How To Attract A Guy Without Talking To Him And Without Showing That You Like Him

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how to attract a guy without talking to

him and without showing that you like

him men are visual creatures and his

first impression of you is based on your

appearance that breaks down into two

main parts looking your best and looking

approachable one don't forget to smile

guys are already terrified of walking up

to a random girl and introducing

themselves if you've got a scowl on your


I guarantee no guy is going to feel

comfortable saying hello smiles are

friendly and welcoming - nothing is

sexier than eye contact the best way to

get a guy to approach you is by

signalling that you want to be

approached men wait for a green light or

approach invitations to be sure that you

actually want to talk to them wherever

you are

Starbucks the bookstore the bar the bank

a quick 1 to 2 second glance and smile

is enough to say hey I'm open to meeting

you and when you're in a conversation

with him look in his eyes

you can break away periodically but if

you're constantly averting his gaze he's

going to think something's wrong 3 give

him an opening crossing your arms and

positioning yourself in a closed-off

fashion puts up a barrier that guys

don't want to overcome

keep your arms unfolded and leave some

space for a guy to come talk to you

instead of facing the bar sit sideways

or towards the crowd while talking to

your friends glance around periodically

and don't be afraid to give those

approached invitations to guys you find

interesting and please stay off your

phone and enjoy being out when you're

buried in texting the only thing you're

conveying to a guy is I'm busy don't

even think of speaking to me 4 take the

initiative many guys would kill for a

great goal to open a discussion the

beauty is that men are just waiting to

talk to you about something anything the

simplest and most natural way is by

asking a question it can be about

anything really it's just a way to get

the ball rolling examples do you know

what time these place closes have you

tried one of these cake pops what a cute

dog what's his name can I ask you


how do you like these shoes trust me it

sounds stupid but all you're doing is

giving the guy an opportunity to chat

you up if he's interested he'll take the

bait and run with it 5 looking your best

it's all about the little things when a

new guy sees you from across the room

all he has to go on is your appearance

his initial attraction to you is what

makes him say hi but your sparkling


is what makes him stay dressed to

impress and wear something that shows

off your features and flatters your

figure you don't have to go crazy with

makeup but a little done well can

brighten your face men thoroughly

appreciate gorgeous hair eyes jewelry

and a sense of style this is a touchy

subject but you've got to exercise and

eat right health and vitality is a

primary attraction switch in men and

it's good for your body too 6 avoid

large groups and leave the men at home

if it's your friend's birthday or a

celebration have a big group night out

otherwise keep it to smaller intimate

gatherings the more women you have the

more intimidating it is for a guy to

approach he has to worry about

entertaining all of your friends and

making sure they all approve of him also

unless you're trying to help a male

friend get some make it a girls night

out and hang with him another time

most guys first assumption when seeing

you with a man is they're probably

dating if it's not that he's worried

that he'll have to deal with a defensive

or rude guy trying to kill his mojo 7

don't let your friends block you if

you're hitting it off with a guy be wary

of you're overprotective friends trying

to shut him down let him know you want

to give him a chance as long as they

have someone else to entertain them each

other or other guys

I understand girls look out for one

another but I've seen too many

connections killed by jealous friends

and grumpy roommates 8 be playful and

laugh often a good sense of humor is an

incredibly sexy quality in a woman you

don't have to necessarily be funny

yourself but you have to be able to

laugh at his jokes I know you're anxious

in the moment but try your best it's

extremely nerve-racking to be talking to

a woman who's not giving anything back 9

radiate positivity stay out of your head

and just enjoy yourself don't keep

thinking about how lame the party is or

how you wish you were home the first

thing I noticed about my girlfriend

before I went up to her was her huge

smile as she was laughing with friends

she looked like a lot of fun if you've

got any negative vibes guys can often

tell from far away and they'll

definitely feel it once they start

talking to you when meeting a new guy

keep it light-hearted don't be

unnecessarily rude or a buzzkill putting

others down or complaining about your

crappy boss is a turn-off for a first

impression 10 embrace your sexuality

sometimes when you're inexperienced

you're uncomfortable thinking about a

man sexually desiring you

but honestly if he's coming up to you

there's a good chance he's eventually

hoping to hook up being a sexual person

doesn't make you a it makes you


if you're attracted to the guy you're

talking to be open to his advances if he

gives you a playful touch don't just

back away if he compliments you smile

and give him a genuine thank you rather

than denying it don't be afraid to

return a flirtatious smirk or make a

playful innuendo either take things at

your own pace if you're not ready to be

kissed or go further you don't have to

do it to make him happy you can say not

right now or I'm not ready yet as long

as you give him some signals that you're

interested that's what matters

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