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How to Mindfuck a Guy (Use The Rule of 3 to Make Him Obsessed With You)
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you know what's up ladies this is Alex
from mindful attraction 2.0 and in
today's video we're gonna be talking
about a very controversial topic I'm
getting a lot of people subscribe to
this channel my god this is it no more
so much [ __ ] no it's good it's
called how to mind [ __ ] a guy all right
now a warning this is not how to make
him love you this had a mind [ __ ] home
in order to make him obsessed with you
so when you use these tactics realize
that the attachment that arises from
this is very unhealthy
it makes them attached to you it makes
them seek your validation so it's gonna
be very emotional to you he's going to
be act to you he's not gonna be himself
around you because he's gonna be afraid
but he's gonna be longing for more of
that validation it creates an addiction
so this is more of a warning that if
you're gonna be using is make sure to
use in moderation very extreme
moderation and also have good intentions
happen ever learned intentions don't
have an elephant intentions because this
could really [ __ ] what a guy it could
really mess him up for his whole life if
you have bad intentions so I trusted you
guys on our Evo and [ __ ] up in the
head right and they're not gonna use
this for bad things okay so anyways I
started so we're gonna be using what I
call the rule of three which is creating
comfort through establishing a pattern
creating pain to removing that pattern
and breaking it and then rewarding right
so simple the comfort is in the form of
pattern for example let's say like I
text you every single day at 8 a.m.
right what happens you begin to
anticipate that and then suddenly it's
81 day I stop texting you you notice
that why because it's been a pattern the
pattern that we have of the Sun the Sun
always rises in the morning it's a
pattern if it doesn't happen we're
[ __ ] screwed first of all I think
what we like what the [ __ ] is happening
this usually doesn't happen our minds
begins to focus in on that one thing
that breaks the pattern so you show
validation you show that you like you
you really do you really show that you
like him you you actually become
vulnerable
you know you text them a lot you text
him in the morning and you show that you
appreciate at home right and then
suddenly what you want to do is to break
that pattern is to create pain so what's
gonna happen is that when you inflict
pain he thought he had you he thought
that he had your validation and if you
containing that pattern he is going to
lose attraction because he's going to
take that for granted
you see so he's gonna begin to become
interesting other people so what you
want to do then is to create pain now
this pain comes in many different forms
right one second okay this pain can come
in many different forms for example like
showing less enthusiasm for a couple
days in the relationship if if you
usually call and you're very excited and
you're very curious about his life and
what he did in a day you don't text him
that much and you don't call him that
much and when you do call you don't
you're actually you break you stop the
conversation short or you tell him
you're gonna call him back and you don't
call him back like you start acting
suddenly unattractive I mean
unattractive term but being less
enthusiasm because enthusiasm is a mark
of a good relationship when you don't
have a lot of enthusiasm for what
happens you bored and the person feels
that especially if you were excited and
you showed a lot of attraction this also
means that it takes is gonna take
self-control on your part and being able
to relax in the midst of chaos because
you're gonna feel the need to show how
much you like him but you're gonna be
doing this because the lack of
enthusiasm is gonna make him desperate
for you he's gonna make him think why is
she acting this way another way to
inflict pain is to like for example like
a tennis salsa class why because when
you attend thousands of class what
happens you're dancing salsa and you
tell him I'm getting started in his
class and his mind is gonna immediately
realize one thing what is other guys
there right and that pain that thought
create pain it makes me realize [ __ ]
are the guys it puts them in a sexually
competitive state so what happens he is
gonna be looking for your validation
he's gonna be showing more attention
because you inflated a pain now the door
over heart is open for your validation
now any form of validation any form of
Attraction any form of attention hits
harder and resonates even better he's
not gonna see it
as needy because if you kept the pattern
or showing validation what happens he's
gonna begin to see you as needy but if
he show validation and then break the
pattern by flicked in pain like on a
sow's a class or doing things the way he
knows there's other guys there or even
being less enthusiastic and for the
relationship for a couple days tell him
that you're gonna call him and I call
him back not showing a lot of emotions
when you're texting for example we move
in the haha' and then lol's for a couple
days so that he could get you screwed
and very basic text it makes a guy
wonder what's going on what's the
different let me call her and she seems
less enthusiastic right and when you
call on me you sound less enthusiastic
you time you're gonna call them back and
you don't back in flex pay because it
makes you feel uncertain and now when
you do that then whenever you show
attraction it hits better because it's
like ah [ __ ]
thank you she really does like me she
really does love me so and that's why
when you do it that's why that's
actually one of the best things to do
because it maintains the attraction but
don't do this in excess do this in very
light ways just be less enthusiastic for
one day and then just stop right just
just let them think just for one day
don't go hard be do this in very
moderation but if you okay so use this
but don't do use it often you see what
I'm saying don't don't use your outfit
because it's gonna [ __ ] with God you you
have to be aware that if you continually
make a guy feel insecure it's gonna [ __ ]
my house otras pee pee no be madder
about this all right I'm hoping that you
guys are evil and [ __ ] up in the head
I'm not gonna use this the wrong way all
right I trust you guys you guys met it's
here right yeah I trust you guys yeah
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