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and this series of ass lucky or as lucky
as Jeff the Jim and I this question
comes from one of my subscribers leaves
shout out to leaves they asked a
question what do you do when you have
hurt or made a Jim and I met now one
thing about a Gemini we're very
complicated sign you know why we could
be easy breezy light-hearted people
there is a dark side to us and unlike
other signs you might see both the light
side and a dark side at the same time
we're very contradictory saying I'm it
makes other size nuts but that's just
the way we were built you know we have
two different personalities going on at
the same time with us but believe it or
not we're not we don't like grudges
I guess because logically it just
doesn't make sense to hold a grudge
against someone not to say that we won't
hold a grudge you know because you've
got to also take other aspects and signs
and placements in into effect but if you
have a lot of Gemini energy in your
chart you're not you're probably not
good at holding grudges because
logically it just doesn't make sense to
you to hold a grudge but when we're mad
we're mad and when we're hurt we're hurt
and while we're it may not be emotional
about it we could be very mental about
it meaning that we would stay in our
heads about it so we will walk around
even if it's just for a couple of days
we'll walk around just completely
engulfed in anger in her
but once we're able to vent and get it
out of our system we're good again so
here are some ways that you can piss off
a Gemini or even hurt a Gemini
one way is to ignore them or to speak
over them quickest way to piss them off
don't want to do it Gemini's hate to be
ignored we hate it
what passion don't do it another way
that you can piss off a Gemini or hurt a
Gemini is if you insult their
intelligence nothing is worse other than
ignoring the Gemini is when you insult
their intelligence or are you playing
mind games with geminis now Gemini's are
the players so these are the air signs
we're good for playing mind games but
don't try it on us don't do it don't do
it don't call us dumb don't call us
ignorant and unintelligent those are not
the keywords you want to use when you're
dealing with a Gemini another way that
you can really hurt or disappoint make a
Gemini mad is when you say that you're
gonna do something and then you don't do
it that is not something that you want
to make a habit of doing when you're
dealing with a Gemini it's one of my
biggest pet peeves
I can't stand it it makes me sick the
quickest way to lose me another thing
that you don't want to do with a Gemini
to piss them off or to even hurt them
it's the lack of communication now some
of us some of us Gemini's I'm guilty of
it depending on who I'm dealing with
we're really bad for communication but
because we're contradictory
contradicting we can do it but you bet I
do it to us
and if you do it to us you might lose us
and those are just some of the ways that
you can potentially piss off or hurt a
Gemini but what can you do to win a
Gemini back well for one you need to
understand what you may have done - as -
upset - Gemini or to even have hurt -
Gemini and a part of that might be you
might need to reach out to them
immediately don't wait
you know don't sit on it you need to
reach out to them and ask them and make
it clear and be willing to listen to
them even thing cuz they're gonna really
gonna vent they're gonna they're
gonna Maul they're gonna talk and talk
and talk and talk and talk and talk and
- both of your ears fall off and they're
gonna continue to keep talking but you
need to hear them out and you need to
listen to them and and listen to what
they have to say when you're ready to
apologize
don't just be general about their
apology be very crystal clear about what
you're apologizing about because they
will appreciate it
trust me they will appreciate when you
take the time to not only hear them out
but to be very clear about what you're
apologizing for the shows that you care
it shows that you are paying attention
to their feelings because yes Gemini's
do have feelings we're not emotional
like the door defines and the flyer
signs but you know we do have feelings
here are some ways here and here's
here's some ways to know that the Gemini
is mad at you if you know your Gemini
had to be talkative and he's not talking
to you and he's been avoiding you and
he's being really icy that's a key signs
of that Gemini is pissed at you one way
another way that you can get back in the
Gemini his Grace's is to and I know it
sounds crazy but you can do little
things like you know send them a it does
it say if you his girlfriend his wife or
lover tell him how sexy years you know
make in other words feed his ego and
meaning mean what you say you know don't
just say it just to be just to say it
you know feed their ego you know make
them feel good depending on what you've
done you know golf course if this is
some lightweight stuff you know
something as simple as you know feeding
them a compliment and apologizing for
what you've done can make everything
alright if a Gemini has shut down from
you and he's not really responding to
you right away give them that time in
space let them give them the time and
space to process what's going on because
we're very mental and we need to be able
to have space to be able to be quiet
and just work on what needs to cook
because we don't want to say the wrong
thing to you it hurts your feelings good
trust me everything we just been plenty
of times we may have one to say
something to you and we didn't say it
because we want to spare your feelings
but when you've made a Gemini mad or
angry this is the time where you don't
want you you just don't want to test
them because they might come right out
and say exactly what they want they're
one to save you so basically if he's not
wanting to talk to you if he is just are
willing to talk to you right away you
know give them their time in space don't
don't let them sit for too long though
one thing you don't want to do with a
Gemini when they're mad at you or their
hurt is to confront them about the
situation and to be aggressive about it
so you don't want to go at them and and
you know don't Boyd they might be left
with why you man you should get over it
it ain't that serious don't do stuff
like that don't do it you know don't
tell them to get over something oh they
should shut up about it
quickest way to lose the Gemini quickest
way what else be patient and just be
understanding you know be patient about
the Gemini because again we don't hold
grudges for long we're not like Scorpios
well we are holding forever and ever and
ever we're not like tourists or another
sign that will hold a grudge to the day
they die and you know
Gemini's we're not like that and we're
giving you the silent treatment it's not
going to last long if we're yelling at
you and cussing you out it's not going
to last long
understand that with a Gemini it's not
going to last long because you know this
time tomorrow or next week or next month
we're gonna probably forget about it
that's just how we operate so I can't
think of anything goes but if you guys
can think of anything if you're a Gemini
or if you know plenty of Gemini's and
you've been down this road before please
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