how to attract a guy without talking to
him and without showing that you like
him men are visual creatures and his
first impression of you is based on your
appearance that breaks down into two
main parts looking your best and looking
approachable one don't forget to smile
guys are already terrified of walking up
to a random girl and introducing
themselves if you've got a scowl on your
face
I guarantee no guy is going to feel
comfortable saying hello smiles are
friendly and welcoming - nothing is
sexier than eye contact the best way to
get a guy to approach you is by
signalling that you want to be
approached men wait for a green light or
approach invitations to be sure that you
actually want to talk to them wherever
you are
Starbucks the bookstore the bar the bank
a quick 1 to 2 second glance and smile
is enough to say hey I'm open to meeting
you and when you're in a conversation
with him look in his eyes
you can break away periodically but if
you're constantly averting his gaze he's
going to think something's wrong 3 give
him an opening crossing your arms and
positioning yourself in a closed-off
fashion puts up a barrier that guys
don't want to overcome
keep your arms unfolded and leave some
space for a guy to come talk to you
instead of facing the bar sit sideways
or towards the crowd while talking to
your friends glance around periodically
and don't be afraid to give those
approached invitations to guys you find
interesting and please stay off your
phone and enjoy being out when you're
buried in texting the only thing you're
conveying to a guy is I'm busy don't
even think of speaking to me 4 take the
initiative many guys would kill for a
great goal to open a discussion the
beauty is that men are just waiting to
talk to you about something anything the
simplest and most natural way is by
asking a question it can be about
anything really it's just a way to get
the ball rolling examples do you know
what time these place closes have you
tried one of these cake pops what a cute
dog what's his name can I ask you
something
how do you like these shoes trust me it
sounds stupid but all you're doing is
giving the guy an opportunity to chat
you up if he's interested he'll take the
bait and run with it 5 looking your best
it's all about the little things when a
new guy sees you from across the room
all he has to go on is your appearance
his initial attraction to you is what
makes him say hi but your sparkling
personnel
is what makes him stay dressed to
impress and wear something that shows
off your features and flatters your
figure you don't have to go crazy with
makeup but a little done well can
brighten your face men thoroughly
appreciate gorgeous hair eyes jewelry
and a sense of style this is a touchy
subject but you've got to exercise and
eat right health and vitality is a
primary attraction switch in men and
it's good for your body too 6 avoid
large groups and leave the men at home
if it's your friend's birthday or a
celebration have a big group night out
otherwise keep it to smaller intimate
gatherings the more women you have the
more intimidating it is for a guy to
approach he has to worry about
entertaining all of your friends and
making sure they all approve of him also
unless you're trying to help a male
friend get some make it a girls night
out and hang with him another time
most guys first assumption when seeing
you with a man is they're probably
dating if it's not that he's worried
that he'll have to deal with a defensive
or rude guy trying to kill his mojo 7
don't let your friends block you if
you're hitting it off with a guy be wary
of you're overprotective friends trying
to shut him down let him know you want
to give him a chance as long as they
have someone else to entertain them each
other or other guys
I understand girls look out for one
another but I've seen too many
connections killed by jealous friends
and grumpy roommates 8 be playful and
laugh often a good sense of humor is an
incredibly sexy quality in a woman you
don't have to necessarily be funny
yourself but you have to be able to
laugh at his jokes I know you're anxious
in the moment but try your best it's
extremely nerve-racking to be talking to
a woman who's not giving anything back 9
radiate positivity stay out of your head
and just enjoy yourself don't keep
thinking about how lame the party is or
how you wish you were home the first
thing I noticed about my girlfriend
before I went up to her was her huge
smile as she was laughing with friends
she looked like a lot of fun if you've
got any negative vibes guys can often
tell from far away and they'll
definitely feel it once they start
talking to you when meeting a new guy
keep it light-hearted don't be
unnecessarily rude or a buzzkill putting
others down or complaining about your
crappy boss is a turn-off for a first
impression 10 embrace your sexuality
sometimes when you're inexperienced
you're uncomfortable thinking about a
man sexually desiring you
but honestly if he's coming up to you
there's a good chance he's eventually
hoping to hook up being a sexual person
doesn't make you a it makes you
human
if you're attracted to the guy you're
talking to be open to his advances if he
gives you a playful touch don't just
back away if he compliments you smile
and give him a genuine thank you rather
than denying it don't be afraid to
return a flirtatious smirk or make a
playful innuendo either take things at
your own pace if you're not ready to be
kissed or go further you don't have to
do it to make him happy you can say not
right now or I'm not ready yet as long
as you give him some signals that you're
interested that's what matters
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