Hey guys, Beardy and Kay from Mantelligence here,
And today we’re going to show you exactly how to talk to girls and how to spot the telltale
signs she wants you to talk to her Because knowing how to flirt with a girl is
an invaluable skill that every guy needs to learn.
Think about it.
Being all alpha and attractive is pointless if you don’t know how to approach a girl
AND talk to her.
You gotta be able to walk the walk AND talk the talk.
And at the end of this video, we’re also going to show you the most common sign that
she’s definitely NOT interested that most guys miss.
5. She Cracks the Door Open
Guys, tell me if this sounds familiar.
You spot someone you like and start looking for signs she wants you as much as you want
But there’s so much going on, it’s hard to tell if she’s just having a good time
or if she’s sending you the vibes.
But fellah, let it be known: the devil is in the details.
If she’s into you at all, she’ll show you certain subtle body language signs she’s
attracted to you.
And the most common body language sign to look for is openness.
If a girl likes you and is secretly hoping you’ll talk to her, she’ll make sure to
face her body towards you, either fully or partially depending on the girl.
On the other hand, if her back is to you, and she makes no effort to face your direction
she either hasn’t noticed you yet, isn’t really in the mood to meet someone and chat
it up, or just isn’t into you.
And the whole time she’s thinking “man do I really have to come out and tell this
guy that it ain’t gonna happen?
I’m trying to be considerate here…”
Make note of this closed off body language and wait for her to show signs of openness
before breaking the ice.
4. She Gives You the Mona Lisa Gaze
But just a couple body language signs of openness
don’t necessarily scream green light.
A key sign that she’s not just open for conversation, but open to YOUR conversation,
is the direction of her gaze.
A girl usually isn’t going to look directly at you right off the bat.
Instead, if she’s interested in you, she’ll give you the Mona Lisa gaze because she’ll
want to give you ample opportunity to notice her without blowing her cover..
And she’ll be paying very close attention to your body language once you do.
Here’s what to look for.
If she consistently looks in your general direction but not directly at you, you can
be certain she’s displaying one of the hidden signs a girl likes you.
Because she’s looking in your direction to make sure you notice her and to see how
you react when you do.
But she’s avoiding direct eye contact because she wants to play it cool until she feels
more confident that you feel the same way that she does.
It’s one of the classic signs a girl wants you to approach her.
So if you see a girl repeatedly looking in your direction, but not yet staring you down,
get your flirting pants on ‘cause it’s time to break the ice.
3. The Shampoo Commercial Hair Flip
Guys, if you catch a girl showing signs of
openness towards you, you’re gonna wanna wanna stick through to the end of this list
signs a girl wants you.
These foolproof signs a woman wants to be approached are a guaranteed green light.
And if a girl is into you and wants you to know it, she’ll show you one or more of
One of the most common signs to look out for is to see if she plays with her hair.
And guys, it won’t be super obvious like a woman in a shampoo commercial.
But if it is, drop what you’re doing and run over there ‘cause it’s on like donkey
Instead, it will likely be quick and subtle, so pay attention for this behavior.
She might just tousle her hair from one side to the other, or quickly run her fingers through
And the beautiful part about this body language sign is that she probably won’t even realize
she’s doing it.
Some women display this behaviour so prominently when they’re attracted to someone that they’ll
put their hair up or down, or keep switching back and forth.
However dramatic the tell, you can be sure she’s interested if you see her playing
with her hair.
Now hang on guys.
Before you rush out to hit the town in search of the key signs a woman wants to be approached,
Don’t forget that at the end of this video we’re going to share the one surefire sign
she’s not in the mood for your shenanigans.
And the next half of the video is all about what to do once you realize the signs she’s
So stick with us’ til the end.
Now, here are the last 2 items on our list.
2. Playfully Avert Your Eyes
So Kay, what do you do if a girl is showing
all the signs she wants you to talk to her?
Beardy, great question.
But before we get into how to talk to your crush, this is exactly what to do when a girl
looks at you.
If you’re hanging out and you notice a girl noticing you, showing signs of open body language,
and playing with her hair, Before you head over to break the ice, try
this simple trick to build up a little excitement.
Research has continually showed that prolonged eye contact can enhance feelings of attraction,
If you haven’t met your crush yet, too much eye contact can be creepy.
So when you’re trying to meet a girl for the first time, a little bit of eye contact
will go a long way.
So here’s the trick that most alpha guys use because it works flawlessly.
Catch her gaze, make brief eye contact, and here’s the truly alpha assassin trick...
Give a gentle smile and look away.
Here’s why this simple gesture is so effective.
The gentle smile is an acknowledgement that you liked the eye contact, while the look
away signals that you’re not a desperate, creepy weirdo.
It’s a good way to build a little trust and a lot of interest.
1. Say “Hi, I’m Beardy”
So Kay, guys often ask what to do next once
they’ve made eye contact.
What’s the best way to actually approach a girl without being weird or creepy?
Beardy, you wanna know exactly how to pick up women the easy way?
Should I be like super nice and compliment her outfit or something?
Guys, it’s even more fundamental than that: don’t be the nice guy.
It’s the fast track to the friend zone.
The easiest approach is to just be yourself and be genuine.
And the easiest way to break the ice is to just say hi, introduce yourself, and put out
your hand for a friendly hand shake.
Is it really that easy, Kay?
Yep, it’s just that easy, Beardy.
Anything else is just gimmicky.
Pick up lines & unsolicited compliments can work really well when perfectly executed in
the right situation, but they can also backfire and epically fail.
Just keep it simple when you meet a girl for the first time by introducing yourself, and
ask some easy questions to get the conversation rolling.
If the conversation is going well, you’re getting her to smile, and you’re still into
her - I mean let’s not pretend you haven’t started talking to someone and changed your
mind - then start working in a little flirtation
to let her know you’re into her.
The #1 Sign that She’s NOT Into You that Most Guys Miss
Okay Beardy, now I’m super intrigued.
What’s the most common sign that she’s NOT into you that most guys miss?
Well, let’s say you see a girl you like, she’s showing open body language signs toward
you, smiling, basically all the stuff we’ve talked about
All the planets are aligning and you head over to introduce yourself and spark up some
tantalizing conversation when ... WHAM!
You’re hit with a cold, hard brick of nothing.
Just a cloud of painfully awkward conversation and negative body language.
And you’re like, “WTF just happened?
All the signs were there.”
Well fellas, there is a certain percentage of girls out there who may express interest
but who may not actually be available at the time.
These are girls who are generally curious as to whether or not the grass is greener.
Maybe they’re in a relationship that’s not going real well, or maybe they just got
out of a relationship and aren’t ready to meet new people.
Whatever their reason, the important thing to remember is it’s not you; it’s them.
But here’s how to weed them out of the crowd.
Next time you catch all the right signs, you’ve made the eye contact and exchanged a quick
smile, pause for a moment and watch how she responds immediately after eye contact or
right before you make your move.
If she starts to position herself away from you or place her back to you, it’s a clear
sign that she’s not quite ready to meet.
The best thing to do in this situation is to find an opportunity to give her another
comforting smile to show her that you understand, but you’ll be riiiiiiight over here in case
she changes her mind.
Guys, those are the 5 hottest signs she wants
her plus the one sign that she’s not quite ready
that most guys miss.
Hope you enjoyed the video.
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