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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Kate Spring and today I want to discuss some
signs that women give off when they are hinting that you can kiss them.
There are certain things that physiologically happen to a woman’s body when she gets turned
on that should signal to you that she wants to be more than just friends.
How to tell if a woman likes you and wants to be kissed is not so much what she says,
but how she says it.
I.e What her body is communicating.
However, if she says, “don’t kiss me” then, don’t kiss her.
But if you and a special someone are getting a little bit more comfortable with one another,
and you are wondering how to proceed, there are some very telling signs that you should
And they are as follows.
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I think that something that you should always have on hand when you’re first dating someone
is gum or a breath mint.
You can never go wrong with fresh breath especially if you’re working up to play some tonsil
I went on a date with a guy a few years ago and it ended with a kiss, but I could tell
that this man had eaten a teriyaki chicken sandwich from subway.
I know this for a fact because I called my date out on it and he confirmed by suspicions.
So keep some mints on hand so that you’re date can’t taste what you’ve eaten that
Let’s think about when a kiss usually happens, probably after a first date, right?
Or after some time has passed talking and getting to know one another.
I think that one of the most opportune times to kiss a girl is at the end of the date,
when you’ve said goodbye and she kind of lingers around.
If a woman doesn’t want to be kissed, she will leave the date briskly.
She will not leave any lag time.
But if she doesn’t leave immediately, here are some more specific cues for which to look.
For context, this is all about Kinesics, which is the study of the way in which certain body
movements and gestures serve as a form of nonverbal communication.
When She’s Leaning Into You: Our first telling sign is if she is leaning
We want to be close to the people that we like.
This is an indicator of interest.
When we see something or someone that we like, we want to be near them.
It’s quite simple.
And conversely, if we don’t like you, then we want to put space between us and leave
as soon as the opportunity arises.
When you’re trying to tell if a woman is jonesing for you to kiss her, the first thing
that you should pay attention to is how close she is trying to get to you.
Because if she has moved close to you, then she could be trying to touch you, which brings
us to our next point.
If She Touches You: If a woman touches you either playfully or
seriously, that is a good sign.
Any physical body contact is great here.
Has she playfully tickled you?
Or jokingly shoved you?
Has she made different attempts to get your attention?
Has she brushed something off of your sleeve?
If she has done any of these things, then she is flirting with you, which could lead
She is breaking the touch barrier, which you should also be doing too.
If you want to test the waters, and be certain that your kiss won’t be rejected, then you
should see how she reacts to your touch.
You could put your arm around her, you could also tickle her, or touch her to get her attention.
Brush something off of her sleeve.
There are so many possibilities that you just need to go for it and see how she responds.
If she cowers away from your touch, then I’d say that she doesn’t want to be kissed.
She still has some warming up to do.
But if she seems like she’s into your touch, then that is a great indication that she’s
getting ready for your kiss.
If she smiles at your touch, or touches you back, these are all great indicators of interest.
That is, her body is responding to you non-verbally, and inviting the next step.
These first two signs that we’ve discussed are both indicators of trust.
So leaning into someone suggests that we trust them, that they don’t pose a threat.
In terms of the woman with whom you are interacting, it’s a sign that she wants to be next to
you and touched by you.
At this point, you are you’re always looking at how she response to you.
Smiling, blushing, and slight touch are all signs of approval that she like what’s going
Playful hitting is another important indicator that things are moving in the right direction.
Now another sign to look out for is if a girl is looking at your lips.
She’s Looking At Your Lips/ Lip Licking:
The third sign to look for when you’re trying to decipher if a girl is willing and ready
for your kiss is to observe her lips.
Is she licking them, biting them, or playing with them?
These are seduction techniques that are an involuntary reflex to our feelings of desire
for you and what we’re thinking about.
She could be licking, biting or playing with her lips and making eye contact with you is
a sign that she wants to be kissed.
Another involuntary reaction to our feelings is if a woman is looking at your lips.
This is a reaction to feelings of desire.
You know when you see someone that you find attractive and you can’t stop looking at
When a woman wants to be kissed, she will look at your lips because that’s what she
will be thinking about and your lips are the thing that she wants.
So pay attention to what she’s doing with her lips, as well, take note of how much she
looks at your lips.
The fourth and final sign that you should look for before going in for the kiss is not
so much of a visual sign, but a verbal one.
Pay attention on the date, don’t focus all of your attention on looking for these signs.
If you focus on the conversation and enjoying yourself, these things will flow and you will
be able to tell her level of interest in you through conversation as well as her body language.
A good way to tell if a woman is enjoying the conversation is to notice if she is just
responding or if she is contributing to the conversation.
For example, if you are on a date and you’re the one asking all of the questions and she
is merely responding and offering no more than a short answer, she probably isn’t
all that interested in the date.
However, a woman who asks you personal and thoughtful questions in an attempt to get
to know you better is a woman who is more likely to want to kiss you at the end of the
So remember, when you’re trying to see if a woman wants to be kissed, pay attention
to if she is leaning into you, begins touching you, or is biting licking her lips or looking
at your lips.
While being observant of these indicators, don’t forget to pay full attention to the
conversation and the date itself.
In short, engage and enjoy!
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