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are you wondering if you have a secret
admirer are they driving you crazy
with all these possible signs that they
like you but you just don't know for
sure
in today's video we'll talk about the
telltale indicators of attraction
to hopefully make things clearer for you
so here are 8 subtle signs that someone
secretly has a crush on you
1. they act differently around you does
this person act differently around you
compared to how they usually are with
other people do you notice a change in
their personality
whenever you're around perhaps they
become more cheerful and talkative
or may be quieter and reserved if
someone starts acting differently around
you
that could mean they have a crush on you
they could be feeling flustered and are
uncertain about how to behave around you
the next time you see this person pay
close attention to how they usually act
and compare it to how they are when
they're with you
2. they try to get close to you do they
try to get close to you
do they simply seem to just like being
around you
even if they don't have anything to say
to you they just like being in close
proximity
and want to watch you from the corner of
their eye maybe they go out of their way
just to see you or pretend to run into
you hoping to catch your attention and
strike up a conversation
this can be especially true if the
person who has feelings for you
is shy and soft-spoken three
they always initiate contact has this
person
ever asked you for your number or
followed you on social media
do they usually text you or call you up
first even if they don't really have
anything important to say
this can be a clear sign that they're
interested in you by reaching out first
they are voicing a desire to communicate
and keep in touch with you
they want to get closer to you and spend
more time with you because they like you
and find you fun and interesting to talk
to
4. you catch them staring at you do they
struggle to hold your gaze
and quickly look away or do they let
their gaze linger
and stare at you when they think you
aren't looking both of these things are
signs of attraction
they might have a crush on you but are
too nervous or embarrassed to tell you
about their feelings
5. they smile at you a lot do you notice
them smiling at you a lot
does it happen more for you over others
it could be a bashful little smile
showing that they are nervous but happy
to see you or a wide ear-to-ear grin
that conveys their excitement about
being around you pay attention to this
smile
and see if they smile this way only when
they see you
talk to you or talk about you because it
definitely means
they feel attracted to you 6. they
compliment you
a lot does it seem like this person is
paying a lot of close attention to you
do they seem impressed by every little
thing you do
if they are dazzled by you and showering
you with compliments this can be an easy
indication that they are into you
seven they keep the conversation going
here's one trick you can use to try to
see if someone is secretly crushing on
you when you're talking to them
disengage from the conversation you can
do this subtly by acting distracted
and doing something else like writing
packing up your things
or talking to someone else in the group
gouge how they respond
and if they try to keep up the
conversation with you while most people
might politely leave the conversation
someone who has a crush on you
will likely keep trying to engage with
you they are eager for your attention
and want to keep speaking with you 8.
they make themselves available for you
do they say yes to everything you invite
them to
or ask to hang out with you a lot do
they cancel or reschedule appointments
just to be with you this can mean that
you're really important to this person
and they want to prioritize their time
with you it's a strong indicator that
they care for you
have you noticed any of these signs from
your secret admirer
or are you the one showing all these
signs unconsciously tell us in the
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