before I start if I look sick or
anything I'm not sick but I have really
bad allergies today just want to throw
it out there what's up YouTube it's
Brian here and should I say it like a
normal person should I say a like weird
person I don't know you see the today
thing has become kind of a debated topic
on my videos I know a lot of you guys
really like it when I say the anthoula
day and some of you guys think it's
annoying sometimes I think it's annoying
and the reason I started doing that by
the way it's because I said it like that
once on accident everyone made fun of me
so I decided to kind of roll with it and
just make it be cringy and awkward every
time like as a joke but I don't know if
I still want to keep doing it or not so
let me know in the comments right now if
I should keep the crazy today or if I
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and I'll just let you guys decide cool
but for the purpose of today's video
what's up YouTube it's brian here and
bulls-eye as you guys can tell by the
title of the video I'm going to be
talking about how you can pretty much
tell someone that you like them without
actually telling them that you like them
it's been a minute since I've done just
a sit down talking video and especially
a sit down talking video just about
dating things and as you can probably
tell by my most recent videos or maybe
you haven't been around and if you
haven't been around you will now be able
to see by my most recent videos I've
been really trying to do just different
types of content I just don't always
want to do the same thing it's my own
personal thing but I do want to
encourage you guys if by chance you're
here and you haven't been here in a
while
check out some of my more recent videos
they're different no doubt but it would
mean a lot to me if you guys want to
check them out and just see like some
different sides of me that I would
really like to share with you guys no
but seriously it really would mean a lot
if you guys want to check out some of
the other things I'm working on and just
like give me some feedback and that
would mean a lot to me so yeah however
today's video is going back to my roots
and it addresses a question that I get a
lot from you guys and that's pretty much
how to tell someone or in a lot of your
cases to tell a guy that you like them
but you're kind of nervous to tell them
because you don't want to be the first
person I do it or you're just like most
people and have a hard
telling someone that you like them like
that's something that doesn't change
with age that's always a scary thing
so sometimes or probably honestly most
times it's a lot easier to try and show
someone that you like them than it is to
just simply tell them that you like them
and I think there's ways that you can
actually do that regardless if you're a
guy or a girl and regardless if you're
talking to a guy or a girl so I made a
list and here are some ways that you can
tell someone that you like them without
telling them that you like that so the
first way you can tell someone that you
like them without actually telling them
that you like them is pretty simple just
be around the person a lot I know it
seems obvious but the more you just kind
of put yourself around someone the more
it shows that you're interested in
someone it's like people I like even
just as friends like I just want to hang
out with them because either they are
fun to be around or they're funny and
silly and weird like me or whatever it
might be if you like someone just try to
be around them try to find reasons to
hang out with them to talk to them and I
feel like the more you're kind of around
someone the more it's gonna be like why
does this person always around me either
they like me or they're a creeper but
let's hope they like me and that's a
great example of how me and Hermione are
but right now we're not on great talking
terms because I didn't get her Coachella
tickets so she's giving me the cold
shoulder zone another way to tell
someone you like them without actually
doing so is by just being very friendly
and smiling a lot and just being very
like vibrant around the person most
likely if you like someone you're gonna
laugh a lot around them or smile or
blush or just be happy and that's gonna
be forced I don't think but make sure
you're showing that like if someone like
makes you feel good and makes you happy
like make sure that they know that
they're doing that you don't have to be
like oh my god you make me feel so happy
because that's kind of weird to say but
just by like being able to be open and
having fun with the person like the best
relationships stem from people who just
get along together and I've had
relationships in my past where I just
dated someone cuz I thought they were
really cute and I've had relationships
where I gave them because
I just really enjoy being around them
and the relationships I had where I came
from like a organic friendship and just
having fun together we're so much better
like then than the other ones and you
learn that you know eventually but still
just have fun if they're if they make
you happy
show them that you're happy and that's a
great way to say I like you without
saying I like you you know Jesus another
way to tell someone you like them
without actually saying it and this is
probably the most important one is
through body language I think most
flirting is done through body language
more so than like through words and you
can just read so much by someone's body
language and not even just with flirting
like how engage they are if they're
listening to you like if I'm like up
propped up and you know receptive or if
I'm kind of like you know slouched down
looking around like you know body
language really is important in a bunch
of different areas of life and I think
it's definitely important when you're
trying to like flirt with someone or
maybe give off a certain feeling or vibe
to someone and to me it's like for
example a lot of times as a guy like if
I were gonna try to kiss a girl I would
want to feed off her body language to
see if she's interested like there's
always this look of it like a few
seconds of like a stare and I always
feel like you can kind of tell if you
weren't given the approval to go in for
the kiss or you're if you were not given
the approval going for the kiss quite
frankly I've had both I've had the good
times and I had a time where I thought I
was getting the approval I went for the
kiss and got the nod with a nice hug and
I was like oh I hate myself cringe eeeh
smo minh in my life you know
no but seriously body language is a
great way to kind of express how you're
feeling and sometimes you're doing it
without even knowing so when it comes to
flirting and trying to tell someone you
like them if you're being very attentive
and smiley and if you are like a wink ER
and you wink is that a thing being a
weaker I don't know if you're able to
wink really well I can't do it on
command it just has to happen naturally
anyway all those different things are
great ways to show that you are into
someone without really having to be like
I thank you another way to tell someone
you liked it is by complimenting them
compliments are terrific and totally
underused have you ever noticed how
simple compliments from random people
can literally
your entire day someone telling you they
like your outfitter that you have a nice
smile and it could be a friend or a
family member or a random person on the
street
compliments are just so cool I don't
understand why people don't just give
out compliments more but regardless if
you like someone I'm sure there's
something you can compliment them about
it could be about themself as a person
their appearance something they do just
compliments are awesome and the more you
compliment someone the more that
person's gonna be like oh this person
thinks I'm pretty good maybe this person
likes me I like it hey I think you're
pretty cool I like you a lot maybe we
could hang out or something's another
great way to tell someone you like them
or at least kind of show that you might
like them is by asking them if they like
anyone click the pressure on them you
know like let's see how they respond to
that do they get kind of like flustered
do they have like a very simple answer
you know you can kind of read a lot of
what that person has to say or what
they're feeling when you ask someone
that question because it's putting them
on the spot but it doesn't put you on
the spot because you're just asking a
question and if that person kind of gets
you know a little flustered or like
flirty or maybe even just says they like
you then boom problem solved then you
can at least maybe say it back or if you
don't like can't really say it back you
can probably show it you'll probably
naturally be showing it you don't even
have to try because you're gonna be
really embarrassed and like get all red
or at least that's what I would do so by
asking someone if they like someone that
puts the pressure on them and is a great
way to kind of ease into the fact that
you're trying to tell them that you like
them hopefully - hopefully they like you
back so yeah and the last way to tell
someone you like them without actually
saying it is to really just try and show
interest in the things that they're
interested in and just doing little
things to kind of show the person you're
trying to become closer and closer to
them as a friend it's the little things
that count maybe the person you like is
super in support night like every other
person right now or at least all my
friends and I love for today just saying
and like maybe like be like oh yeah I
watched this video on fortnight it seems
kind of interesting like I'm kind of
down to try it
boom wife material okay a girl that
plays fortnight girl teased my heart if
I want you in my life I'm a far the way
no but showing interest
what someone's interested in it's a
great way to show that you're just
really passionate about that person and
yeah there you guys have it uh like I
said I really had it done a video like
this in a while
I kind of want to just do a sit-down
videos looking through comments and this
was a suggested video by quite a few of
you and I thought maybe it'll be helpful
and it would just be nice to kind of sit
down as Brian and talk to you guys give
you some advice and plug my other stuff
because I've really been working hard on
some things and I and I really think you
guys would like it so make sure to check
out out if you are interested so yeah
but anyway thank you guys so much for
watching if you guys liked the video
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oh also let me know in the comments what
you guys thought if there's any other
things that you think are helpful and
trying to tell us someone you like them
if you're having a hard time and also
let me on the comments or other types of
videos you guys would like to see I'm
always open to suggestions you already
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