hi guys welcome back to my channel I
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my name is Gabriella I make videos about
astrology self-care lifestyle beauty and
basically anything else I feel like
talking about so today is gonna be
another installation in my anger series
where I talk about zodiac signs anger
and how they deal with anger how you can
possibly help them get over being mad at
you so this relates to their Sun Sign
but also their Mars sign so if you look
into your own chart or someone else's
chart and for example for this video
there Mars sign is in Sagittarius then
this video will be helpful and will
relate to you but just know I recognize
there are wonderful traits to all of the
signs and everybody deals with anger
it's a human emotion that everyone has
so I'm not ridiculing anyone for the way
that they deal with their anger alright
they just have to say that so if you get
mad that's on you and I'm so sorry you
don't have more interesting things going
on in your life okay let's begin with
Sagittarius anger and the Sagittarius
being mad at you
so Senate Aryans are overall really
optimistic people there are fire signs
so they're they're kind of feisty high
energy yes there are optimistic people
they're positive they are they're kind
of scholarly to me they love learning
about different places different
cultures they tend to be very
open-minded people and open to learning
new things and they also love to teach
their teachers my father's a Sagittarian
and he's a social worker and he's also a
college professor so he's like the
perfect secretary to me I just think all
Sagittarians that are dealing with some
maturity issues need to learn from my
dad because he's just he's just the
greatest secretary ever but um yeah
they're their teachers sometimes a
negative trait that says
can have is being a know-it-all just
because they do know so much they
consider themselves very smart they
pride themselves in their worldliness
and their knowledge ability and so they
can be a little bit aggressive and can
kind of be stubborn about their
intelligence and things like that so
that's a kind of a brief on the
Sagittarian personality everyone's
different of course if you're like a
high-functioning Sanjit Arius and then
maybe not so much their anger is quick
short bursts that's how usually fire
signs are they don't hold on to things
very much but when they flare up boom
like their their anger flares and as a
fire sign I'm a Leo Sun even though my
Mars is in cancer I when I get angry I
totally describe it every time to anyone
who's speaking to as like like like a
fire blaster or like a breathing like a
dragon's breath like boom like my whole
body gets hot and I could just like pop
the f off not really hit somebody but
like with my words pop the f off for 30
seconds and then like I start to cool
down and I look back at him like that
was crazy in general that's kind of how
fire sign anger is it's like you piss
them off and like woo like you like
become a hole for a second and then you
just cool down
so essentially it would be great if you
could avoid Sagittarian anger for
whenever it flares up because when it
flares up they tend to express their
anger through very hurtful words they're
known for being a very blunt sign for
being honest they pride themselves also
on their honesty and so they're used to
speaking their minds they're used to
articulating their feelings and well not
always their feelings but they're used
to articulating exactly what they think
and saying it so when they're angry it's
only ten times that amount even more
like just it all just comes out and it
might seem blunt it might seem too
honest they might even say things that
aren't that are kind of an exaggeration
like honestly nobody even likes you why
you at litter
no one likes you you have no friends
besides me like they can totally tear
you down and over-exaggerated and and
really like destroy you with their
hurtful words and that's what usually
happens if you're caught in the line of
fire of a Sagittarian flare-up
luckily they do not last very long so if
you give them their space and their time
to have their moment you can usually
move on from it like I said they are an
extremely optimistic sign they're also
very very forgiving they don't like to
hold on to thanks for too long now you
might talk about I wanted to mention a
Sagittarian like Taylor Swift her her
habit of writing writing songs and
releasing them about the people like
everyone knows who she's talking about
that's so sanitarian and that's such a
Sagittarian reaction to anger is like
okay I'm gonna put you on blast I'm
gonna be completely honest I'm gonna
bare my soul cuz that's all I know how
to do because I'm so I'm an honest
artist and you're gonna be caught in the
line of fire of whatever I have to say
there's that one song she wrote about
Camila Bella and Joe Jonas where she was
totally slut-shaming and it was like
she's better known for the things that
she does on the mattress oh my gosh
that's the first of all totally
slut-shaming like no problem being good
in bed Taylor Swift but you know just
hurtful words that's so sanitarian but
if you think about the things that she
does she holds on to things and she
seems to hold grudges and like kind of
have an obsession with like people
ruining her reputation and the whole
beef with Kanye West all of that I'll
make another video but that she has a
moon and cancer that's a different story
and herb in heaven is in Scorpio which
has to do with her reputation and that's
why she seems to like die and be reborn
in her reputation and her rep is like
her whole theme is like my reputation
gets destroyed and I come back it's this
whole thing so anyway I just love
looking at the people's charts but her
writing songs and being super public
about all of that is and like her
relations with other people who've
pissed her off that's so so Sagittarian
not everyone is going to deal with their
anger
the way Taylor Swift does but I do want
to give a real-life example so how you
might have pissed a Sagittarian off call
them in genuine because they're so
honest they hate fake people call them a
liar call them in genuine or ridicule
their education or their qualifications
if you kind of make them feel like if
you're you know in a work environment or
something like really should you be
spearheading this project I don't know
I'm a little worried about you if you
make it seem like you need to monitor
them if you baby them and and kind of
fence them in as in like okay we need to
give you boundaries because I just don't
know how much I trust you on this that's
gonna really piss them off but when I
think of my father who is someone who is
the least I mean I don't know if I've
ever really seen him angry except when
it comes to injustice in the world
bigotry racism when we hear about hate
crimes and shootings and people being
hateful towards minorities anything like
that he just has that natural heart that
that's what hurts him and I think that's
also why he's a social worker because he
wants to help people you know become
well-adjusted and he wants to help
people operate in this world that is
just so painful and I don't know if this
whole story is is just a wonderful kind
of Sagittarian story he moved here when
he was 11 from Mexico he didn't speak
English and he completely speaks English
now fluently
that's Sagittarian already because
they're just great at learning languages
and new things and he's a teacher a
social worker and he's passionate about
changing the world and passionate about
causes that make for a better life for
all human beings so injustice and people
being mistreated people with mental
illness not being cared for people with
mental illness being ridiculed that
makes him angry
again if you try to change them if
you're in a relationship with them and
suddenly you have these new standards
that
to leave live up to that you didn't
express at the beginning of the
relationship in general I think you
should not enter a relationship if you
want to change the person because you'll
either be disappointed or they're gonna
hate you I wouldn't like to know that my
boyfriend was like telling his friends
yeah she's cool I'm hoping that you know
this changes in this changes and this
changes that's just me like I'm too
young to be in a relationship where we
need to work on things but in general
yeah especially with a Sagittarian
Sagittarius Mars don't go in there
trying to to revamp them it might be
difficult for example for them to have
relationships with a Virgo
because virgos are all about like let me
help you improve your life let me give
you this tip I'm not criticizing you I'm
just being helpful and that would piss
the Sagittarius off it's like I'm doing
fine I'm independent I've been fine
before I met you I was fine doing my job
before you decided to monitor me you're
not my parent you're not my mom that's a
very Sagittarian thing to say you know
that you they don't want you to make
them act ingenuine themselves they're
all about being honest and being being
themselves and if you if you're dating
them and you suggest well can you can
you just act a little more this way
because you're kind of embarrassing me
that it up no that's a huge turnoff for
them that's gonna piss them off
don't threaten their freedom don't
threaten who they are if you can't
accept who they are you should probably
move along because they're gonna end up
fighting back luckily they don't always
take things personally they can really
laugh things off my dad is so good I
like to use real life examples in my
videos but my dad is so wonderful at
laughing things off he sent a funny text
to my family and was like do you guys
think I'm fat and we were like what and
he said that he was in the Walmart
parking lot and he was he's not a super
fast Walker he's like I don't know how
old are my parents now 68 or something
he was just sauntering out in Walmart
and someone in their car needed to get
by him and said move you move your fat
ass or something like that and he just
was joking he was like I guess I am cuz
somebody called me a fat ass
I would have been crying if someone said
that to me even if you know and he could
just laugh things off because he knows
those people have problems that I do
know I'm not even aware of so they must
be having a bad day moving on
he's just optimistic and he sees the
best in people and he's forgiving of
people he probably would have been able
to talk to that person and been like
yeah I know you were having a bad day
no big deal whereas I would have been
like don't you dare try to speak to me
again if they're mad at you they're very
forgiving let them have their fiery
pissed-off burning anger moment and then
they'll probably actually come to you
they're pretty pretty proactive sign and
if they feel like they've said things
that were untrue or they've said things
that were over exaggerated or they've
said things that were hurtful and they
really care about you they're most
likely going to apologize for sure if
you of course again let me say this this
this depends on their chart because I
have no sanitarians who would never
apologize for the crappy things they've
done and who are still holding grudges
for years later but that's because you
have a whole lot of other stuff weighing
you down in your chart that's keeping
you keeping you in the past but you know
a high functioning healthy Sagittarius
or someone with a lot of Sanjit areas
traits will be able to brush things off
and move on they're kind of like air
signs in that way where they're just
like let's just have fun again and I
just want to move on this is
uncomfortable certainly come to them
with maturity and honesty about how you
feel and you know speak candidly about
the situation that created this issue
between you guys they're pretty good
listeners and I just think you know if I
think I was trying to make up with
Sagittarian it's just don't try to be a
victim don't try to have a sob story be
honest try to speak as eloquently as
possible about how you feel is going on
and listen to that
and they'll kind of mirror your behavior
I just think that's um like something
wise to use when you're when you're
confronting conflict in general is just
to try to behave the way you want them
to treat you because people if you start
raising your voice someone else is gonna
start raising their voice if you speak
in a calm manner and you're letting them
speak and done it and you create this
environment of a healthy conversation
then that's going to follow that's just
true for anybody I think but yeah
they'll recognize what they've done that
was hurtful if they're mature words
they've said things they've done you
know they they can recognize faults in
themselves if they're if they're a
healthy of a church sachet Arian and if
you need any like material concrete
advice definitely try to meet them
outside don't meet them somewhere where
other people are listening or where you
have to say keep your voice down meet
them in a park or just somewhere where
you can have a nice private conversation
where they can be honest and not feel
like people are listening or that you
need to shush them or anything like that
you can send them a gift if it's if it's
a partner you could send them a gift if
if your subject area is a little more
immature and it's just an argument you
think they're kind of holding it on
holding on to the argument for maybe
sexiness sake you know what I mean
people will like act a little more mad
to try and get you to slowly okay fine I
forgive you I think a great thing for a
Sagittarian would be like weekend
tickets we're going to Santa Barbara for
the weekend or we are you know we're
going to I'm taking you to this nice
let's Helen downtown like give them an
escape give them freedom they might just
be irritable because they're in a job
that's restricting them they are in the
middle of some kind of move where they
just feel like they have no space
and they might be in a living situation
where their roommates are cramping them
and their and and they can't do what
they want and they can't be creative
they might be irritable for other
reasons besides you so just take that
into consideration again with anybody
people anger usually doesn't just come
from something you've done unless you
did something really shitty so that's my
little video on Sagittarius anger just
very brief and kind of glazing over my
impression of Sagittarian anger and I
hope you guys enjoyed this video and
stay tuned for the next one love you
guys so much
muah bye guys