How to hurt A Guy Who Loves You
7 Signs YOU Hurt HIM! (Does He Still Love YOU?)
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how you doing folks I'm Freddie
Sanderson gentleness an infamous living
room Network defined powers are always
working for us
because we're trying to do right so I
have seven signs that you hurt him does
love still exist are you guys still
gonna be in love well I'm gonna take you
to seven signs you know that you hurt
him you know if you're a woman watching
this video this video is for women
fellas
bear with me I'm just trying to get the
information out there to the women and
let them know you know some of the
things they might be experiencing their
relationship concerning their man
whatever but ladies I'm gonna tell you
seven sons seven sons and I went around
to all different kinds of people and
listen to their opinions and I have my
little notepad with me it's somewhere
right but I have my little notepad with
me or whatever and I just made sure I
jot it down the most the top most
important seven signs that I needed to
tell you accumulated from numerous
people today so I'm gonna give you the
seven signs first and foremost if you
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folks the first sign is the first sign
is no six this is a dead giveaway your
boyfriend your husband will not have sex
with you weeks upon weeks upon weeks
this is a sign that you probably hurt
him somewhere along the relationship
path you know and you might need to
check it I mean cuz only thing I can
think of the reason why he's not having
sex with you is because he's probably
having sex with somebody else or he had
sex probably once with somebody else I'm
just keeping it real
you know or he might be doing the thing
that I stated yesterday in the video he
might be watching pornography or
something and so he has time for himself
you know in that time for himself is
very valuable and so when it comes down
meeting you in a bed later on at night
it's not there you know but that's a
dead sign that you probably is he that
you hurt you or is it he had something
going on you know or he had some type of
health condition or something like that
but I highly doubt it you have a health
condition but that's one sign that you
could pay attention to another sign is
he were more so rather wanna go and hang
with his friends more you know versus
hanging out with you like I'll normally
used to hang out and go to the mall and
you know go to the park all the lovely
moments don't you remember all the times
I used to hang out oh man
don't you want those times again well
this could be a sign that you hurt him
so you might want to start talking to
him over again and getting this thing
right you know I'm saying understanding
what it is that he's going through like
really being sincere cuz listen one
thing you got to realize if you hurt a
guy
i'ma tell you the top reasons why you
probably heard a gun you probably said
something negative in an argument that
was so bad and it was so spirit reaching
like it just really got up under his
tough skin and he just you know he hurt
you hurt his feelings because a man is
not gonna sell you show you its feelings
like you women show us your feelings
they gonna kind of like put it to the
side and you know whose actions and
behavior is gonna be totally different
from that point on another way that you
can like hurt a guy is through mind
games you know I understand women y'all
have emotional feelings and all this
stuff but sometimes some women can be
very manipulative when it comes down to
you know helping their man understand
more about them and so the only way that
most women would want to get that
recognition is to playing mind games
now Maz you me and arts the worst at
this like me and literally suck at
playing mind games you know I'm saying
and that's simply because like I said we
don't have that emotional heightened
sense of awareness like you do so you
can't door your your emotional power
over him by using mind games to like try
to get him to do certain things like a
guy's got like things up front God
like says it's serious like bling you
know I mean like bow you know and so
that's another reason why you could
probably hurt him in another another
reason why you can probably hurt him is
too is because uh he probably armed
jealous you know he's probably jealous
that you hang out with your friends a
lot more than you hang out with him you
know say it's a little stuff like that
that makes a man upset you know I mean
he probably jealous what a simple fact
that you've worked with a bunch of guys
like no man wants to have their wife or
their girlfriend you know working with a
whole bunch of gods well he's jealous
that you have a best friend and he's of
me like come on come on so you know
listen close listen close page number
three of the seven signs I was telling
you back to the science number three is
he doesn't call you like he doesn't call
you like you normally would expect him
to like if you at work and you normally
get the text message on a regular he
don't do that no more
you know he's not really worried about
you at all now this is bad man this is
when it has gotten really really bad and
this is once again this is where you
need to check him like I said it to the
two reasons that that's really really
bad and you really need to get down to
the bottom of what's going on and it's
subliminal way is when he doesn't call
or text you or don't want to talk to you
at all you know he don't do none of the
communication stuff no more at all or
when he like wants to sit down and have
a talk with you or he's like coming at
you mean like you know baby look I want
to sit down and I wanna I got some
things I need to tell you now this is
what is really really bad those are the
two top things that you need to make
sure you have never happened those are
the two top things you need to make sure
that never happens but the fourth sign
that you hurt him is when he becomes
like super duper overly motivated and
determined once one time he's just be
chillin determine you know I mean just
be just normal God you know but now he's
really going above and beyond he's just
doing all kind of courageous things and
he don't want your help
he don't want your help he's just trying
to really like prove yourself you even
notice he like why does he why is he
just being so courageous like why is he
just taking matters into
his own hands now like why is he going
to the grocery store buying the
groceries now why is he like in the
kitchen cooking you hurt him you hurt
him you hurt him and so he feels like he
needs to you know prove himself to you
to show you that he's still the man that
you have always known him to be you know
and I got told y'all yesterday the
number one key is motivating a man and
keeping him filled up with confidence
and letting him know that he's the best
thing that you ever had he's the best
thing that you ever had and so when your
man becomes like overly motivated that's
a sign that you probably hurt him
alright number five the fifth sign that
you hurt him and does a Chance of love
still exists it's when he does not come
home on time he doesn't want to be at
home he's always out so where you called
him he's on his family in his house you
know you called him he's still at work
hanging out with the boys you call oh
now he hit the bar dang how you go from
working straight to the bar you didn't
come home and get your food I meant that
I made for you I cook you know I hope
you ladies I hope you cook out there oh
but anyway so that's a dead sign that
you probably hurt you so he feels like
he does not want to come back home
because he knows he's gonna get that
nagging that complaining you know that
royal treatment is me and like to stay
away from this median don't want to
argue because most men know that they
never win arguments anyway then so we
automatically know like like I'm not
even gonna go home because it will mess
up my vibration me and always want to
stay in the high level of energy so
ladies if you got a man or whatever in
if you just made me wondering if you
hurt him do the best you can to get this
man back in the high state of energy now
don't offer him sex
cuz I'm tell you he's not gonna go for
that you gotta be smarter than there are
for him sex you know don't go cook up
your best Betty Crocker meal don't do it
don't do that don't do that that's
that's normal stuff don't do that you
know don't buy him nothing no don't do
that either that's just this is normal
stuff this is what you do when you first
meet people don't do the normal things
when you first meet people
be subliminal be smart every time you
notice that he does something right and
you know that he's just being a manly
man when he don't do it you know like
you know he's been a manly man when he's
doing it you know like for instance if
y'all was just sitting together whatever
y'all went and got a bottle from the
liquor store something like that and
he's pouring you some drink and you know
he's pouring himself from drinking
whatever something like that say
something really subliminal like baby
you know what I just I like the type of
drinks that you bury home you know it's
like you always have a good taste in
drinks in baby I've never I've never had
that I just I just want to let you know
that you got to make it seem so real to
you it can't be sincere your way every
time you know I just I really like when
you're able to sit down with me and have
drinks that makes me feel so classy and
and baby
I just love you for and this is where
you're really gonna put the icing on the
cake
oh my exes they see they've never did
anything like that and that's they never
all my exes never do anything like that
you want to get deeper you could be like
yeah well you know right right right
Ray Ray always used to go he always used
to like want me to pull my own yeah like
I mean it was my boo and everything but
he always wanted me to pull my own but
baby I do I just like you you're just
such a man when you buy us a bottle baby
I just want to let you know that whoa he
goes go bananas and he might not do it
in front of you like right off the bat
but I guarantee you give it give it two
or three hours give it two or three
hours you can see candles being lit in
the bedroom yeah the TV is gonna be
turned off it's gonna be some weird
strange things happening for a piece of
change number six the sixth sign that
you probably hurt him women is that we
y'all get into arguments or whatever
y'all got disagreements and this
argument thing probably has been going
on for a long time when he begins to
curse like a sailor like we he's cursing
you while he's saying the most biggest
vocabulary curse word that's in a curse
word bump you hurt him you hurt you I
don't know what you did I don't I can't
I can't speak for your relationship but
all I know is they be cursing you
out on that level of curse words and
those my ass not to not damn my Heil the
regular words you see on TV you know not
those little simple words when he is
saying the gigantic cuss words that he
will probably say if he had got into a
fight with another dude now you hurt him
somewhere and you need to go back and
revamp the situation okay so speaking of
that this is the seventh sign the
seventh sign is when he tells you he's
going to leave you but he doesn't leave
you no he's still there he tells you
he's gonna break up with you
but he's still constantly tasting you
you know that's the Duster that's a sign
that you hurt him because if he really
wanted to leave you all you got to do is
just get your stuff and just leave and
probably go buy a room and go to his
friend's house or whatever family member
house whatever the case may be he is to
a man a man so ratchet he'll stay in his
car if you really want to get away from
you they haven't that much but if he's
still dead if you still texting you the
truth is he still loves you there's a
chance for love that's a chance for love
relationships haven't been in the past
it doesn't got to the liver where it was
like stupid crazy dumb big time
arguments and I was just really
irritated but I got it irritated to the
point in some relationships so bad that
I literally took myself out of that
situation by myself because I knew that
it was the safest thing for me to do and
I would rather be safe than be sorry so
when he got that bad I literally left
literally like it wasn't no yeah you do
dude I leave right now okay my bad
alright now leave right now no you know
put it back you ain't got another day
put it back you better he say there he
wants thing what are you doing my stuff
that you don't pay the bills I'll pay
the bills with you that's when you still
love you you understand what I'm saying
so the truth is if your man falls in the
category of doing one of these seven
signs that you hurt you you still have
love you still have a chance remember
the only two things that you should look
out for when it comes down to losing
your love is when he wants to sit down
have a conversation
you about something negative or
something that you did or something to
him like you better pay attention to
that don'ts don't sleep on that and
number two was when he doesn't
communicate with you like he's supposed
to be next in the house if you don't say
that to you like you used to in the
house that's when you're away from you
he's not texting you he's not calling
you he's acting like you are just you
don't exist he's completely oblivious to
the fact that you even are his woman
those are the two sons that you need to
never ever happen versus the seven signs
that I just told you okay keep this in
mind ladies and remember once again last
but not least always in to win any man
to win any man to win any man Oh after
you know it done been so bad this is all
you got to do this is all you got to do
it press thumbs up because I'm about to
get your secret key don't let me down
ladies always pick him up make him feel
confident make him feel like he's the
strongest thing in the world
make him feel very very motivated and
compliment all the little small things
about him that he's not expecting you to
compliment see a man is smart if you try
to compliment us something that we know
we already good it we don't know you
just tan it just so we can you know take
it to the bedroom or something like that
just be real always complement the thing
that he will never expect you to
compliment and then when you do it do it
is such a sincere way that you don't
even look as though you want recognition
for saying it you just Brandon to go do
something else that way in his mind it
won't ready stress oh she's trying to
get back right with me
it is his registered thing she
completely like she just she just like
she's still [ __ ] though but she just
she just said keep still but I do got a
good signature yeah my signature been
good ever since he started thinking with
univer my signatures been good ever
since I was in Middle School yeah I do
got a good signature yeah
well you could they have good yeah I see
I thought my head round was going
backwards I knew it was coming I knew it
was coming back up from I can't stand
her but see these are the little things
that when you compliment him he's gonna
think about it behind closed doors when
you're not around
and I guarantee you give it a day give
it a couple hours 24 hours 48 hours he's
gonna be asking you where you want to go
tonight for dinner trust me
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