if you're a guy would you date a girl
who is taller than you
let's talk about it so I know the
conventional way of picking your partner
if you're a guy you want to pick a girl
who's shorter than you if you're a girl
you want to pick a guy who's taller than
you and has been kind of a it's kind of
been the norm and then generally the the
average height of women are short is
shorter than average height of men so
that kind of works out right but there
are couples and I'm sure you've seen
them out and about right where the guy
is actually shorter than the girl and so
and that you know sometimes you know it
looks a little bit odd you know I'm I
don't I should say odd but definitely
it's unusual right and I'm you know I
thought about it and I wonder I wonder
what what what people do think when they
see a guy who's shorter than his
girlfriend because I used to not liking
with my girlfriend would wear you know
heels and and she would be even on you
know the same level as me but somehow
recently I started to embrace it I don't
even know when it started I kind of
started to think that it's kind of cool
for your girl to be even maybe a little
bit taller and now now we actually do go
out sometimes where I'll wear shoes
there will be very flat so I would be
just my height right and she would wear
platforms and heels you know where she
would kind of tower over me and I kind
of think it's kind of cool there's
something about a woman who is this
confident and this in love with her man
that you know obviously she's dating him
not for his you know amazing stature
right but but because she is in love
with him right though sometimes there
are other reasons but you know it
definitely shows the dedication of the
woman to the guy in another and another
hand the guy you know I I feel like the
guy is appears even manly because hey
he's a shorter guy but he is where the
girl who's taller than him and he has no
problems where the kid doesn't feel you
know inferior or kind of odd about it he
died and I feel like it's empowering I
think it's actually very manly and the
confidence that the guy has when
he has a girlfriend or wife next to him
who is taller it is actually kind of
cool so once in a while even though my
girlfriend is you know shorter than me
but not by much where we cannot kind of
recreate recreate where she can appear a
little bit taller than me and we go out
like that and I kind of enjoy doing that
I know we get some odd looks and and and
such but overall I kind of think it's
cool I think it really kind of cuts into
their very you know the standards of the
regular couple dynamics that people
expect you to have so I kind of get a
kick out of it I feel like it's almost a
fashion statement you know because it is
sort of designed by us as a couple right
some couples wear you know shirts and
tops so there will be same pattern right
there a lot of not a lot but it's a
thing right when couples try to match
each other when they go out and
especially with you know with with like
events it's a kind of a high-profile
classy event and even in everyday life
III think this is this is still a thing
for some couples and I feel like this is
another thing that's kind of cool right
where you kind of go out and and and
basically look different as a couple and
I feel like it's something you know
empowering and and interesting about it
so I wonder what people think about it
you know I've never heard anybody
discuss this that much I mean I I do
hear people talk about a couple it would
be like you know an old short guy and a
really young good-looking tall girl okay
I don't think this is about a couple
dynamic as far as you know like him
picking her out for the reasons of other
than most likely her looks and for
picking her out for the Fortius money
that's what usually happens very rarely
it's love right but
so I'm not really counting I'm not even
counting those couples I feel like the
dynamics they're a little bit different
it's more of an arrangement right but
I'm just talking about everyday couples
a nice guy I have seen them I have seen
them here and there and I always always
make a little known in my head saying
you know what
it's kind of cool that's kind of cool so
just wonder what everybody thinks about
it and maybe I'm wrong and some of the
some of the ways I'm thinking about it
though I still do think that that this
is a fashion statement almost when your
partner is sort of when the wrong height
of what you would expect from a couple
so if if you agree or disagree
definitely put put your comments down
here I will try to reply but also feel
free to to reply to comments of other of
others with a strong opinion about it
and let's have a conversation
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