so you met this girl and you went out
once or twice but you're not sure if she
really likes you and you're not sure if
she's really interested perhaps she
canceled your dates too many times
before she eventually did go out with
you or maybe she's not that good about
returning phone calls sometimes she
would call you back sometimes it would
take her a day or two or even longer to
get back to you and sometimes she
forgets to return your phone call
altogether so how do you know based on
that inconsistent behavior whether that
girl is interested in you well one very
effective way to find that out is by
thinking about one girl in your past who
you know was interested in you think
about that one girl who really liked you
who you know that she liked you do you
remember how she would always show up
for dates do you remember how she would
almost never cancel and if she did she
would usually suggest a different time
to meet because she looked forward to
seeing you do you remember how it wasn't
even an issue whether or not she was
gonna return your phone call you never
had to worry about it and you never had
to put too much effort into getting in
touch with you with her because she
would always get back to you whether
it's my phone but it by email or
otherwise so inconsistency means that
the girl is not really interested in you
the girl who is interested in you and
who likes you and who wants to get to
know you better is thinking about you
just as much or more than you're
thinking about her so she will be there
for dates she will look forward to
hearing from you on the phone and she
will call you back always and promptly
thank you