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hey guys Hector Castillo papi from girl
she's calm I'm joined by the beautiful
me today to demonstrate kissing and how
to have a good kiss with a girl that
makes her excited to be spending time
with you and shows her that this isn't
your first rodeo and that you have
kissed a girl before because girls like
guys who are experienced if you're not
experienced that's why you're watching
this video so that you can kiss like you
[ __ ] 100 girls even if this is your
first ever kiyose and if it is your
first time kissing I want you to pay
attention to the basics and not worry
about getting too fancy because there's
some fancy stuff here it's not like I'm
gonna be spitting her or anything but
there is more intimate and more sexual
ways that you can kiss a girl but if
you're new to this just stick with the
basics and then get experienced and then
you can start to become more advanced
and work up to neck kissing oh we could
do the Thank You sing - and making out
and being really handsy and kissing her
with your hands and making her feel very
sexy but I want you to remember that
kissing and this is gonna be my last tip
I guess I'll just jump to it now is that
the point of kissing is it's enjoyable
in and of itself it's great just to kiss
a girl even if you don't have sex with
her but you should be seeing it as
foreplay you should be seeing kissing as
a lead up to it and women really enjoy
foreplay and I actually have a video for
that I'll put it in the description and
women are into the seduction they want
to be seduced they want it to be a story
they want it to be sexy they want it to
be fun and so kissing is a great way for
you to lead up to that and women judge
you a lot based on the first kiss the
first kiss is actually super super
important and when you nail that first
kiss girls are going to absolutely die
because when you have that connection
and that seduction going on and you're
on a date and you can kind of feel the
sexual tension rising and then the you
know you guys feel when it's the time to
have a kiss and if you need help on when
to kiss a girl I actually have another
video for that and I'll put that in the
description and how to actually get a
kiss so this is just for actually
kissing but when the girl knows and you
know that the kiss is going to come you
need it to be it leads into this moment
of okay it's about to happen and you
know it's gonna happen and you can [ __ ]
it up it's gonna be really bad for you
because
ruins the spell you want to think of a
seduction as a spell and you're kind of
weaving in she's going along with it you
know it's not like you're a Jedi a lot
of people think that we're somehow
teaching some [ __ ] magic tricks I'm
like ooh look my dick you know this not
works but they know that this is gonna
be a magical moment and it should be
magical moment and so when the kiss
comes I want you to breathe be calm with
it because if you rush into it then
that's when things get bad and get
nervous okay if the first kiss is not I
mean I've had first kisses be awkward
I've like tried to kiss her and then
like she kind of like falls off balance
because there was it was winter and
there was ice or you know she didn't
expect me to go for the kiss and she
just kind of surprised it doesn't always
have to be picturesque perfect like in a
movie but it is better if it is and it
makes her feel like this is a beautiful
movie like seduction because you do want
to make it as ideally good as possible
so enough explaining what kissing is
important you already know that so let's
get to the actual kissing so first off
you want to make sure that your lips are
soft there have been times when I was
severely dehydrated or on certain things
that made me not so hydrated that was a
very good dirt glaze like something I
think you got it
and I would kiss girls and my lips would
just be [ __ ] chapped and dry and I'm
just like oh she's kissing sandpaper
basically and that's no fun so drink a
lot of water stay hydrated and always
keep a handy dandy
cap of chapstick with you to make sure
that you're always ready to kiss a girl
and you should always also have a condom
with you so that you're always ready to
[ __ ] to things every seducer should have
chapstick and condoms
C and C cool all right so to the actual
kissing now that you have soft lips and
you're ready to go you want to there's
different kinds of kissing obviously and
so we'll start with a soft kiss and then
go into like the details of you either
kissed straight up and down or a kiss at
an angle also this is funny you should
know which angle you'd like to kiss at I
always like to kiss this way so if
you're kissing me you're gonna see me
going like this I just feel more
comfortable leaning to that side
so when you know what side you're gonna
go in on then it doesn't create that
situation of like
you know where do we kiss where do we
leave and then you end up like smacking
your heads together in here your noses
snag it's the [ __ ] where is that but
it happens so like have you in your head
your side my side is this side my right
side so that's where I like to kiss and
then it'll be smooth and you'll be
leading in you'll look like you're in
control in your experience so let's
demonstrate
okay now also some guys she's much
taller than me as you can see so for all
of you our guys out there you can you
can succeed even if you're a [ __ ] okay
so you're gonna want to place your hands
on her face usually you can go on the
elbows or on the waist but the most
romantic way to kiss a girl and it's
also the best way to make sure she's not
gonna be surprised or be creeped out is
for you to make strong eye contact first
and then to put your hands on her face
you can have one hand I guess but it's
much more romantic and movie like if you
have the full hands right here let's say
you're talking and you're having a good
time no no no no and then you just kind
of gaze into her eyes and you show
intent and desire and confidence because
you're holding eye contact maybe you can
look at her lips a little bit you can
even if you want to be a little creepy
you can lick your lips like you're no
gonna she's about to get it so you put
both hands on here if you really want to
be if it's a really romantic moment you
can you know brush your cheeks I think
it's saying wow you're so beautiful but
usually if you're just leading into a
kiss you go up put your hands here and
then you can go straight on like this
and soft and you want to make sure that
you end the kiss yourself you want to be
in control of the kiss because this
shows that one you're not needy to keep
kissing her cuz a lot of guys and I've
done this before maybe you're drunk or
something like I just want to keep
making out with her because it's great
kissing is great but you want to show
that you're not too eager again that you
have experience doing this and that
you're in control of it and that she's
the one who's gonna be chasing and so
you communicate all of that when you
break the kiss first so that's a soft
kiss from a straight-up angle and then
you can do like I said you lean on your
side and you you want to Telegraph it so
she knows which side to lean to so you
don't smack each other's faces and so
you lean to the side that you're going
be leaning on and you go in and then no
watch there's a detail here I'm on her
bottom lip obviously because I'm shorter
this is gonna be natural but when you're
in control of it physically - she's
gonna feel more feminine because as the
man you're in control like when you're
dancing you lead the dance you step she
follows same thing happens when you're
kissing if you touch her lower lip you
have control of it the best way I think
of it is like a muy Thai grip when
you're when you're doing your fighting
is because or underhooks when you're
wrestling that's when you have control
when you're under someone and so it
makes you feel more feminine when you're
kissing her bottom lip because that's
going to make her just feel less in
control and you're in the lead so focus
on kissing the bottom lip like that and
then you're opening up and closing I
know this is extremely detailed but some
of you don't know how to [ __ ] kiss
and I've heard from girls that a lot of
guys don't know how to kiss and so you
want to just create this this motion
that's the motion you're going for now
do you want to add tongue depends if
it's the first kiss maybe not the best
situation especially if in your public
if you're in public if you're around for
friends at a club some guys prefer to be
more discreet and I would advise for
most guys to be discreet because you
just want to keep the sexuality in your
own secret little bubble
some guys advise that you don't kiss the
girl till you get home so that if she is
home then you can just get passionate my
best advice is that if the seduction is
very calm right now then go for a calm
kiss go for a soft kiss if the seduction
is very passionate right now and let's
say we're in a club we're dancing
everything's going great and you're just
like oh my god he's right it can be
sloppy it doesn't have to be artistic
right your tongues and lips are going
everywhere but that's a passionate kiss
but the soft kiss is gonna be when you
are just on a coffee date and you're
walking and you're like oh you know it's
time to kiss her I want to kiss her and
you just go for a soft kiss but if you
have but I don't know you could be
having an insane time I coughing you go
[ __ ] jumping off the wall is enjoying
your connection with each other and then
you can go for a passionate kiss but I
would save the passionate kiss either
when you just want to inject some
intense passion you just one of them and
then you step back and you go back to
normal conversation she's like whoa what
the [ __ ] was that that's amazing
you know we're in them we're just
walking on the street and I'm [ __ ]
wet and just dripping and I need to get
a new change of panties or you want to
do it when you're in a private place
where you can then escalate because
again I want to go over the point of
kissing is foreplay it's fun in and of
itself but eventually you want it to
lead somewhere so a passionate kiss you
can do share up and down or you can lean
so straight up and down it's gonna look
like this now see I'm using my hands I'm
doing some slight caressing and then
also you can of course grab the other
parts of the body um waist ass or face
that's real we you're going to be going
so passionate you might want to grab her
waist and then have one hand on the ass
and then like that then you're leaning
back and forth and there's this seesaw
of sexiness and you're getting lost in
your own little world and you can see
why it's better to do this in a private
place where you can then escalate
because if you're getting all handsy in
clubs if you get too sexual sometimes it
can create a huge barrier because now
she's like oh [ __ ] like we're you know
we're basically [ __ ] at this point
and if I go home with him we're gonna
have sex and it can create some
last-minute resistance where it's hard
to pull her home so it's advisable that
you just stick to more soft kisses cuz
I've had tons of times in the club where
I'm just [ __ ] kissing her and then I
just like took her off I was like
throwing her around she's having a
[ __ ] blast and she's like riding me
and everyone's like what the [ __ ] is
going on but then I'm like hey let's go
home and she's like no you know I'm not
having sex you know I got so many cheats
and I ends like okay goddammit so stick
with a soft with a soft kiss and it
creates this
hmm you're not satisfying her too much
because if you over satisfy a girl she's
gonna get what she wants and then she's
not gonna need anymore
so leave enough kiss her enough where if
you feel like you want that one last
kiss that's when you want to stop here
that's a good way to think about it if
you're like oh I just want one more kiss
then stop just before that because what
that feeling is is like that's gonna be
the one that satisfies it and there's
too much completion where you kind of
want to leave the seduction with just a
little bit more room left to go there's
a little bit of tension because kissing
breaks tension it creates tension in one
way but it also breaks tension because
if you're staring at each other it's
going great but about you kiss okay whoo
that was great I needed that a
passionate kiss creates too much tension
so create enough tension that there's
still there's some satiation she knows
she likes you she lets you kiss her
which is compliance Oh compliance so
compliance is one third of the
attraction model when you're dealing
with seduction and connections the other
two is arousal and similarity and this
is a fundamental nature of attraction if
a girl is complying with you she's
allowing you to do things to her or
she's doing things for you you know hey
grab that drink for me or hey come with
me hey give me your number let's go on a
date she's letting you touch her she's
like you kiss her that creates a
psychological investment where she wants
to give you more it's just a principle
of human nature it's not even just with
with seduction it's with the business
with finance with everything then
there's arousal which is of course we're
touching her or she likes the way I look
she likes the way that I kiss she likes
the way that I sound and arousal is just
your primal lost and then you have
similarity which is do we bond do we
have something in common do we think the
same way do we come from a similar
background or do we see the world the
same way we have some opinions whatever
and so if you have all these things a
girl will be attracted it's all you need
simulator you're out some compliance and
you're going to get laid and we go over
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where you go out and you meet a girl
do you walk up to her you get a number
you text her you get her on a date and I
mention you kiss her or you take a home
and then you concern any [ __ ] and then
you could turn her into a girlfriend and
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that's in the description below but yeah
compliance it's a psychological
principle and so she's letting you do
these things to to her and she's gonna
be even more aroused and it's gonna
create this reciprocity yeah of
Attraction and so where the [ __ ] was I
oh yeah touching so waste ass passionate
kiss up and down then you can go to the
side also and do a passionate kiss like
this now see we're using Tong Tong all I
kind of went into it earlier than AI
distracted yeah that happens
Tong is going to obviously make it more
sexual so again do it enough that it's
creating it's satisfying some tension
and then creating enough tension that
there's going to be the the excitement
of something to come and Tong is gonna
make it much more exciting but don't be
the guy who's like this sorry don't do
that like there can be some sexy kind of
tongue clang where you kind of both like
stick out your this is like advanced
kissing where you're kind of playing
with each other's tongue that's hot
that's super hot but it's very sexual so
that's gonna you want to save that for
when you guys are about to [ __ ] and they
could like stick your finger in her
mouth at all oh [ __ ]
so tongue a little bit a little bit is
fine especially even on a soft kiss just
a little bit of tongue to tongue contact
but just kind of like slightly stick it
out I got I got like a reptile or
anything but but yeah
[Laughter]
but oh you can lick her face too I do
that it's kind of cute actually buddy
Anna know how to do so a little bit of
tongue should you make out again same
principle make out enough that it's hot
but not so much that you're like I want
more I want more and it seems like
you're too eager to keep making
with her because of everything that I've
just explained so straight on turning
you can again the degree to which you
want to play with her body again depends
on how exciting you want to be how
passionate you want to be and so soft
kiss passionate kiss oh the way you end
it there's two ways to end it one you
can end it passionately so let's say
you're kissing and then you're looking
at her after like oh my god is amazing
and you're stroking her and you're like
[ __ ] and then you know you grab her hand
and you take her home UK or just move
her to another part of the club or you
can end it romantically and so ending it
romantically is usually gonna happen
after a soft kiss but it could happen
after a passionate kiss so you have a
very passionate kiss it's very soft so
you have an intense emotion and you're
very into it and then towards the end
you saw how I've started to slow down
and then it's like okay okay and it's in
and that's a great way to calibrate the
tension it was like oh my god it's so
high and then okay let's calm down okay
baby that's gonna happen okay and then
you just end you break it a little bit
and you just look at her and it's a very
soft romantic ending read they know I
just need to [ __ ] your mouth now and you
can you can compliment to grow after you
kiss I always like to compliment girls
I'll just you could just be an emotion
like wow you know just a Moute you could
also compliment her lips be like your
lips are so soft you can compliment her
beauty like while you're just so
beautiful oh my god or you can I love to
tell girls like I've been waiting to do
that especially if we had a great date
but I was waiting until we got home to
kiss her and then when I kiss her I am
so excited to find the kisser and then
I'll tell her wow I've been wanting to
do that since we were in the coffee shop
I didn't like we had that conversation
about this and I just wanted to kiss you
but I wanted to be discreet but explain
to her your passion for her anger your
excitement in your lust for her and
that's really really gonna turn her on
because again this is foreplay this is
fun this is romantic
is leading to sex this is leading to a
union and this is just a way for you to
to express your passion your lust for
each other because kissing is fine
so you have soft kisses you have
passionate kisses you have the different
angles you can go at tongue make sure
you're focusing on the bottom lip you
can play around a lot you know you can
just like do we can do like makeout and
then like two quick little kisses like
it's an it's an art form learning how to
kiss or something you got to practice at
all right so that was how you kiss a
girl Thank You me that was a lot of fun
and again I'm Hector Castillo papi from
girls chase.com
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meet girls and turn them into
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that kiss the girl because kissing is
great it's foreplay
it's fun on its own I mean it's great
just to kiss girls there's some times
when I'm just had a club and I just like
I just want to [ __ ] kiss a girl like
I don't even care my pucker right you
should finish the job you want a [ __ ]
that's better than kissing but sometimes
kissing is just she just has amazing
lips you just like think she's smoking
hot you're like [ __ ] can I even kiss a
girl this hot you know it because maybe
you can't sleep with her but maybe you
can kiss her so as you get more advanced
as a seducer sometimes I will think like
if you don't [ __ ] her it doesn't matter
it doesn't even [ __ ] count but
kissing a girl is it's almost like now
that I've gotten so much experience I'm
actually going back to like how I was
when I was 16 and 17 and it's just
exciting because a pretty girl like
she's gorgeous and it's just fun to
[ __ ] kiss a girl like her not even
for the achievement of it or the ego of
it just it's just a beautiful thing to
experience because she's cool she's
smart sexy whatever whatever it is that
you like about a girl and you want to
show your lust for her because women
appreciate that you appreciate that and
that's why we're here we're here to have
fun we're here to kiss girls [ __ ] them
lick them throw them around have fun
with them and pregnat them dominate them
spank them fuller hair all the the whole
the whole shenanigans and we're here to
make girls happy and girls love to be
kissed so if you watch this video again
and again and you learn how to properly
kiss girls are going to be happy and
they're gonna thank you and then you can
me and we can all have a lot of fun
because we're kissing beautiful girls
beautifully cool okay Hector Co papi
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