fifteen tricks to get his attention when
he loses interest dot how to attract a
guy who ignores you whether you have
been seeing a guy for two months or
dating someone for three years when a
man starts to lose interest in you it
can be absolutely devastating many women
will do some insane things just to claw
their way back into a man's life but if
he is pulling away from you hounding
stalking and threatening him with an
ultimatum will only make things worse if
your guy seems distracted with other
things going on in his life and he's no
longer making you a priority it's time
for you take matters into your own hands
it is no longer okay for you to just sit
back and accept the situation with these
simple tricks you can regain your guy's
attention without driving him even
further away all it takes is a little
bit of time a little bit of patience and
a whole lot of focus you have to read
this article carefully this is a
sensitive situation you are dealing with
study these 15 tips to turn a cold and
lifeless situation back into the hot and
steamy love affair you once shared 15
give him space when a guy starts to lose
interest the first thing you probably
want to do is bombard him with a bunch
of questions and ask him what's wrong
but this is quite possibly the worst
thing you can ever do if you want to
regain his attention after you feel him
pulling away the best thing to do is to
mirror his actions that means if you
think he needs some space give him all
the space in the world when you leave a
guy alone all he has left are his own
thoughts and his own feelings he's not
feeling the pressure from you to be a
certain way or act a certain way by
giving him space you're letting him know
you don't need to be all up in his face
in his personal space 24/7 you're fine
and more than content to live your own
life with or without him when you give a
guy space after he starts to lose
interest you can actually reignite the
interest he felt when the two of you
first met but giving him space doesn't
always work out in your favor so keep
reading to see what also you can do to
get his attention 14 focus on yourself
while giving your guy space it's
important to not just sit around and
wait for him to snap out of it if you're
waiting patiently or impatiently for his
interest to return you'll be waiting a
while so to speed things up you need to
make sure you focus on yourself during
this time your self-esteem is already
pretty low since your guy has been
acting differently so you need to take
part in some confident boosting
activities to remind yourself that
you're the prize in this entire
situation don't mope around your house
feeling unwanted undesirable and
neglected instead understand just how
awesome you are and remind yourself that
any man would feel grateful to have you
in their life book yourself a day at the
spa or go for a scenic hike they key is
to do something that you really enjoy
dot you know something that makes you
happy if you can remain happy and stay
peaceful and calm from the inside out
your positive energy will radiate
outwards and your guys interest will be
back before you even know it
13 don't talk about the relationship
when a guy starts to lose interest a
bunch of thoughts will start to flood
your head you will wonder if your
relationship is over forever and you
will wonder if you did something to
really tick him off it's normal to want
to have a sit-down conversation with him
to hash things out but honestly now is
not the time if it has just been a few
days let him in the relationship simmer
for a bit there's really no need to have
a long and drawn-out conversation about
the relationship and where things are
headed at this point maybe he has a
legit reason as to why he has been
physically emotionally and mentally
missing in action but if you approach
him too soon you could push him even
further away this is why it's important
to let him come to you when he's ready
to discuss things 12
be honest we definitely don't suggest
that you sit and wait in silence forever
this is your life too and you have the
right to know what's going on with your
relationship if it has been more than a
few weeks and your guy is still distant
from you now is the time to speak up and
be honest it's better to know the truth
than to sit around and try to figure out
what's going on in his sad to get him to
open up and be honest about why his
interest is fading you need to approach
him in a non-threatening way don't
immediately start crying
don't get all aggressive with him sit
him down and let him know that the
distance between the two of you has been
bothering you lately and you're
wondering if there's a reason why your
relationship has changed this will allow
him to tell you the truth about his
feelings and who knows maybe it has
nothing to do with you after all perhaps
he has been really busy with a project
at work or his parents are really
working his nerves and stressing him out
by the time your convo is over you
should have a better idea about where
you stand with him 11:00 invite him on a
group outing if you believe your guys
interest is fading inviting him out on a
date may cause him to push away from you
even further so to lighten the mood a
little bit
ask him to accompany you on a group
outing if a bunch of your friends are
going bowling ask him to join along or
you can even set up a group activity of
your own that you know he would love
like a day at the amusement park or a
visit to the ball park if you want this
group outing to go off without a hitch
make sure your guy is already friendly
with the people in the group this will
make the day even more fun and laid-back
for everyone involved but inviting him
out on a group outing doesn't always
work like a charm if your guy really is
losing interest in you a group outing
won't appeal to him at all so keep
reading to see how you can get this guy
to agree to a face-to-face meeting 10
test him with the one-on-one date if
inviting him out for a group activity
didn't work you can always try to get
him to meet with you one-on-one by
setting up a date with him you will be
able to gauge his interest in person and
you will have the ability to decide if
you want to wait things out with him or
if it's time for you to finally move on
in order for this to work it's best to
already have a date already planned so
shoot him a text message and ask him if
he wants to go to dinner on Thursday
night at the cute little Mexican
restaurant around the corner from his
house don't forget to end the message
with my treat
why Thursday night because a weekday
date is a lot less stressful than a
weekend date if the date isn't going as
planned you can always use the excuse
that you have to leave early because you
have work or school in the morning
why suggest a location close to his
house
because it won't take a lot of
convincing or effort to get him to roll
out of bed throw on some sweatpants and
drive 1.2 miles to eat a free dinner if
he agrees to the date your behavior will
either make or break the entire
situation keep reading to see how you
can pull this off to get your guy to
regain his interest in you 9 pay him a
compliment you're not the only one who
loves to be told how beautiful you are
men like to receive compliments as well
and they especially like to receive
compliments from a pretty woman like you
when the two of you finally meet up pay
him a few compliments to boost his ego a
bit if his interest was waning because
other areas of his life demanded his
attention giving him a compliment can
really boost his confidence during this
stressful time in his life but as with
all things a little bit goes a long way
don't come across as fake and too pushy
when it comes to giving him praise keep
your compliments short and sweep such as
you look great in that shirt or you
smell amazing these compliments will let
him know although he has been acting
like a complete turd lately you're still
attracted to him
you still love being in his presence and
he's still the guy for you eight get
flirty online using social media to get
your guy's attention as an awesome way
to get him to notice you and to remind
him just how special you really are the
key to getting flirty on social media is
to attack only one of his profiles at a
time if you bombard his Facebook
Instagram Twitter and his snapchat all
at once you'll come across as a creepy
stalker so let's just focus on sending
some flirty messages on Instagram for
now shall we to pull this off
effortlessly and to regain your guy's
interest go to his most recent photo and
leave a comment that will really grab
his attention if it's a photo of him and
his buddies single him out by leaving a
comment directed towards him such as the
guy in the blue shirt as a hottie if
it's a selfie you can try a comment
along the lines of I've always loved
your eyes and if it's a cheesy
inspirational quote leave him a comment
such as you always know just what to say
to get me through my hectic day make him
feel as if he's the most amazing man in
the world and eventually he will snap
out of his phone
and come running back to the woman who
makes him feel like a million bucks
seven post a thirst trap a thirst trap
is a picture that is posted on social
media to garner attention and it's the
best way to get your guy to realize what
he's missing out on
after leaving him a flirty message on
his Instagram it's time for you to
utilize the thirst trap on your own
Instagram profile now you have to be
careful because if the trap is a little
too thirsty your guy may get completely
turned off so keep it cute keep it
classy and remember you're trying to
pull him towards you not push him away
so get yourself all dolled up put on a
flattering outfit and take a selfie that
will knock his socks off or post a
throwback photo of yourself looking all
cute a photo that he has never seen of
course stay away from group photos of
you and your girls because you want all
the attention to be on you and you don't
want anyone else standing in the way at
this point don't worry your friends will
understand when pulled off correctly the
thirst trap is effective nine times out
of 10 happy trapping six create a
challenge if you have followed the tips
on this list you should have been able
to partially regain your guy's attention
by this point now that he is calling and
texting a little more frequently it's
time to really put the ball in your
court think back to the days when you
first met your guy you were probably a
little apprehensive about giving him a
shot you kept your life busy you didn't
really care if he called you or not and
you took your sweet little time when it
came to responding to his text messages
to keep your guy's interest at this
point you need to channel the way you
felt when you first met him and
implement it into the present become a
challenge to him by not being readily
available don't be too accessible and
don't be so eager to see him he will
quickly notice that you're not tripping
over yourself just to spend time with
him like before and it will actually
pique his interest over time 5 don't be
clingy being too clingy with your guy as
the quickest way to get him to lose
interest in you men don't want to be
tied down they don't want to feel like
they're to be all in the end all in your
life and they don't want to be held
totally responsible for your happiness
thankfully if you started off being a
little too clingy you still have some
time to switch things around in your
favor now that your guy is showing signs
that he is losing interest in you you
need to nip all of your clingy behavior
right in the bud start showing him that
you are independent confident and you
have so much going on in your life that
you don't have the time to be up under
him 24/7
if you feel anxious and your fingers are
dying to dial his number call a friend
instead
if you're feeling tempted to shoot him a
text message just throw your phone out
the window okay not really but you need
to get a hold of yourself and stop
acting on impulse if you back off from
him and remove the clingy behavior from
your life it will actually compel him to
come closer to you for pullback giving
your guy space as one thing but pulling
back is totally different
in fact many women fail completely when
they try to pull back and it only causes
more issues in the relationship
pulling back is a very hard thing to do
especially if you're already head over
heels in love with your guy inside your
mind in your heart are telling you to
call him one more time to drive by his
house and see if he's at home and to
drop off his favorite coffee at his job
if the two of you haven't been
communicating lately doing these things
can really get you banished from his
life forever to pull back means to
literally take a step back from the
relationship when your guy pulls away
because he's losing interest you need to
do the same if he's not calling you
should stop calling too if he's short
with you you should be short with him
too
if he ignores you when you pass him by
on the street you should ignore him too
giving him a taste of his own medicine
will definitely snap him out of whatever
is causing him to lose interest in you 3
reflect when your relationship goes from
hot to cold you may be so desperate to
get things back on track that you don't
take the time to actually figure out if
he's really the one for you your pride
is causing you to go to great lengths to
grab his attention but what is it that
you really want for yourself in your
life do you want to have to chase a guy
who isn't that into you do you want to
be confused about a guy's emotions on a
day-to-day basis
do you want to feel unwanted and unloved
every time your partner starts to lose
interest in you if you answered no to
these questions then it's time for you
to really do some reflecting on the
entire situation don't sit around and
wait for him to come up with a
conclusion on which direction he wants
the relationship to go you need to take
control of the situation on your own sit
down with a pen and a notebook and start
to write down your feelings make a list
of the kind of relationship you want and
create a second list of what your
current relationship is like if the two
lists don't match up it may be time for
you to pull the plug as soon as you tell
him it's over he'll probably start
chasing you once again it will then be
your decision to give him another chance
or to leave him in the past forever to
dress to impress you already look
amazing but if you wanted to get his
attention when he starts to pull away
from you
you really need to kick things up a
notch when you look good on the outside
you feel even better on the inside so
perform a mini revamp of your wardrobe
to really catch his eye a new pair of
flattering jeans or a figure-hugging
pencil skirt will definitely grab his
attention in a good way once he sees you
out and about looking like a million
bucks
it should definitely reignite his desire
for you and if it doesn't well at least
you're looking good enough to snag
another man who may be interested in you
when you're dressed to kill you're
sending all men a message that you mean
business you take pride in your
appearance you're confident you're sexy
and you deserve a man in your life who
realizes this and can appreciate you 1
show interest as women we're taught to
sit back and let the guy make all the
moves guys are supposed to call us
they're supposed to schedule dates and
they're supposed to pursue us
relentlessly this is why when a guy
starts to drift away most girls go
absolutely nuts they immediately think
it's a sign that he's no longer
interested but it could actually mean
that he needs to focus on his life for a
second before he jumps back into things
with you if you think your guys interest
is fading it's important to let him know
that you're still interested in him you
still desire him and you're ready to
pick up where the two of you left off
you can do this by sending him a text
as thinking of you can't wait to see you
again this lets him know that you
haven't given up on him completely
once he tackles whatever issues are
keeping him away from you he will
appreciate you even more for being so
patient and so understanding please hit
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