Brittany: Whether you just met, it's your first date, or you've been dating for a while,
girls want a story and they fantasize about that fairytale romance. Do what I
tell you in this video and you will be able to create those feelings of intense
love and connection very quickly. My name is Brittany Michalchuk with The
Attractive Man team, and I'm gonna reveal the five secrets to make her fall in
love with you. To make a woman fall in love with you, you must first understand
what she desires. I want you to get inside the head of a woman, because then
you will see she wants that romance, she wants to feel desired, and wants to feel
needed. Women even want to be seduced, but the problem is men come across as
too sleazy or too clingy... with no further ado, here are the five
secrets to make her fall in love with you. Make sure to watch to the very end
because the last one is my favorite. Number five is: You want to create a
story. Women want a good story of how you guys met. Think about it, these women have
grown up on Disney movies and not once did the princess meet her prince
charming on tinder or in a bar. I'm gonna let you into the mind of a woman... women
fantasize about meeting their prince charming in a romantic way like a
bookstore, passionate salsa class, or any random unexpected way like in the
daytime, when the man has to have the balls to approach her. Myself, along with
other women get approached way more in the evening, but what we really want is
to be approached during the daytime. But it rarely happens during the day, and I
wish a charming guy would come say hi. And the same is true for a date - create
lots of moments for her throughout the date, for example, if you take her to the
movies and try and kiss her during the best scene, see it's not gonna be as
memorable as going in for the kiss on the beach, underneath the stars, or while
dancing to romantic song in the park. Number 4: Bring her fairy tale to life.
Pay close attention to what she says so you can figure out what her goals and
dreams are in life. Then create alignment with her future and your future.
For example, after a couple dates if she
mentioned she wants to have kids you could ask her... do you think I would be a
good dad? Therefore, you're getting her to start
thinking of you as a fatherly like figure. Another example could be if
you're both aspiring entrepreneurs, you could ask her how much fun would it be
to work on our businesses together on the beach, but make sure to be real
authentic and genuine because you do not want to make stuff up. By the way if
you've not already subscribed to our channel, hit the subscribe button. Also
click on the bell notification. Number three: Create an adventure. The point here
is to create great memories because the more great memories you create the more
invested and connected she will feel, so instead of just going to dinner and the
movies like every other guy, do something memorable that's gonna set you apart.
Plan something more memorable and exciting like fun activities together,
for example, rollerblading, ice skating, dancing, or hiking, because remember
motion creates emotion. Plus no girl wants to be bored on a date. Number two:
Create emotion. People are used to having the same conversations about the same
topics over and over again... about work, the weather, their family, where they're
from... it's fine to talk about these things but if they are the bulk of your
conversation you're not gonna get her to feel anything. And it's emotions that
create powerful memories. For example, do you remember where you were when Donald
Trump got elected? Probably because you either were really excited or really
pissed. Either way, you were emotionally charged. But do you remember what you had
for dinner last Tuesday? Probably not, because it wasn't emotional unless it
was your birthday or doing something super unique. That's because memories are
created through emotion, if she doesn't feel anything she won't remember you let
alone fall in love with you, and the worst thing you could do is not be
memorable... in fact, it's better to create any emotion than no emotion. A man that is
too scared to offend or upset a woman, so he stays inside his comfort
zone and plays it safe. For example, I went on a date with a guy and
saw him three years later and didn't remember going on a date with him
because unfortunately the conversation was not very stimulating, on the other
hand I went on a date with this guy and he asked me the most interesting
questions, like what are your goals in life? What would you tell your younger
self? And what is one thing that nobody else knows about you? So keep her mind
stimulated with emotion and excitement, and we have tons of examples in the free
Conversation Cheat Sheet, and there's a link in the description down below.
Number one: Show affection the way that she wants it. You see there are five
major ways to show affection, these are also known as the five love languages,
they are touch, for example, back massages, playing with her hair, touching her arm,
cuddling, etc... Quality time. Spending time with her with no distractions focused on
her. Words of affirmation. Telling her you like her, complimenting her, telling her
you appreciate her, so she can hear how much she means to you. Matt: You are absolutely
adorable. Brittany: Small acts of service. For example, opening the door, pulling the
chair out, or doing little things that make her feel appreciated. Gift-giving.
Now this isn't about going out and spending a bunch of money on her this is
about giving her something to show that you care about her it could even be
something small like picking a flower or making her something. All of these forms
of appreciation are important, but for some people some are stronger than
others. The key is to find out which are most important to her, because you might
think you're giving her all this value by communicating to her in your own love
language, but really you might just be smothering her. One way to find out her
love language is to pay attention to her body language and see how she reacts. If
you touch her and she recoils, or if you compliment her and she shuts it down,
those might not be her love languages. Or you can even ask her if she knows where
her love languages are, and if she doesn't, you can explain them to her or
you could even ask her - would you rather have a back massage
or receive a gift? Once you know her strongest forms of receiving affection
then you can start simply showing her affection the way that she wants. But
make sure not to overdo it too soon, because women should earn your affection.
Remember, if you can create a story for her get her, imagining a future with you,
make fun memories, spark romantic feelings, and show her affection the way
that she wants, your love story is about to get started.
So to help you out Matt has created a free Conversation Cheat Sheet where he
breaks down exactly what to say after hello to make her want you. You get our
top conversation starters for any situation, simple techniques to never run
out of things to say and create emotion, a list of games to play to create fun
flirty memories plus simple ways to escalate the interaction and so much
more. Download this now because you will definitely want to keep it handy. Click
the image in the bottom right hand corner of this video to download your
Conversation Cheat Sheet and if you're not subscribed yet I want you to hit
that subscribe button right now! And if you want us to personally show you how
to meet and approach women, check out our bootcamp scheduling and we will see you
there! My name is Brittany Michalchuk from The Attractive Man team, add me on
Instagram, and we'll see you in the next video!