how to handle a relationship with a
really busy man and not go underground
my name is coach Natalie and I'm a
relationship coach and this is happily
committed happily committed is a
movement that me and my amazing partner
coach Adrian started to help people
around the world feel fulfilled in their
relationships to help them stay happily
committed to the person that they love
the very most
but whether you've been in a short term
relationship or a long term relationship
insecurities are pesky little things
that end up chipping at the stability
the two of you have created between you
when we're dating
busy men we often wonder why they're not
spending as much time with us we often
wonder is this guy into us should we
keep investing here is he just gonna
find someone new what do I do
where do I stand I want to use this
video as an opportunity to share with
you a tip that I think might be really
really helpful for you women trying to
handle dating a mega busy man as women
or nurtures or Nestor's we want to build
bond we want to build a nest we want to
build commitment with our partner it's
how we are designed but in a world with
so many expectations in a world with so
many commitments a lot of men prioritize
their careers a lot of men prioritize
guys night a lot of men prioritize their
independence and that is something that
can really get under our skin and on our
nerves so the number one way to handle a
really busy man is by getting really
busy yourself and listen this isn't a
game it's not a manipulative tactic it's
as simple as this the more time you have
to waste the more time you want to spend
with him get busy now is the time for
you to build a bucket list of sorts make
a list for yourself that you can commit
to that is gonna fill your time that
it's gonna challenge you that it's gonna
make you feel fulfilled here's a secret
confidence comes from accomplishment the
more things you do the better you feel I
see it happen every single day with my
clients so if right now you have a low
self-esteem lack of confidence because
your boyfriend or husband is too damn
busy
you can get more confident just by doing
a few more things make a list of short
medium long term goals things that you
can achieve and commit to that doesn't
mean becoming an astronaut and going to
space that means finally signing up for
that half marathon that means finally
taking that interior designing class
that you've been meaning to try get to
know yourself experiment and explore who
it is you are and what you're capable of
and before you know it that clock that
right now
ticks really slow will fly by time will
fly by as long as you're busy and before
you know it it's 8 p.m. and look who
just walked in the door and you didn't
even realize it your husband your
boyfriend that busy man who's too busy
all of a sudden isn't so busy anymore
because you're busier now if you have
nothing to do and he has a lot to do
this is what we're looking at if you get
busier this is what we're looking at
this is what we're looking at and now
all of a sudden you're equals you are
less demanding of his time and all of a
sudden you're that cool girlfriend that
cool wife that is engaged with who she
is
who is attracted to herself investing in
herself instead of calling nagging
begging for her boyfriend her husband's
attention I know that this sounds
counterintuitive how is having less time
to spend with him can I make any sense
don't knock it till you try it I invite
you to make this bucket list
give yourself things to work on stay
busy and try for 30 days let's see how
you feel about your really busy
boyfriend or husband or partner in 30
days when you are very busy I am
confident that it will make you
confident I'm confident that it's gonna
make you feel accomplished and fulfilled
and it's gonna make you less needy as a
partner as someone who has specialized
in breakup recovery for so many years I
know how easy it is to ruin a
relationship I know how easy it is for
things to fall apart but it
you listen to this trick you will see
how easy it is to stay together and how
easy it is not to fall apart the choice
is yours to make
but in relationships you don't just have
to live and learn you can learn from the
experiences of others just by tuning
into this channel after coaching
thousands of people what I'm sharing
with you is proven to work you don't
need to let things fall apart and then
rush to glue them back together you can
learn here now simple things that you
can do to keep you happily committed
that is my commitment to you is to give
you all the experience I have and all
the tools I've acquired along the way
that other women and men have put into
their relationships and that have seen
success in them so my name is coach
Natalie and I would love to connect with
you in the comment section below
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going on let me know about your
husband's busy schedule or your
boyfriend's busy life keep us up to
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