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Cheated On? Here's How to Get Revenge.
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hello today we're going to talk about
revenge in life people hurt us
physically mentally and emotionally our
first instinct when people hurt us is
that we want to hurt them back we want
them to feel the same kind of pain that
they made us feel but is this the right
way of doing things let's examine a
situation where an individual is cheated
on by their spouse that individual who
was cheated on they want to get back at
their spouse for all the pain that they
caused them for all the embarrassment
that they caused them and all the
suffering that caused them they might do
things like tear up their clothing throw
everything out on the lawn
you know same rude things about them on
social media I'm expose them to others
to try to humiliate and embarrass them
but is that the right way of doing
things the answer is no and here's why
individuals who hurt other people and do
things that are careless and ignorant
are oftentimes individuals who have in
their minds that what they're doing is
okay so in other words when an
individual cheats on their spouse they
look at the cheating as not that big of
a deal
or something that's acceptable in other
words their brain tells them that what
they're doing is not that bad or is not
bad enough to warn not doing it what
this means is that in the future because
of that way of thinking they're going to
encounter tons of more problems and
they're going to get themselves in tons
more problems so when it comes to us
trying to get revenge on them we
actually don't even need to get revenge
on them they're going to end up harming
their self more and more and more
maybe that cheating spouse will one day
again get married and one day again get
divorced and the reasons because once
again they cheated but once again
they've experienced pain themselves
because they've created an environment
that is based around pain and suffering
and ignorance so once again we can throw
their stuff out along we can burn their
clothes we can humiliate them embarrass
them on social media but they're only
going to inflict more pain on themselves
because of the thought process that they
use to
you in the first place this can also be
applied to everyday interactions such as
someone who cuts you off in your driving
the first thing you want to do is you
want to speed up and honk the horn and
maybe even give them mill finger or
something like that to to make them feel
bad about their decision you don't need
to do that the reason is because the
same inclination that that driver had to
cut you off and the same perhaps
laziness and and and bad driving skills
will cause them more problems in the
future
be it traffic tickets be it you know
future traffic confrontations whatever
it is their thought process is going to
harm them in the future so you don't
even need to worry about that but even
more specifically than that perhaps we
should have compassion for those people
instead of wanting to get revenge on
them for instance going back to the
cheating spouse instead of going to get
revenge on the spouses that cheated
maybe we should have some compassion for
that person maybe somewhere in the past
someone hurt them and gave them some
sort of you know mental or emotional
pain that they are now expressing
through that cheating act so maybe their
actions are the result of having
experienced lots of pain and grief and
suffering in the past and maybe it's not
so much that they're even actively
trying to choose it out of good faith
and good intentions maybe it's that
they've already experienced a lot of
pain
and this is their way of expressing that
pain so perhaps instead of trying to
find revenge in them and trying to get
revenge in them maybe we should be
compassionate to them and wonder how
they got into this place in the first
place
so overall let's do a quick wrap-up
revenge is not necessary people who hurt
other people end up making their lives
worse in the long run anyway we don't
need to ever vention them they will
continue to hurt themselves in the
future maybe that's the best revenge of
all
