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hold up all of these videos that preach
about spirituality and how happiness
comes from right within yet alright fine
but in the real world that stuff doesn't
really work for real people like you and
me what we need is some real talk that's
why this video is the best that's why
this video is so different from all of
the other videos out there I'm not going
to fill your head with loads and loads
of quotes saying that this is an easy
thing to do and all of this jars that
you know what living a carefree and
happy life comes easy to everyone it's
an easy walk in the pod
it's full of sunshine and rainbows and
butterflies cuz it's not it takes hard
work and ain't no walk in the park
leading a carefree and happy life comes
from not having to worry about the
basics anything more than the basics as
pleasure
now in this video I'm not going to go
into detail about every single little
point because this be honest year ain't
no good time for that what I will be
doing though is I will be going over all
of the brief points that I myself have
used that has helped me lead a carefree
and happy life now at the end of the day
is entirely up to you whether you choose
to follow any of these points and
improve your life if not hey that's all
good why don't you leave a comment down
below and let let me know about some of
the things that you do to lead a
carefree and happy lifestyle to start
leading a carefree and happy life
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let's get into it take responsibility
for your actions you alone are in charge
of what you think and how you think when
you're thinking negatively you influence
all have loads of things around you at
the end of the day there are a lot of
things are out of your control what
people say what people do so you know
what forget it
take responsibility for yourself and
your actions and things will get better
allowing you to need a carefree and a
healthy life the other thing that you
have to do in order to lead a carefree
and a happy life is to list all of the
negative things in your life write them
down and see what you can take control
of what you can change and make it
happen you have to learn how to forgive
yourself and forgive others as well life
is too short to be spending so much
energy on worrying about things that
people have done that people have said
trust me by forgiving yourself by
forgiving others you will feel that
burden lifted you will feel light and
that energy and that carefree lifestyle
that you want will only come with that
get rid of all of those negative nancies
now how many times have you actually
been with somebody and you've had a
10-minute conversation with them and all
that's happened after those 10 minutes
is
you have felt so deflated like your
energy reserves have gone right down
yeah trust me how many friends do you
have that are always complaining and
moaning about one thing or another how
many friends do you have that can always
do something better than you can well
you know what get rid of them they are
gonna do nothing for you instead they
are gonna drag you down trust me you
need to surround yourself with people
that are thinking just like you with
people who have similar interest like
yourself with people who are going to
support you and not drag you down people
that are going to replenish your energy
and not suck that energy from you so
whatever negative nancies you have in
your life make sure that you get rid of
them get up dress up and show now look
this one doesn't take a lot of
explanation you get up in the mornings
you dress to the nines you put on your
favorite Cologne your favorite perfume
and you get out of the house now when
you dress it up you're not dressing up
to impress anyone
you're only dressing up to impress
yourself when you look good you feel
good when you smell good you feel good
and by getting out there no matter what
it is whether you're going to work or
even if you have to force yourself to go
for a walk it is gonna help you lead a
carefree and a healthier lifestyle go
with your gut we spend way too long
overthinking things analyzing things
worrying about things what if this
happens what if that happens man
whatever whatever will happen will
happen
deal with it just go with it over time
we suppress our natural instinct our gut
feeling our sixth sense and do the
opposite of what is telling us because
why it's the safest option because
Society may not deem it appropriate
appropriate for who for them or for you
look at the end of the day if you
suppress this gut feeling the instincts
in the sixth sense that you have to do
something that your heart desires
within reason of course trust me you
will live a life full of regret do you
really want to be on your deathbed
saying what if don't compromise for
anyone or for anything the more often
you do things that you don't want to do
or you compromise you kill a bit of your
essence you kill what makes you you find
a job that doesn't crush your soul don't
go out if you don't feel like going out
just to impress your friends just to
make them happy make yourself happy
learn to say stop learn to say no you do
the things that you want to do even if
you have to do it alone because the goal
is for you to have a carefree and happy
life
don't settle for someone or something
that doesn't make you happy
because at the end of the day you're
going to learn to tolerate it and living
like that basically sucks it leads to
regret and resentment and no one wants
to live like that okay okay so granted
that does sound a little bit selfish but
hallo this is how the world works
everyone looks up for numero uno
everyone looks up for themselves first
and then they look out for other people
health is wealth what is the point in
living a carefree and a happy lifestyle
if you don't have the health to enjoy
your health is directly connected with
your mind and your mind controls your
mood and it's your mood that allows you
to lead a carefree and a happy life if
you're weak ill unhealthy your body's
chemistry changes meaning that your body
isn't producing the right chemicals that
you need to lead a carefree and happy
life and you'll make choices based on
that current state of mind health just
isn't about how strong you are how many
abs you've got mental health is a major
part of leading a carefree and
a lifestyle without a healthy mind
healthy body is useless so you need to
keep both your mind and your body
healthy follow your dreams with passion
not everyone is going to be as
passionate about the same things as you
but guess what who cares
they aren't living your life you are
they aren't paying your bills you are
therefore you should go out there and
follow your dreams and do it with
passion a life lived without passion is
just going from day to day until you die
doesn't sound like fun does it it's
passion that sets you aside from the
crowd it's passion that gives you the
escape from life allowing you to
recharge yourself it not only gives you
the energy that we need to lead a
carefree and a healthier life but is fun
and that's what following your dreams
passionately does it makes life fun and
in order to lead a carefree and a happy
life you've gotta have fun whatever you
do in life do it with passion
care less now hold up hold up let's just
get one thing straight there's a massive
difference between caring less and being
careless careless people don't pull
their weight they're negligent they
complacent
they're lazy and frankly they don't give
it about anyone what we want to aim for
is care ringless we gotta care less
about what our smelly co-worker who sits
in the corner picking their nose says
who cares what the negative nancies say
who cares what he did was she said care
less it's caring about the important
things in life like your family your
friends your health and forgetting all
of that other nonsense you save so much
more energy by caring less and that's
the energy that you gotta use to live a
carefree and a happy life know thyself
this is probably one of the most
important steps that you need to lead a
carefree and a happier lifestyle know
who you are know what you are know what
you want know what you like know what
you don't like all of these things are
going to lead to one thing that we need
to lead a carefree and happy lifestyle
self confidence when you have
self-confidence you will have the
courage and the ability to tell people
no when you don't want to do something
in a polite way of course but at the end
of the day the most important thing is
people would respect you because you
have your own opinion you have your own
thoughts no one likes a yes-man this is
where it starts and this is where it
ends don't let anybody stand in your way
these points are simply things that I
have done in my own life to allow me to
lead a carefree and healthy lifestyle
look they may work for you well they may
not but it's up to you to decide what to
do to lead a healthier carefree and
happy lifestyle yes your life is in your
hands
let me know in the comment sections down
below what's work for you and if you
have your own suggestions on how to lead
and carefree and happier lifestyle
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