How to hurt Your Ex Boyfriend Emotionally
How To Get REVENGE On A Guy & Make Him REGRET Losing YOU!
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do you want revenge on a guy who hurts
you do you want to get him back
Ida client come to me recently wanting
exactly that she was feeling angry and
ashamed I'm gonna show you in this video
how I helped her get revenge how she
implemented and how it made the guy
deeply regret losing her don't forget my
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okay so before I show you how the client
got revenge and how she did this so
powerfully a little bit of a backstory
as to why she was so angry she had been
seeing a man for seven months and they'd
been getting pretty serious in fact in
the last few months they were seeing
each other three days per week so quite
a bit she found out that in those last
three months where she'd been seeing him
three days a week he was also seeing
another woman
three days per week she was angry she
was really angry as you would be as I'm
sure you can imagine you would be as I'd
be if someone did that to me so she came
to me five months after this all
occurred saying I'm still so angry I
still want revenge but I'm also really
ashamed mark because I'm an empath I'm
not this kind of person I'm a nice
person I don't want revenge on people
like I'm this isn't me what's going on
here so before I get into what she did
to get revenge I had to tell us
something that if you're feeling a lot
of shame around this is very important
revenge is normal what happens if you
stand on an ant's nest the ants come up
here they can bite you what happens if
you punch a bear bear tries to bite you
what happens if you come home and you
find someone's hurting your dog or
someone you know right you are happy to
get some revenge on that person in that
moment
revenge is a normal emotion no years ago
I might have said I was a terrible thing
to want revenge but it's right
throughout nature it's in me it's in you
there's nothing to be ashamed of in the
want for revenge it's very normal and
very natural when it comes to revenge
though you've got to think about what is
truly the best way to get revenge on
someone you see how instincts just like
the bear biting us back our instincts
are to bite someone back let's go kick
his car let's sleep with his best friend
that's Molotov his house look it's not
about getting rid of revenge revenge is
a natural emotion and creates a lot of
charged energy to create movement Moo
minutes how you changed something Nature
gave us anger so we could change
something it gave the bear anger so it
could bite us and re-establish our
boundaries it gave us anger so we could
change something and re-establish our
individual boundaries we have to ask
yourself is doing these things like King
his car or sleeping with someone he
knows really the best revenge coz think
about it have you ever had someone do
that to you what would make you
think of the person did it make you miss
them did it make you think gee that guy
was a wonderful catch made you think he
was a dick and it made you glad that guy
was out of your life what would be a
better revenge what would be a healthier
way to use this healthy emotion of
revenge to get actual revenge on a guy
when you think about it all the
traditional things that we go to for
revenge they all involve giving him
attention they all involve focusing on
him they all involve hurting him you
sleep with his best friend or key his
car
you've now stooped to his level you
became because of him it's the
dumbest revenge I ever heard if you
really want revenge on something use
that healthy energy use that healthy
anger and put it into getting actual
revenge maybe getting revenge means that
in 12 months he looks onto your life
with such a deep sadness at the mistake
that he made by letting you go because
of how many things you've done maybe
getting real revenge means never giving
him one more bit of your attention and
it's said rising to be such a great
person that you have the internal
validation of knowing that you got the
sweetest revenge there is while you go
and give all your attention it's a man
who actually deserve it
think of healthy ways to use revenge
that in the long term really get revenge
but more importantly empower you so that
you feel great and don't stoop to that
level we can all do the naturalistic
thing and we can bite back but really
it's the worst kind of revenge and
sinking you down it's making him think
you're and it's not giving you any
validation external or internal for your
actions after a few sessions my client
realized that she had been going about
revenge all the wrong way
she'd been putting all this time effort
and attention into how to hurt this guy
who hurt her which would bring her down
too
his level and ruin her future it's a
terrible revenge she instead realized
that the much better revenge was to
leave him in her wake was to go off and
have a great relationship herself and
take the powerful feeling take the
internal validation take all of that
from knowing that she'd left him behind
and that his actions would have their
own consequences in his next shitty
relationship don't lower yourself to
someone else's level revenge is much
sweeter when you get the benefits from
it without going down and having that
person to affect your future the way
they affected you past this client
realized this and she's now going on
she's already dating and meeting better
man and she's realized that the biggest
loss for this guy the best revenge that
she could get was in losing her and
having her walk away let me know your
thoughts on this I would love to hear it
post in the comment section below
how can you get a healthy revenge and
how can you turn revenge in your favor
to move beyond the people that have hurt
you to empower your future share it in
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