How to impress
A Boy In First Date
6 top first date hacks to impress a guy | First date tips to make him want you more
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first dates can be totally
nerve-wracking and you want to make sure
that you're able to come across as a
confident authentic woman that you are
so what I want to do in this video is I
want to give you 6 dating hacks with
that will actually make you want you
even welcome back to my youtube channel
I am a dating and relationship coach now
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comment down below thanks Renee if this
video helped you ok so I get asked all
the time what are my first date tips
well ladies and actually isn't that
complicated so I'm going to give you my
top 6 dating hacks right now number one
be on time it might seem really sort of
simple but a lot of the times impressing
a guy isn't about something that's
overly complicated anyway it's just
about understanding how men work and
then putting that into practice and by
turning up on time or at least
communicating to him why you're running
late it essentially shows him that you
are ready to respect him and respect the
time that he's put aside to actually
invest into you as well
and one of the main things that men
actually look for in their dream partner
or their future wife is the fact that
she is able to understand respect
respect of herself and also respect of
him so if you're running late or you're
making him wait on purpose that is a
sure way to turn him off and I've
actually done another video on all the
little things that we do that actually
turn men off on a first date if you want
to watch that the link for that is in
the description down below number two
ask the right questions okay gals going
on a first date
obviously you're showcasing who you are
physically and also mentally and
emotionally so you want to come across
as a woman who is authentic and
confident but also a woman who is able
to pique his interest you know like
really kind of draw him in and one of
the simplest ways to do that is to ask
the right sort of question the right
sort of questions would be something
along the lines of okay do you love your
job as opposed to so how much do you
earn in your
job right one actually shows that you're
taking a genuine interest in what he
does on a daily basis the other is all
tied to status and comes across as a
gold digger okay number three trigger
his sensor when we go on a first day
essentially a guy is wanting to feel
physically attracted to you not only
does he want to enjoy your company in a
way of he finds you mentally and
emotionally stimulating and easy to be
around but he also wants to feel
physically attracted to you
now some of the ways that you can
actually trigger him is obviously
through your physical appearance the way
that you look have you done your hair
your makeup have you actually put extra
effort into your appearance know that
you have one particular feature that men
always comment on or always drawn to
then play on that feature whether it is
a great smile then smile all the time
whether it is beautiful eyes and
highlight your eyes with the right sort
of colors whether it is your gorgeous
hair or your figure you know pick that
feature that you know it's kind of like
your weapon and then enhance that to
really making drawn in now one of the
other big triggers which I don't think
we talked about enough he's actually
smells if you wear its particular
perfume every time that he smells that
he's going to actually be thinking about
you now what I have discovered is this
great little site called
scent bird and scent bird is essentially
a subscription to perfume pretty cool
right
and I actually decided to try them out
because I like trying things out before
I tell you guys about it and I ordered
some perfumes I ordered three actually
and they come in this cool little bag so
it's really sort of subtle and it's just
like something that you can pop in your
handbag or pop in your car and you can
literally spritz and be ready to go so
if you're someone that again wants to
always for that you're ready for a date
you know have a little date pack ready
whether that is some chewing gum
whether that is a perfume whether that
is a little bit of makeup or whatever it
is that you feel that's going to boost
your confidence don't be afraid to
actually put that together before you go
on a date or have it in your car or your
handbag so that when you're on the date
you can use that if you feel that you
want to enhance something especially the
trigger or his scent
now if you
want to actually get access to this sent
bird perfume what I've done is I've
contacted these guys and I'm like give
me a code and they've actually given me
a code which gives you guys a discount
men can use this and women can do this I
have both men and female perfume number
four keep some mystery about yourself
okay ladies the reason why men pursue a
woman and the reason why they chase
after her is because she doesn't reveal
everything and she always keeps him
guessing and she always provides an
opportunity for him to step into that
moment where he can be a hero or prove
that you know she needs him so what we
want to do is we want to make sure that
when we go on a first date that we
dogged overshare even if you really are
connecting with that guy and you find
that he's a really deep sort of guy that
is not permission to then start you know
turning into a counselor or maybe
getting so far back into your histories
that you feel that you've connected for
the last ten years I get it I know what
it's like to date someone and you
finally go how this person gets me but
it's important that you still keep a bit
of mystery and that you actually still
allow that relationship to develop over
time and not just jump on the instant
feelings of connection by over sharing
on the first day leaving mystery about
yourself girls essentially makes him
want to know even more about you hints
asked you on a second date number five
be fun
ladies when a guy goes on a date with
you he wants to know that he's actually
going to enjoy the time that he's with
you and that's why dates should be fun
they should be exciting it shouldn't be
too serious too soon now you're someone
that really doesn't know how to come
across as fun or flirty because that's
not your forte yeah it was like a poem
then what I suggest is put yourself in
an environment that can be fun now
whether that is a music concert whether
that is rock climbing
whether that is one of those mystery
murder sort of scenarios okay
get creative and think okay what are fun
dates and happen we you know go on that
date and you know have a great time
without thinking to yourself this must
be fun if the guys having a really good
time with you
then he's more likely to be attracted to
you and there
he's more likely to want to go on a
second date with you and lastly number
six offer to pay for the bill you don't
want to just sit back and expect him to
pay for the bill you want to actually
contribute and show him that you're
willing to do that now that might be at
the end of the the date or whatever it
is that you're doing you might say to
him hey um let's split this okay or can
I give you some money for that now this
will also give you a good indication of
what sort of guy he could be like he
might be someone who's like ah yeah well
I was gonna ask you about that are you
happy to pay half is that cool then you
might beginning the idea that he's
someone that may be stingy with money or
he's not really ready to invest the way
that you should invest into a
relationship and I'm not talking about
finance here but again you want to come
across as a high-value woman and you
want to come across as a woman who is
ready to make that equal effort and one
of the easiest ways to do that while
showing him respect is offering to pay
some of the bill or at least contribute
in some way well there you go girls now
what I want you to do is I want you to
actually download my free guide are you
dateable it is something that for a long
time I couldn't work out why I wasn't
getting any progress with my dates and
you know I thought I was this fabulous
woman yet it wasn't going anywhere and
so I realized that there was a lot of
things that I was actually doing that
were turning men off so what I've done
is I packaged it up along with the quiz
and put it together for you girls now if
you want to get access to that all you
need to do is click the link above or
simply download the guide in the
description down below now if you
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any down below and until next time have
an amazing week let me know how your
first date went when you put all these
tips into practice and I will talk to
you all really soon bye for now
you
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