How to hurt A Man Ego
Hurt His Ego - The key to getting him addicted to you
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alright alright alright people
um Alex my pleasure 2.0 so um mm-hmm
you gotta heard is the oh man that's
that's pretty much the the on total
truth about this is that you have to
hurt his ego point-blank you have to
hurt his ego and the reason why I make
this video is because for two reason one
coincidentally I got that same question
so it's from two of my clients today one
from online course ecologic beginning
with traveling I got somebody email me
it was like the lectures that solo
section on creating pain and how is that
true and then one of my clients who also
is in that course asked me that and I
was I are this is to two people at the
same day what the [ __ ] all right let me
give you guys the answer to that right
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super tab button look man in my
experience I'm speaking from my
experience and from coaching other guys
the women who that guys remember the
most is a woman who made them feel
insignificant simples that the woman who
made him feel like [ __ ]
yeah yeah that's the guys I that thank
you
iris for the 499 donation that's the guy
that's the woman that the guy would
return to the woman who hurt their ego
who made who make them feel like fools
who make him feel like [ __ ]
simple as that think back in your life
of the guys that you were now over the
guys who you had a tough time getting
over usually they're hurt your ego
usually they affected the way you saw
yourself in the mirror and you might
think that hurting somebody's ego makes
them never figure
you but in fact it makes them never
forget you they may resent the fact
you're hurt though but they'll never
forget you in fact they'll like you the
problem is is Thank You Sofia is that
when you make somebody like you to
hurting their through hurting their ego
there is something bad could happen
which might which means that they might
want to get back with you choose for
your revenge in other words they may
want to get back with you simply so that
they could feel good about themselves
and then they lose interest as soon as
you open up I mean but that doesn't mean
that a strategy doesn't work because if
it was genuine if it was genuine they're
gonna stay simple as that and and it's
little it really sucks all right isn't
that bad isn't that shitty that to get a
guy to really get interested in you you
know you sort of have to make it feel a
little insignificant for example you
might say you know the lunch is like
there's no way this is true because I've
gotten guys and I was nice to them all
right but maybe they thought you were be
you were you maybe they thought that you
were out of their league you know maybe
they thought like what the [ __ ] it is no
way this girl likes me and so you're
friending this through their insecurity
so maybe they were just already insecure
around you and the fact that you're
showing them interest makes them feel a
little bit secure you know maybe they're
just insecure so yeah sure it recently
secured dude then yeah that's gonna work
but if you want to do - who's stable is
emotionally who has a life who who who
is masculine the way you want him then
that's not gonna work you're gonna be
gonna push him away you're gonna get
you're gonna get - dude that no no well
nobody wants so the end day is all about
inflicting pain because you got to think
about it the people who are now over
their exes are people who were hurt
- think about that people who hurt their
ego it takes a lot of effort to forget
somebody who hurt your ego and you think
it's counterintuitive you think that if
you cheat on them that they'll lose
actually no I'm not saying I'm not
telling you to cheat on them I say no
but it's to prove it's just to prove the
concept they reach in on someone they'll
actually end up love you more like in a
toxic way though but they'll still like
you you know so so if you're someone
who's super nice and who prides
themselves and never having an argument
with you man you know those people who
say man this is a relationship
we never argue oh you're missing out oh
you missing out because when you really
show negative emotions whenever you show
anger or any negative emotion in fact it
makes the person like you more yeah
that's how twisted people are they'll
actually like you more if you actually
hurt them it's kinda like this if you
have a friend and you never argue with
that friend or you never had a or you
never had a moment where you guys just
snapped at each other you guys not were
your friends yet real friends argue with
each other and can't recover real
friends do that but let me have a friend
that you are afraid to argue with that
friend because you know you guys are not
that tight then he is your friend but
you guys not that tight arguments and
then a conflict review how the person
feels or arguments and conflict either
makes the person like you more or it
pushes them away you know simple as that
it's [ __ ] up so [ __ ] up I've
dedicated a whole goddamn course in this
there's a lot of people who are who take
my course and um they feel a little bad
but then they get used to it
gotta get used to it they get used to
being a little [ __ ] up no they
definitely do right when they're
narcissists I don't think that works
exactly that's the exception
narcissistic people are the exception to
the rule you know it's kind like this
right let's say you cheated on your guy
thank you the black Erica came for the
$9 $10 donation let's say you cheated on
the guy right
if you cheat on a guy the last thing you
wanted to us apologize because you're
soothing his ego if you cheat on the guy
what you gotta do is break up with them
simple as that if you cheat on your guy
what you gotta do is break up with him
think about that think about that it
take it takes away any power he had over
you
he can't say [ __ ] you [ __ ] I'm done
alone you're done so now he has a choice
to either let you go I'll go back almost
like he's gonna go back because not only
was he cheated on he was dumped but [ __ ]
man right it's kinda like it's kind of
like um that's happened to me before
where I was with a girl and I sort of
you know she knew I was here other
people right and then she texts me she's
like hey I didn't know you were seeing
other people habla and then I was like
hey man look man I think we should not
be talking to each other man because if
this is a problem then you know what I
think we should just stop talking so now
it reverses the team was on her you know
because she was hoping that I was gonna
succumb to her but when you push him
away you actually hurt her ego one
second yeah one second
one many people
okay um so I was reading something right
if you guys have any questions just um
you could ask questions under by doing
the super chats how you guys can ask
question like hey how do I do this how
do I do that
I'll answer it for you guys look the
days of the Magnificat disrespects you
in any way shape or form oh you gotta do
is withdraw right actually you know I'm
gonna make a video how to react to a
man's disrespect so I'm not gonna I'm
not gonna so but I said I'm gonna make
it tomorrow but essentially just
withdraw just go cold on home until you
apologize right so for example if if
yeah that's one thing exactly you go
Korda home um okay so what if you got
into an argument with him and then he
cheats on you look man I'm sorry man but
there's no compromise with cheating
there's no compromise it's it's like
like this is don't compromise once
someone's somebody cheats it's like take
pictures commit murder you can't bring
him back to life
you got to prepare we proverbially see
that as a murder it's over he's dead out
the window you know but essentially
though you have to hurt me go girl
this dish is no compromise um you see a
museum Anna asks a question oh I guess
Erica didn't ask question
look when I can say in my life man and
it's so kind of intuitive though because
you know we have this person we sort of
think that people have more pride than
they do we think that people respect
themselves more than they really do
reality no people actually have low a
loss a low self-image of them so you
actually hurt the person you think has
high confidence you're gonna be
surprised how they succumb to you it's
kind of [ __ ] crazy
is it a little sad too
when you see a man who you don't
actually was powerful
so come to you like that if this only
happens when you hurt their ego simple
as that
how do hurries eagle there's a few ways
to do for example let him know that
you're that he's not your type you know
it's that's all I don't talk about is on
the course but I'll talk about it here
like for example like um let's say you
meet him on the first date and he sees
you and you have a screenshot of a black
dude maybe Mike Tyson already you have a
screenshot of some famous black guy and
then he says oh he's white and he's a
white dude but he's like ooh who's that
he's a lot of the RAI so cute right he's
a white dude automatically he feels a
little insecure automatically as soon as
he sees that a big black guy walking
down the street he's gonna feel insecure
automatically Thank You Angelica for the
file donation right
so simply seeing that you don't have to
say that those are your type by
happening but by having a screenshot of
it he can make his own interpretation
right um he said that they'd hurt his
ego he got mad now I want him back but
he stopped texting back wait longer man
point-blank period
you never double text you let him come
back if it never comes back then [ __ ]
you just cannot come back because he
might not come back next week or the
next week after that but he might come
back next month or he might never come
back
the point is is that you initiated in
the contact will put you in a position
of weakness you know look man the only
time I tell people to text somebody that
you want them to text you is when it's
just consuming your thinking is when you
just cannot deal with it anymore and the
only way for you to keep moving and do
your working life is to get some closure
then go ahead by all means by all means
bernetta got them [ __ ]
by all means be as needed as you want
find out yourself that is the only time
I tell people to do that
Thank You Alexandra for donation that is
the only time and I did that myself to
ma'am you know and then and
it worked but she lost interest you know
it's it's you know 10k I can't lie to
you guys
that that did hurt I'm not gonna lie to
you guys like it really hurt um you know
it's um it's there is a bitter price to
pay for learning all of this stuff and
then and and that price is really really
really been hurt you know it's um and
and then the funny thing is is that like
you know I'm a human being and and you
know you you you at you you improve on
yourself you you you you improve
physically mentally you learn new skills
you improve your life your career you
improve your career your improve every
aspect of your life and they still don't
like you how do you how do you deal with
that that's your hurts your ego
I got it look right hurts my ego and and
look at me right I still still liked her
even though it's even though I don't
want to go back but if she offers me -
if she offers to come back well I say no
I think I will say yeah [ __ ] right and
then I I know that I will if I if if I
ever do it again I'm gonna get over her
okay it's all Eve I'll be honest with
you it is all ego but when you even
though you know is eager you you can't
really you gotta give it time for you
for the Fox who really clear up right
but but anyways and so you know you sort
of you know you sort of question how how
how how compatible you are with people
because you say yourself you know I
improved so much you know like I mean I
I'm lucky to to sort of get better
looking at I ate right cuz I had a
babyface so in my twenties when I got
older my face turned got I'm warmer look
more like quote unquote masculine per se
because I use having baby face and so
it's one of those tits one of those
weird blessings and you know I improved
my channel and I got in better shape
dressed better smell better and [ __ ] I'm
even I even
you know that do art you know artists
you know and getting pretty goddamn good
to the point where there's a there's a
good projection that I could be a
professional artist within five years if
put to my standard about could easily do
it within the next two years but and
they still don't like you right look at
that
come on you know and and and and you
guys could think that you know like that
he'll forget you if you hurt his ego
guess what I haven't I haven't you know
I haven't and I'd like to think I'm a
decently confident person I do think
that I that I have things to offer and
hurt me too so if it works on me then
what makes it out the dudes any special
you know Thank You Kelly for the for the
donation you know what makes you think
that that other dudes know it's all a
front
baby they're gonna feel hurt and then
they're gonna think of you and when they
when there were a girl that that like
stone and there with her he's gonna
think of you because you owe him
something you know we all you owe him
his self-esteem you took it away
and he the only place you get is from
you and once you validate him he's like
thank you now get out of here I got what
I want and then he pushes you away and
that's what happens with me I remember
look that's how I know his ego because
when when the last time we saw each
other again I thank you hey we got a new
member the last time we saw each other
you know I it's it's when I was in and
she was in Mexico and
you know it was it was hurting me a lot
you know I couldn't deal with the pain I
don't know why I so I don't travel that
much because I get homesick when I
travel and things get to me a lot easier
and you got to the point where I just
couldn't take it like I was like I need
to know you know if um you know I I need
to know if she'll ever call me back and
and you know I was I [ __ ] I'll double
text her
I broke my own rule I double tech sir I
am because she not never heard from her
you know we met him we met randomly at a
place and it was a good there was a very
good interaction and I'll be honest with
you she looked like she was everything a
girl who want to get banged as much as
that one time and I was like not like
I'm not gonna I'm not gonna chase after
her after she was gonna dump him and so
I was waiting and I was expecting her to
I was expecting to hear from her and she
never did so I just got to my head so
much that I was like you know what ma'am
like I can't think straight right now
[ __ ] it I just need to know she ever
call me back so that's why I was like
you know what this is that's when I
realized this is the only time you do
really break that rule whenever you
whenever you can whenever it's really
affecting you you know well I just want
closure I want to hear no that's what I
want to I want to hear no you know
that's why you can't be clear with guys
as soon as you're clear about how you
feel about them that's certainty will
allow them to just forget you but when
they don't know where they are you're
always gonna be attached to you
emotionally how do I know this my own
experience man
you know and and um and so took her back
and you know we banned and I was like
holy I'll be honest with ya I was like
what the [ __ ] I can't believe is really
happening I'm not gonna lie I was I was
in shock I was like it really happen
like right she was at now anyways so
after everything was done you know she
looked at she was really done a seam
again and all that I just sent her back
in an uber and I was over her I was like
ah look at this I don't feel any emotion
for her you know I don't and the day
that did that week some girl left some
girl left her on the way in my room and
the day after I saw her thank you mainly
for the donation
the day after I saw her I found the
underwear there and I was like what the
[ __ ] is I usually don't text girls after
I see them I was like what the food of
[ __ ] is this and I was just text I was
like hey this is your stuff and she took
a whole day to respond and she was like
no and I was like [ __ ] right and the
house looks [ __ ] now I looked at I
looked they looked medias help right
because it looked like it was an excuse
and it really wasn't hers and you know
and I guess I gave the impression that I
wanted something more when it really
wasn't you know really wasn't but they
had testers she was running out and she
did right and then I was like all right
over there you go it's over I was able
to go get over then two week last week I
went to the museum
I guess what [ __ ] ran into that chick
her and I was like [ __ ] man when I was I
wasn't me try banging her tonight and
she said nah she was like she's busy you
know
thank you fly for the donation so you
know as you guys can see you know it's
um kingi if she if this was something
that she was doing consciously ain't
real consciously I've been a [ __ ] you
are good at this I should hire you to
work with me but it's not conscious she
just doesn't like me right and so it
hurts my ego
and with guys when you do this to a guy
you think that they're gonna forget you
because I respect themselves it's not
about respect man it's about having a
desire and not being able to have it
your mind goes crazy it goes crazy it
wants that it's kind of when you're hit
when you're craving a meal and when you
crave it the more you want it once you
have it the craving is gone you know you
know it's it's it's it's you know it's
um it's it's one of those things man but
the thing is is I am the only way for
this to really work with like the guys
you have to have it he has to really
like you like it has to be a genuine
connection and we find those people once
or twice a year we find those people and
the key is to not [ __ ] it up that's all
because when you when you do this with
the people who really like you it would
work
it's just will it's inside of them
there's something about you that they
like and and if you do this it will work
it just will I'm gonna focus man I am I
teach people this and it works on me and
I know all the strategies all of us I
mean it works on me she's not the
[ __ ] one he would put a cheese in
when she's not the one then you know I
don't want somebody who doesn't
appreciate me she it's it's it's she
doesn't she doesn't deserve me not
because she's not worthy you know not
because she is not a person of value but
if the person doesn't want me they don't
deserve me there's a million people out
there who who would who would feel feet
who would want me for who I am
I mean why want somebody who doesn't
want you
you know she doesn't deserve it not a
negative way I'm just saying like it
doesn't deserve it nor does she care so
it's whatever you know and then it's
important to have an understanding that
that there are people out there who
you're gonna like and we're gonna like
you back you just have to be patient and
don't get and don't get desperate to try
to find it tomorrow you know just just
focus on improving what you can't
improve improving your art proving your
looks improving your mind from your
mindset setting bigger goals getting
your finances right then things will
fall into place eventually you're gonna
change well along with that you're gonna
change your thinking you're gonna change
how you feel about the you can you're
gonna change your perspective you know
then you're gonna wake up and realize
you haven't thought about her in a few
months you know
thank you I'll Pedro for the donation
you know and it really sucks you know
but you know that that that's what
really gets a guy into it now niceness
or cruel or or sweetness it's it's it's
a little bit of cruelness I guess I
gotta like you you know but how do you
deal with when somebody doesn't like you
like how do you deal with it the way I
deal with it is that I ask myself what
could be what good can come from this
what good can come from her and I like
you me back
and our automatically I think of the
good you know
because she is and she's not the
best-looking person in the world
she's not you know like she'll have the
biggest ass on the planet nor the
biggest boobs
nor the best skin she in fact she has
acne yeah she has nice facial structure
very nice cheekbones but that's it
pretty plain looking but little bit
above average and clinical but yeah it's
pretty plain so why am I still not over
her because of that it hurts my ego it's
as simple as that
you know so you it's it's it's it's it's
how it works unfortunately and um and
it's it's not a bad thing because if it
wasn't for that I wouldn't come up with
new concepts you know um you know it
made me realize that I'm more of a
morning to polyamory than monogamy you
know that's what I realized
I prefer that better anything is this
ma'am is that it's it's very difficult
to really comprehend it but that you
know they're not the only person in the
world you know like you're not the only
person in the world Alexis there's other
people out there prettier people who
like you who would like you more and who
you like more - you know why wish your
time was with somebody who who doesn't
want you why why makes no sense
you know and again it's not when people
when I say she doesn't deserve you I
don't mean any she doesn't deserve you
like because you're better but you know
like this guy it's kinda like pizza some
people don't like Peter and the people
who don't like pizza don't use our pizza
why are you wasting your time trying to
eat this pizza and give it to someone
who would really like pizza take
exchange it for something else going to
[ __ ] broccoli guys apparently you
like broccoli going to cut in Bradley's
leave the pizza for somebody who's
wanted the pizzas not gonna force
somebody to eat it the pizza scare safe
and then somebody else would go get me
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okay now I'm not coming to Toronto man
harder hurt his ego I mean I already
talked about that okay you guys be safe
Thank You Jessica for donation and see
ya we say people hello I guess well
whose hey Alex you can call me Zion
doesn't that come across as disrespect
what come the causative suspect what do
you mean because I mean I'm what the
whole hurting is ego I mean it doesn't
matter ma'am I mean people have short
memories you know if you offend someone
and you apologize don't forgive you know
forgive you people have short memories
you just have to trust that if you do
something bad and you apologized or
don't forgive you but the damage has
already been done you know I'm saying
they still feel that you they still feel
that you hurt them and it's not gonna
make them lose interest by they will
sort of how can I say yes they will sort
of have a fear that you could
potentially leave them you know all
right people you guys be safe and have a
great day bye bye not actually let me
before we leave like this up
all right people I'm gonna go to a
coffee shop right now and get some work
done man
I found out that I owe a lot of money to
go to my medical medical bills I know
that I don't know I had medical bills
I'm not gonna make a plan I don't get
him off his pump that's okay
can you hurt his ego after you have
broken up yeah you everyday hurt his ego
the word and it's kinda like don't you
wonder why when you get a boyfriend
suddenly or every other dude wants to
hit you up right it's because now they
have competition see competition is all
about ego when the guy competes for you
his ego is on the line you know he's
like [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] her she needs to say
yes to me so that I can feel superior to
the other dudes that's that's me no
reason well we're the only reason why
how do you hurt his ego when he dumped
you and he's not chasing um he dumped
you it well you you gotta say I didn't
like the way things ended are you gonna
make it up you just ask him to make it
up and the way you make it up is you
find what that whatever that is you know
what AMS does he makes women lick his
ass because she's like [ __ ] I'm licking
this dude's ass how demeaning that is
you're hurting her ego right so you
gotta find what that is for you it's
kind of like you know you like look man
I didn't like the way you did this to me
how you gonna make it up and you find
what that is say hey how about this run
the streets naked up and down the block
and I'll take you back I don't know you
find whatever the [ __ ] that is right and
and if he doesn't want to make it up
thing it means that he isn't really that
interested you know
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lying Glen upon you I am it's right yeah
the God is his semi Spanish thing come
on people this English people here any
other cables to the crowd do that in the
Spanish channel so you say is telling a
guy that yeah it's not gonna work
because he's too immature her name is
ego um I don't know I mean maybe I mean
you don't give him an explanation just
pull away in fact just coast them I
would ghost them and um yeah we go
someone you you piss them off you know
and whenever somebody gets pissed I used
because you heard their ego so I would
just cost him and let him ask why did
you leave me an agent said dude man
you're just a mature man you just tuned
tour for me I don't know I don't know if
this is how you are but you're just too
immature and then and then that hurt is
ego you know at does he's like oh how
can I make it up stuff like that I
already go when you're ready no
relationship okay you gotta realize it
that of hurting somebody's ego it's not
about offending them but my you know
feeling secure and
or making them feel not as masculine so
that could be you like for example you
just go into a new going to a workout
class like in jiu-jitsu class 10 I'm
you're gonna go touch it to class and
saying oh and there's so many guys there
not a fight so cool
they're so friendly to me you know he
automatically feels threatened
automatically feels threatened in fact
he might even want to join you he's like
yo do they have a couples package right
stuff like that you know what to do if
you go see you first then you go some to
look man somebody goes with you you're
not gonna go after you no no you're not
gonna go after him [ __ ] ghost
you've got him a Ghostbuster man no if
somebody goes to you you let them ghosts
and you let them come back you're not
gonna be chasing after logo from the
LeBron James yeah if he doesn't contact
you after you hurt his ego then that
means he didn't really like you you know
or he's stubborn either way let it go
you know and you heard his E or after he
cheats and you broke up like yesterday I
mean if he cheated on you I don't know
why I mean it's over so don't even ask
that question I'm sorry that you can't
compromise with that you can't
compromise when I do cheats
don't even ask how do I it's the first
step the women asked me how don't even
ask how do you deal with it how do you
get over that's where you gotta ask how
did it going like if a guy cheats on you
there is there is no exception it's over
you're some Lynne lure I said you're
amazing keep growing and long or this to
grow with you thank you know we'd
appreciate it
I mean look man I always help people
don't go don't delete people from your
social media because it looks it looks
like they got to you you know it looks
like they got to you so it's always good
not but you know what with women I tell
guys not to do that but women actually
know I mean if they go see you then you
gotta let them come back so I wouldn't
delete them I wouldn't leave them
because what's really going on is that
when you it was funny is that when you
don't delete it dude for example let's
say he goes to you and you don't delete
home you're essentially telling you how
to do it I don't care you left I care so
little that I still kept you as a friend
think about that think about that it's
actually kind of funny how that works
it's kind of crazy I've had women ghost
me and the fact that they're still
watching my stories or watching my
videos it's kind of funny you know like
oh my god just saying like he goes yeah
you still watch my stories or you still
you know like you still follow me and
then and I could see how that could
really make a guy bitter it's kinda like
he'll say man [ __ ] this [ __ ] man she
cares so little that she's still my
friend on Facebook you know what I'm
saying
hurting people is a slow murderer all
right so let me see let me see if
there's only any anything that's I have
people after this $10 donation I'm gonna
believe in alright cuz I'm trying to get
out of here but I want to finish the 10
thing so I could enjoy this because I
didn't wanna smoke and be making this
video I have a video that I want to
watch you guys are [ __ ] it up you
know the video that I wanna watch his
own is a you see what video is it is a
Gordon Ramsay video and then in Elgin
Elgin Baylor video I like watching old
school basketball you see one second
again guys to get your questions
answered a hundred percent you could
just donate liked to even two thousand
our answer I'm I'm in no contact with
this guy forum was two weeks today he
sent me a hi I answered and then he said
send me a political message I'm confused
well we used to talk political help me I
mean no concert with a guy for once a
week it depends I've you were the one
that initiated all right
I mean economist right now I like this
vibe well I do that too
why are you taking I know it took
comments off of Instagram you see
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