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6 Ways To Live A Happy Life



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if you travel everywhere around the

world you'll find that people have this

one trait in common they all want to be

happy people whether you go to China or

Brazil or India or Japan wherever you go

you'll find that everyone wants to be

happy now Dale Carnegie once said that

success is getting what you want but

happiness is wanting what you get and

you really have to understand that

happiness is not an external factor it's

not like when the Sun shines I'll be

happy or when I meet the wife of my

dreams or the husband of my dreams I'll

be happy or anything outside of you

right you're not going to be happy if

you get a job or if you make more money

you're going to be happy if you accept

yourself if you love what you do if you

feel fulfilled so today I'm going to

give you six things that you can do to

live a more happy life the first thing

you have to do is appreciate everything

now sometimes when you wake up it's hard

to really appreciate everything because

you think of the day-to-day struggles

you think of what's going on at work

what's going on your family what's going

on with yourself your health right

there's so many different things and

sometimes it could be distracting

because really you have to think about

the fundamentals if you really consider

that most of the people around the world

do not have food you would be pretty

grateful for where you are right now or

that most of the people are not working

the kind of jobs that they want to work

I'm pretty sure you'll be happy or for

instance most of the people don't even

have drinking water you'll be happy now

consider all those things right consider

that your rows are already paved right

that you already have taxes that you can

pay for government workers to help you

to become a better civilian right you

already have food on your table every

day these things sometimes are taken for

granted and so we have to understand

that the essence of life is to

appreciate if you appreciate things

going to get more of it it's like if you

appreciate your loved ones you're going

to get more hugs more kisses right

they're going to help you they're going

to be there they're going to support you

so appreciate the things that you have

instead of the things that you don't

have and you'll be a lot more happier

the second thing you want to do to live

a happy life is to stop complaining

Abraham Lincoln once said that we can

complain that rose bushes have thorns or

we can rejoice that thorn bushes have

roses you see you have to be thankful

for what you have but you also have to

stop complaining about what you don't

have the money you don't have the

neighbors that you think are so annoying

the family members that you think gossip

so often right stop complaining stop

criticizing and start being thankful

when you do this you'll find that your

appreciation is going to help you to be

happier in your life the third thing you

want to do is tell the truth right

someone once said that you shall know

the truth and the truth shall set you

free and the fact is that a lot of

people try to delude themselves they try

to tell themselves that certain things

aren't the way they are like there's

people who are obese that tell

themselves that they're still in good

shape or people who say that they have

good money but they know it can get

better right so ask yourself what is the

truth what must I do to change what must

I do to identify with the truth and make

these radical changes in my life so that

I can live more truthful and become more

of the person that I want to be the

fourth idea that's really going to make

you happy is to search your heart search

your intentions search your motives and

ask yourself am I really pursuing this

goal with the right mind

am I really loving the people that I'm

serving am I really giving back in

compassion right search your heart and

ask yourself if these are the things

that are required to push you to the

next level right we have to check

ourselves before we reckon ourselves

every day and what I want you to do is

to take a moment

and think about your intentions think

about your motives and think about if

you're loving today or if you're showing

resentment right you want to love you

want to give people your compassion you

want to show them that you care so love

people but search your heart before you

do the fifth thing that you want to do

is to confide with other people

confide with people that you trust and

these people are called confidants

now many of us have at least two

confidants people that we tell

everything to some of us have only one

right but we definitely have people that

we can talk to that really trust us

right and so we have to be vulnerable to

them we have to actually tell them

what's going on in our world and see

their perspective and actually be able

to let go some of the hindrances that

are stopping us from living successfully

you see if you want to be happy you're

to be able to express yourself to people

who really care so sometimes what I do

is I write my journal and I write to my

Higher Self alright to God that I speak

to myself as I reflect on the changes

that I need to make and maybe that's

what you need to do sometimes it might

take 10-15 minutes sometimes it might

even take an hour but do whatever it

takes to get inside your deeper self and

confide whether it's to yourself a

higher power or to someone that really

loves you either way you're going to

have to get it out if you want to be

happy and the six idea is to really

trust yourself a lot of times people go

out and they live their lives but they

don't trust themselves fully they end up

bending with the wind and they don't

really decide what they want to

accomplish because they don't really

know if they can do it but really what I

want you to do is to trust yourself I

want you to understand that you're

capable of reaching that next level of

success I'm not saying you have to go

for the highest level of success and

absolutely demand that you're going to

crush it but what I'm saying is that

trust that you're going to be able to

transition in that new job or trust that

you're going to be able to start that

new business or that your relationships

will work out right and part of trust is

having faith and faith is knowing that

what you want will come to fruition as

long as you believe it

so trust yourself and you'll trust

everyone else

everyone will trust you you know I feel

so good about this I'm gonna give you a

bonus one comparison right one of the

things that people do that really stops

them from living happily is they end up

comparing themselves to other people

other places other ideas they start

looking at how everyone else is dressing

and they say well I can't really dress

like that or what kind of money that

other person is making and they say I

can't really do that because that's not

me well the fact is that it doesn't have

to be you you see comparison is the

thief of joy and if you're allowing

comparison to rob you of who you are

then you're really cutting yourself

short I want you to live more gladly

more joyfully and if you should be

comparing you should be comparing to

your former self because your future

self will thank you for in order to live

a happy life you have to take in all the

experiences your to appreciate

everything you have you have to stop

comparing yourself you got to stop

blaming and criticizing other people and

start knowing that everything will work

out to your benefit you see when you

succeed everyone benefits so be able to

live happily live prosperously and make

those changes in your life so that you

can be the success of your dreams thank

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