what's up y'all I start and I am back
for another video and as you can see
back title today I'm teaching y'all how
to flirt after my shoot your shot video
all you guys were like okay yeah I got
him but now I don't know how to keep him
what do I say how do I play with my man
yeah I gotcha I didn't realize that like
flirting without being OD or like being
awkward was actually difficult because I
haven't done it in a minute like no like
for real the last time I had to like
flirt was with Kyrie and I was yeah that
was like three years ago
really it was before that because me and
Henry were like best friends here we go
here I go talk about Korea again anyway
I have to do that for a long time so I
was thinking about this every time you
asked me nice and I'm like done so easy
but then I'm like it's easy because I'm
comfortable if I wasn't comfortable
somebody I could totally understand why
is like girl what the hell do I say so I
had to really think get on my creative
juices flowing think about what I was
doing for years ago and give it to y'all
also yet again before somebody get in my
comments and it's like okay but you're
not being okay but you're not being
inclusive you're just talking about guys
all of my titles always say like how to
shoot your shot that's it not to how to
get him not that that's that that this
is for every it's for everybody okay but
just the easiest to like I thought if I
say him then under that it's just
because I'm like trying to give you all
stories and like I can't keep switching
from him/her okay okay
so let's just jump into this but first
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how to flirt this is gonna be for when
you're like already talking to this
person not like talking you know I'm
saying but like you have already
established some sort of hi I kind of
like you less you two know each other
you feel me like this is kind of shoot
your shot part to like the next step so
if you have not if you're here trying to
figure out how to flirt to get the guy
girl you want whatever go watch how to
shoot your shoppers if you want to
figure that out now I'm talking about
the conversations okay it steps to this
so let's say like y'all are in person
first we'll talk about Texan later let's
just say you're in person right and like
how to be flirty so one big thing I feel
like is flirty not even just flirty but
just lets them know like wow like this
girl or guy likes me i contact
don't be talking to him like no looking
and be like yeah I really like garlic I
like that book to I feel like because
then like you look nervous you're gonna
let him or her know that they got the
upper hand no no no no no you run the
show you need to let them know that
you're confident and you're ready for
the conversation you want to hear what
they have to say you want to connect
that connection now don't be like yes I
also like that this empathetic don't be
staring but like you can look off
eventually like yeah you know to do that
like also you know there's this places
for you to look but don't be around the
room look at him for a majority of the
time that lets him know like wow this
girl's confident she knows what she's
talking about
also if you're in person or over text
being witty I feel like is not for
everybody but it's a good way to flirt a
little bit of sarcasm here in there
that's it now some people don't
understand sarcasm so your first time
using sarcasm be gentle
y'all say some off-the-wall stuff you
kind of gotta ease into that because
some people really can't process sarcasm
or some people are sensitive
and it'll affect them in a negative way
like you're not gonna understand what
you're doing to them so try and start
lightly with the sarcasm and the weight
like just hearing their little
teeny-weeny joke and if they respond
well then we can go into the other stuff
like don't jump full force because that
might sabotage you
but B what do you make jokes when jokes
are due like if somebody's being deep
with you and you guys are in a deep
conversation like oh this is why I'm the
way I am this happened to be my
childhood this is most important to me
it's not a time for joke that's the time
for active listening that's another
thing be an active listener you need to
when he's talking or she's talking
listen nod and even if you're not really
like listening and you're really
thinking about like the things that just
not you know you could play it off with
just right ask questions be involved the
little head nod and the squint get them
every time okay try to actively listen
oh but if you're getting distracted I'm
just showing you how to play at all so
also a good thing with active listening
is like when you have another
conversation or something and something
may relate to something that he already
told you about himself you can bring
that back up and hope you like damn like
she really listened small things gonna
do matter even if he just mentioned one
time like oh I like that restaurant and
like maybe you guys are planning a date
down the line you can be like oh didn't
you say you like blah blah let's go
there don't be crazy though don't be
like you told me on March 4th in 2019 at
4 p.m. no no no no just trying to
remember little things about him trying
to remember the things that he likes to
do the things that he doesn't like
that'll help you in the long run too
because you can know what to avoid so
now let me just start talking about
texting because I know everybody is not
at the stage of like going out on dates
seeing each other in person all the time
so let me just talk about texting and I
know that's why y'all here okay so
texting you need to decide what level of
flirty Savage you're ready to be are you
trying to be like straightforward like
you let him know what your intentions
are
you so fine but pop back or are you
trying to be like just just a little a
little jump here and there like
I like you hi you need to decide that's
the spectrum decide from I like you a
little bit I'm trying to show you I kind
of like you or oh this is what I'm
trying to do so if you're down here and
I like you a little bit okay let me just
give you our symbols cuz I already know
you're gonna be confused okay so on the
light and the things let's say you ask
him like so what do you love to what are
you doing and here's that oh I'm about
to watch us right I don't even like oh
my gosh you want to see that too we
should go together
that's like the light end of flirting
like I like you I kind of wanna do some
yeah and then in the middle is like
let's say he asks you what you're doing
and you're like I'm watching us right
instead of just being like oh I'm
watching us how about you you could be
like I'm watching us by myself but like
I'd rather you be here with me ah hello
wink emoji or something or like a low
like emoji that's like mid spectrum
you're being kind of straightforward but
you're not just being out there okay hi
spectrum is like instead of asking to be
like come over and watch us with me
straight forward letting you know I want
you here come here let's go that's that
you see the spectrum of things I feel
like I laid that out pretty decently see
you guys can understand where you want
to be so pick a spot on the spectrum and
follow my little template okay but
regardless of where you're at on the
spectrum I feel like you should be
progressing towards the farther end of
the spectrum eventually everything can't
be like little shy baby girl things like
forever like that's corny like step it
up sis make your way towards this end of
the spectrum and especially make your
way past the texting stage y'all should
be physically seeing each other if
possible unless y'all are like super
long distance in like Texas and Maine or
something like that's a different but if
y'all are in like decent range you also
be working towards seeing each other the
text should end up talking about seeing
each other and like you baby if you're a
girl trying to get this guy you better
not be the one that's always bringing up
hanging out he better be the one that's
like so what am I gonna see you like
please he should be on your behind you
better not be chasing that boyfriend
nothing or we're fighting that's it you
should not be like so what am I gonna
see you like
come see me come see me help please I
would see you so bad let him do that and
this is what I was trying to tell y'all
in the shooter shot video like don't be
the chaser need the chasey you should be
doing a cute little I like just like
cute cute little - a cute little skip
you know let him put the energy in I'm
telling you boys they like it they like
put an energy and then a 100 girls like
up they ass like that's gonna be so easy
to obtain now don't do too much every
text and every conversation does not
have to be flirty like no use it when
necessary use it like not frequent and
not often but like intermittent when you
see an opportunity present itself sure
take it but don't be flirting 24/7
singing bleep damn like what's she want
from you
also y'all if y'all are just talking
don't try and get his attention by
sending no nudes just don't do that
don't because next thing you know you
gonna be the talk of the school next
thing you know he'll be like oh look I
already got on the string I don't need
to do no more work cuz she gonna do this
for free you know I'm saying like get
him with your mind get him with your
personality get him with everything else
whatever else you want to do after that
it's all useless but before that no you
want him to want you finishing how many
girls have a cube body it's not just
useless I'm very started form you of
this tragedy but it's a lot of people
okay but you are the only you you're the
only one that has this mind that
personality that spirit that aura you
can also use body language when flirting
don't be invasive like don't be in his
personal bubble too much gamma body
language like show that you're
interested you know I'm not talking
about being like I want you be with yes
show that you're interested in him you
know like don't be standoffish like this
be like you know be like hey like yeah
this is how I feel that I like be with
it okay be engaged
y'all know that look if I could find
that little video I'm gonna put it here
from girls trip y'all know I'm talking
about
it's the look like I want you okay show
that you want them in day mate I always
tell y'all like to not be the one that's
chasing and like stuff like that but
there's a limit to that I don't mean you
don't show that you're interested at all
make him think that you kind of like him
damn flirting is all based on the type
of person that you want to be the type
of learner that you want to be
flirter is that a thing it is now it is
how have you want to do it bad end of
the day like I told y'all before either
way you should be progressing like you
should pressing towards that spectrum
and after that spectrum y'all should be
together so if you guys have other
questions you need more responses
whatever whatever comment below also I
want to start doing like little shout
outs I don't know what I'm gonna call
them yet but I'm gonna give it a little
shoutout at the end of every video if I
can remember y'all might remember the
way that you can be a part of this is if
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like I'm just gonna pick somebody and
give y'all a little shout-out at the end
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