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guys one of the most watched and loved
videos that you guys have requested at
the most on my channel is how to get a
guy to like you so it's been a couple of
years since I've done this video guys so
I wanted to do another one that has even
more tip easier simpler more proven ways
to actually get a guy to like you make
sure you watch all the tips right to
number 13 because number 13 is actually
gonna shock you this is 13 ways to get a
guy to like you let's hug Friday's easy
way to get a guy to like you guys and
this one's so good is to have a
devil-may-care attitude now you're
probably wondering like what the heck
Kimberly is a devil-may-care attitude
someone who has a devil-may-care
personality is usually happy-go-lucky
and kind of naturally confident so when
they walk into room they kind of have
that like shouldn't say qua quality
about that and for some reason guy is
like actually go gaga over this
personality so next time that you are in
a situation with your crush channel your
energy jihadi you know so that you can
get into that devil-may-care attitude
the second way to get a guy to like you
it's to flirt
now flirting is one of the most obvious
ways to show someone that you're
attracted to them or interested it
immediately gets someone to see you as a
love interest as opposed to someone
who's in the friendzone and this is one
of the top things you can do to get
someone to be interested in you number
three is to touch his skin
skinny-dip in contact releases oxytocin
which instantly connects you this
releases all those super feel-good
hormones that instantly increases
arousal so when you're around your crush
just find a very natural way to touch
the skin whether it's just like
playfully touching him on the arm or
touching his hand something super
natural and easy any kind of touch will
do
the foreplay to get a guy to like you is
to actually hit up his friends now this
is not in a romantic way I just mean to
win their approval if you want a guy to
like you you are gonna need to have the
approval of his friends and I've
actually seen examples of people not
dating the people that they really liked
because the friends didn't approve
so you're definitely gonna want to make
sure you pay attention to his friends
right from the get-go so being super
bubbly asking them questions and just
getting in their good books and Josh
thank you guys the fifth way to get a
guy to like you now guys this was so
interesting and I've seen it be so
effective if you can do it right when
you first make them once you have caught
their gaze and they've caught yours once
that initial my contact has been made do
not give him too much attention do not
get caught gazing until he actually
approaches you the reason you want to
avoid doing this too early on is that
looking at them all the time can make
you seem like you're too available once
you've made that initial contact he's
gonna know that he wants to approach you
so you want if you're busy and like
you're doing your own thing and super
confident and not too readily available
tip number six is to play a little bit
part to get now I know the last Sifl was
also a little bit hard to get but this
tip is even more so so once you've
established maybe a texting relationship
with them playing a little hard to get
is a good thing it means that you're not
always available to them so for example
if he texts you and you text him back
like within two seconds that just
screams I am so available I'm here at
your beck and call I have nothing better
to do and that's exactly what you want
to avoid in a new relationship this
comes from the goddess of all things
relationships share from clueless
as share from clueless says sometimes
you have to show a little skin this
reminds boys of being naked and then
they think of sex share I couldn't have
said it better myself
now you don't want to go too crazy on
this one guys I think showing skin has
been shown to increase intimacy and
attraction but I'm personally not a fan
of putting it all out there my best
advice is to choose one area of your
skin you like the most and let's just
kind of play that up when you're around
your crush
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to get a guy to like you it's to use the
chameleon effect to your advantage
now the chameleon effect is the
subconscious connection that's created
when you mimic someone's body movement
so for example if someone takes a sip of
their drink and you take a sip at the
same time it helps them feel like
they're in sync with you like they're
real it is the same as yours and somehow
on a psychological level that makes them
think they like you so if you're walking
beside your crush in the hall try
sinking your steps to the safe feet guys
it's the little subconscious things that
do the most
I swear honestly is to tell your crush I
read and she's a really really good
secret because this really works
my second middle name Kimberly and
Burchard Moffett it applies that you
have a connection with them that you
just don't have with anyone else and
obviously I feel that way about you guys
at my lovebugs because there is no way I
would share that Gertrude is my second
middle name if I didn't love you guys
10 is to watch a scary movie you know
obviously guys I know like watching a
movie with someone implies but if you're
like already on a date or you're at
their house or something so I've more
tips for those of you who aren't at that
stage after this but the feeling of fear
that's created when you watch a scary
movie creates adrenaline when people
feel this adrenaline and they almost
always think it's because of the other
person who's there and not necessarily
the scary movie so the more scared
someone gets when they're with you the
more likely they are to just think
they're super attracted to you I know
that's really weird but it's so true you
guys need to go and try this one I swear
eleven guys this is like probably my
most serious tip it's serious it's like
from me to you you know that girl on
social media who always shares like
everything her life story you hear about
every single day you hear about every
piece of food she
you see every single selfie of her do
not be that girl we all know a girl like
this in our lives we're just gonna know
that if he breaks your heart or if
something happens or if you date him
that you're gonna write all about him on
your social media and that's a huge
turnoff the 12 way to get a guy to like
you got it this one's really good it's
to give a subtle compliment but try to
avoid complimenting him about his looks
or something physical wow I can't
believe you read the entire series in
two weeks like it took me like a month
to do so impressive I guess I'm a fast
reader comments like that work because
they show that you're actually thinking
about the other person's strengths and
their personalities and that really
intrigues people to get to know you on a
deeper level alright guys the final tip
it's you getting a guy to like you
number 13 I feel like this is going to
shock you I'm really sorry if this
shocks you but it has to be done tip
number 13 final tip guys is to give
another guy the time of day there are
gonna be some guys out there that are
like let's just be real for a second
here before you are in a committed
long-term relationship with someone
there is a courting period and during
that whoring period you are allowed to
talk to whoever you want you don't have
to be flirting you could just be talking
to someone and laughing and having a
great time if he feels any sense of
attraction team enid he is not a
possessive or patroling guy he is going
to want to protect what you have already
created with him he is gonna get
involved he's gonna be jealous and this
jealousy is a good thing because it
makes him want to take steps to further
that relationship with you and actually
realize how much he actually cares about
you guys I really hope you love this
video so much I hope your situation with
your crush works out super well and I
would love to hear your stories and your
love situations in the comments below
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bye
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