about things

you can't control

we stress so damn much about things we

can do nothing about that it's no wonder

people are self-medicating to the degree

they are today when faced with such a

situation here's what you need to do 1

make sure you prepare for it beforehand

so it doesn't catch you by surprise

2 once it happens put your best foot

forward and tackle the situation head-on

stressful situations only get worse if

you ignore them 3 once you did

everything in your power to solve the

issue let it go and see what happens and

4 has things progress be ready to react

to new changes if you follow this

four-step plan you can get through

almost anything life throws at you and a

lectures if you're struggling with this

we did two really great videos on the

things you can and can't control in life

click in the top right corner to watch

those it's amazing how much control

people really do have but don't act on

it number six benchmark against yourself

meaning the only person you should

compare yourself with is your past self

it's super easy to look at other people

and feel down on yourself because you

don't have the same level of success the

same level of happiness or the same

types of relationships but what you fail

to realize is that you're comparing

someone else's final chapter with your

first few chapters if you keep putting

in the work keep flipping them pages

you'll get it for yourself too people

don't realize the importance of slow

progress it's more important to move

slowly in the right direction than to

sprint to a place you don't want to

number seven surround yourself with

great people your familia your crew your

squad your friends your tribe they can

turn things around for you if you pick

them right we feed off the energy the

ideas the vibes of other people and

having the right kind of people around

you is such a valuable asset for

yourself and your future almost any

issue you have in life gets a lot easier

if you build the right support system

around yourself you don't need many of

them all you need is a partner who's

willing to go through this life with you

no matter what and one or two friends

who would wake up at 3:00 a.m. and bail

you out if it came to it hopefully it

won't come to that but that's when you

know it's real so how do you make this


to this day there is a single book that

nobody has been able to Tom it's called

how to win friends and influence people

by Dale Carnegie it's probably the best

advice you'll ever get on the issue and

we definitely recommend you get it as an

audiobook so you can listen to it in the

car or at the gym if you go to a locks

calm slash free book and sign up you can

get it for free it was one of the first

books that we read and to this day we

still use some of the things we learned

from it number eight don't overthink

more people miss their chances due to

overthinking than those who don't think

about it at all and just do it don't get

us wrong both ways are kind of dumb but

if opportunities present themselves if

you've done your homework beforehand and

you're ready you need to jump on it

overthinking leads to a life filled with

regrets for not acting when you should

have that's how you end up still

thinking about the girl you should have

kissed or asked out when you were just a

teenager the same pattern of behavior

repeats itself when you're older with

the same type of results people

overthink things that sometimes have an

easy fix or even outside of their


number nine be healthy in order to have

a happy and fulfilled life you need to

be able to enjoy it you should be able

to use all of your senses to appreciate

how fruitful lie

fiz you need to understand that your

health level directly correlates to your

levels of happiness if you're weak and

ill your body's chemistry changes

thus secreting less quantities of the

things that make you feel happy and


you'll make choices based on that

current state of mind

thus behaving in a different fashion

than you would if you were healthy this

doesn't only concern your physical state

either but your psychological one as

well you can be as ripped as you want

but if your mind is not in the right

place you're still unhappy seek ways to

improve both and your chances of living

a happy life will dramatically increase

number 10 appreciate the little things

in life no matter how hard you tell

yourself that you only need to get this

one thing and then you're gonna be happy

life is what happens to you while you're

hustling away towards your dream work as

hard as you want but do it in a fashion

that doesn't make you sacrifice

everything these little moments and

motions you go through every day they

stack up and they form what you know as

your life so you better pay attention to

them because even if you get your dream

goal you might just realize that you've

sacrificed too much and now it wasn't

worth it we recommend you at least know

what to look for that's why we made a

video called 15 little things to

appreciate in life you can watch it by

clicking in the top right corner if you

go through that video and are just aware

of what the most important little things

are you'll be able to avoid falling in

the same traps that many others will we

strongly recommend you check it out if

you haven't already number 11 exercise

your passion happiness comes from doing

the things you love a life lived without

passion is not a life truly lived

you are just alive and then you died

passion is what sets people apart it's

what helps people escape the mundane and

move into a different universe filled

with the most incredible elements

passion pushes people to be better to

create more or simply calms the soul you

need all three in your life to be happy

if you can monetize your passion

that's even better but if you can't at

least find a way to exercise it in some

form or another trust us it will keep

you sane number 12 make other people


guess what making other people happy

results in your being happier for a

longer period of time than just serving

yourself who knew this was the secret to

happiness all along if you can generate

happiness for others everything changes

in your life your energy your mindset

your productivity and attitude towards

life as a whole

you are the living example that good

things are happening in the world the

effect you have on other people

snowballs and creates even more

happiness which you'll find is reflected

back on to you if your life is miserable

you might want to start by changing the

way you treat others number thirteen

disconnect and explore this is another

big one especially in today's social

media centered society recent studies

show that social networks are making you

less happy with your life this is

because nobody is posting their failures

or bad days instead all you see is

people faking happiness and showcasing

feelings you currently don't have access

to we've learned firsthand how fake

social media can be that's why it's

important to disconnect not only from

social media but from your everyday life

we recommend you change your scenery see

new places meet different people and

live different experiences this elevates

who you are as a person the more you

explore and experience the more complex

of a person you become you'll see the

world through new eyes this is what we

are trying to do with our Instagram

account at a Lux apart from introducing

you to some of the best luxury

experiences in the world we try to give

you some ideas to reflect on to think

what your life would be like if you

shifted the way you lived if you're not

following you're missing out plus we

love the community on there as well we

usually reply to private messages so

that's a little secret you now know

number fourteen don't take yourself too

seriously happiness comes from not

pretending to be something you're not

and being embraced by the world for just

that as we keep growing we noticed our

set of values maturing as well but we

never forgot about the inner child that

particular state of mind never went away

and it shouldn't the mind is a dangerous

place for those who no longer see the

beauty in fooling around take that stick

out of your behind and live a little

because those are the best moments in

life and the most great ideas will come

from that place domestication of ideas

only results in what we already know

combine it with desire for more and

you're on the right track that's why the

late Steve Jobs always said stay hungry

stay foolish number fifteen spend money

on experiences not things most things

you buy are depreciating assets while

experiences increase in value as you

grow older we're not talking about

financial investments for the goal of

generating financial returns this has to

do with how much happiness you can get

for your buck

there are many psychology professors who

back up the claim that experiences have

a longer happiness span than material

things you might think that this is

obvious but you'd be amazed by how very

few people leverage this to their

advantage we see many people buy things

like the latest louisvil it's all

supreme hoodie which got disregarded

after a couple of weeks when the same

amount of money could have gotten you an

incredible experience for you and a

loved one that would stick with you


be smart about your happiness a Luxor's

happiness and life wealth doesn't just

happen to you you have to build it for


now we're curious to know which of these

rules mentioned on the list do you think

will make the biggest difference in your

life where will you focus your

attentions next let us know in the

comments and we'll join you in the

conversation and you already know how

this goes as a thank you for sticking

around until the very end you get a

bonus piece of advice that everyone else

will miss

here it is number 16 you can restart

your life right now listen to this very

carefully because it's probably the most

valuable piece of info included in this


your past is already behind you your

future is ahead of you

your future has not been written yet you

have the power to change your path if

you choose to do so it will not be easy

and it will not happen overnight but you

can choose to change the way you live

right now and start acting according to

who you want to be instead of who you've

been so far in less than three months

you can completely turn your life around

drop negative habits make new friends

get healthy choose who you want to be

later on in life and more it all starts

with a desire to restart your life if

you're committed to living better from

now on not making the same mistakes you

have so far and living the best possible

life for yourself please write restart

in the comments this means you have

until the end of the year to get your

life on track to make the next year the

best one of your life so far

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