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Today, we’re showing you 8 of the best ways to keep a conversation going with a girl.
As most guys have experienced, keeping a conversation going with a girl you like can be pretty tough.
But if you know some basic tips, a few powerful tricks, it becomes surprisingly simple.
So.... to help you talk to women, here are 8 powerful ways to keep a fun conversation
flowing with a girl.
1.Know When To Continue The Conversation
...Or more specifically, know when NOT to continue a conversation.
Sometimes, a woman just won’t want to talk you, or really, talk to any guy.
She might have a boyfriend, she might not be interested, or she might just have a lot
on her mind.
How can you tell if she isn’t interested and probably doesn’t want to talk?
She won’t be: making prolonged eye contact, asking you questions, or giving you her full
So if she isn’t doing any of those, she probably doesn't want to talk,
and it’s probably best to let the conversation end.
2. Ask The Right Type Of Questions
While asking a lot of questions is better
than not asking any, asking the right ones is a far more powerful
way to keep the conversation engaging.
What exactly are the right types of questions?
They’re open-ended ones, that go beyond the surface level, and show her you’re really
Not only do they tell you more about her, but they also keep her genuinely engaged and
involved in the conversation.
3. Offer Information About Yourself
So now you know it’s great to show her your
genuine interest, by asking questions, but unless you want your conversation to feel
less like a conversation, and more like a one-sided job interview...
be sure to tell her a little about yourself and let her ask you some questions.
And this makes sense, right?
Because just like you want to get to know her, she probably really wants to get to know
4. Search Out Her ‘Conversational Leads’
Here’s a surprise most guys might not realize
at first: Women are constantly handing you topics that
they want to talk about, and if you’re really listening, you can
learn how to easily easily pick up on them.
For example: If she says something like “I need a vacation,”
she probably wants to rant about her job or something stressful in her life.
Now, by picking up on those cues, not only do you show her that you’re listening to
her, but that you can also have more than a surface-level
5. Don’t ‘Filter’ Your Thoughts.
When you really don’t want to mess up a conversation with a girl,
it can be easy to avoid topics that you think she wouldn’t want to talk about.
But think about it this way: If you’re constantly filtering, you’re
not letting the conversation flow… and if that’s happening, how can you expect
to have a real conversation?
So instead of worrying so much about how you might come across to her,
Just be yourself and talk about what’s really on your mind.
6. Don’t Panic When There’s Silence
Humans are generally uncomfortable with the
dreaded awkward silence, so it’s incredibly natural to try to avoid
it in a conversation.
But if you know how, you can easily make quieter moments work to your advantage:
For example: You can check to see if her body language
is telling you something, you can show her that
You’re confident and calm (by not panicking in the silence),
you could even flirt with her by looking into her eyes, then giving her a genuine smile.
7. Drop A Compliment Late In The Conversation
While most women love flattery, especially
from a guy they’re interested, they don’t need or want compliments all
But luckily, overdoing it is pretty easy to avoid,
because there’s an even better way to do it:
Next time you want to compliment her, Just wait until late in the conversation and
give her a sincere compliment.
Not only will it show her that you don’t just hand out random compliments,
but if she blushes, laughs or compliments you back, you’ll know she’s probably into
8. Give The Conversation A Definite End
Walking away from a great conversation is
incredibly hard, it also practically guarantees that you’ll
be talking again soon.
Most women have been in countless conversations that have dragged on too long…
and for most of those, they were probably pretty happy when they were over.
Do you want her to think that about your conversation?
Of course not, right?
So even if it’s hard, let the conversation end naturally, and save something for next
That’s 8 proven ways to keep the great conversation going with a girl.
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