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hello hi how are ya hey guys and welcome
back to my channel today's video is
gonna be a sit-down video I just wanted
to explain first of all if you've been
watching my videos since the beginning
then you know that I've already made
this video before but honestly I went
back and watched it and it was so
embarrassing and this video my old one
got so many views on it so many likes
I've always had so many questions on it
so what are you doing so I wanted to
remake it make it a little bit better my
editing skills were terrible and I was
so like shy and awkward in front of the
camera so I'm just gonna remake it and
today we have miss Charlie with us
because she's a teething little baby and
she's got two little bottom teeth coming
in she's like gnawing on my fingers
right now but she has just been super
grumpy and just wants me to hold her all
day long so that's what I'm gonna do you
ready to get started girl so as you can
tell by the title of this video I'm
gonna be sharing some tips with you some
things that I did that will help you to
conceive a baby girl
I also will be making another one on how
to conceive a baby boy so just stay
tuned for that one yes but basically I
have done this method twice now the
first time I tried for a baby boy ended
up having a baby boy and then the second
time we wanted to try for a girl so I
went through the whole process again
tried for a girl got a baby girl here
all of the research that I've done and
the things that I'm gonna share with you
it's not very complex or anything like
that but everywhere that I've read or
found this information it always says
that there's a 94% chance that it will
work if you stick to this so who knows
maybe me having a boy and a girl was
just coincidence that was just how it
was supposed to work or maybe what I did
actually did help me to conceive a boy
and a girl who knows but I do know that
whenever Seth and I are ready to try for
another baby we will use these methods
again depending on if we want a boy or a
girl and we definitely will document it
all again just to see if it works you
know if it doesn't who cares you know
it's not really about having a boy or
girl you know it's just something fun
like I really don't care if I had a boy
or girl first or second or however it
was just something fun to do you know I
did get a lot of backlash on these
videos to saying that you know who cares
about the gender of the baby as long as
the baby was healthy you were absolutely
right I really don't care what gender my
baby is but like I said this was just
something fun to do just to see if it
worked so we tried it and it worked both
times for us so I'm just gonna share
with you guys what we did and if you
want to try it out feel free and if it
works for you please let me know I
actually have already had two people
contact me saying that they did this
method and followed my meal plans and
everything and it worked for them so
congratulations to them yes I'm just
going to stop talking now and
just basically tell you what I did to
have a baby girl hey this is gonna be so
hard to fill up her being a little
wiggly worm so the three things that you
want to consider when you are trying to
have a baby girl one you want to think
about your ovulation days and track your
ovulation two you want to think about
the foods that you are eating and three
you want to think about the position
that you are in during sex so for your
ovulation you want to track your
ovulation if you don't know how to do
that
there are plenty of apps out there the
app that I use was the period tracker
app and it basically tracks your period
and it also tells you when your
ovulation is it shows you with like
these little green dots I believe you
can also put in notes you can put how
you're feeling those days you can put
when you are intimate and all of those
things and after using it for a little
while it will start to track your
periods for you and I always found that
very helpful even though my periods have
always been very regular it was still
nice to it was still nice to be able to
track my ovulation on there as well so
that's what I did and I'm so sorry if
she is super distracting in this video I
understand think about how I feel trying
to film it film it if you hear her
making this little clicking noise it's
because of her teeth so anyways yeah you
want to track your ovulation jelly-fish
so you want to track your ovulation and
then whenever you are ready to try you
want to make sure that you try 2 to 3
days before your ovulation now for me I
tried every single day like I tried one
two and three days before my ovulation
so three days in a row we went at it we
tried every like those three days before
my ovulation so the third second and
first day before
if you're wondering why you want to try
on those days it's basically because if
you think about how okay our eggs the
woman's eggs we are we have X
chromosomes and then the guy he's got XY
right well whenever you're trying you
know the X chromosomes are gonna be
slower and they live a lot longer than
the Y so the Y is gonna be a lot faster
but they're gonna die off faster
so trying on those days gives the X
chromosome a better chance of reaching
the egg first so that's kind of why you
want to do that yes ma'am now as far as
the position goes you definitely want to
try something super boring like
missionary it has to be something that's
gonna allow shallow penetration and
that's because the further away from the
cervix the better chance the further
away from the cervix the better chance
that the X chromosome has of reaching
the egg first so if you think about if
they have this far of a distance to
travel and the X chromosomes even though
they are slower it gives them a long
enough period to get to the egg and
since the Y is gonna die off relatively
faster than the X I gives the Y time to
die off like they're gonna be swimming
faster but they're not gonna make it all
the way there because they're gonna die
off because it's just gonna take them
too long to get there and then the X you
know even though they are slow they'll
still be chugging along and they'll make
it to the egg first hopefully anyway so
yeah you definitely want to try some
type of position that allows for shallow
penetration and then the last thing that
you want to think about is your diet for
me I took all of these foods that I'll
probably I'll list them and put a
picture right here so you can see it
screenshot if you need to but I took all
of these food
and I basically created a meal plan for
myself I followed this meal plan for a
month before I even tried before I even
tried to have a baby girl so I ate all
of these spoons for a whole month and
then we tried the two to three days
before my ovulation of the next month so
I'll try and find that calendar with the
foods like the foods that I made and
what I followed and I'll insert that
here as well if I can find it I tried my
best to incorporate a lot of the foods
into my meals like obviously from the
list of foods it's kind of hard to come
up with me is so what I did was just
kind of try to incorporate a little bit
of something in every meal like
breakfast regular everyday so I don't
know if this will help you guys or not
but you're welcome to try it and yeah or
you can come up with your own menu and
your own meal plan but this is just what
I did another thing is I did have a lot
of people asked me before if their
husband or their boyfriend needed to
follow this meal plan as well my husband
didn't really follow it occasionally he
would have some of the meals like
especially dinner time if I were to cook
something for dinner he would obviously
just eat what I had but he didn't
necessarily like follow it to a tee like
I did so I don't really think that it
matters but if you want the extra umph
then I would definitely say go ahead and
let him try as well you also want to try
to avoid caffeine as much as possible
and I know that's very hard because like
me I'm sure a lot of you would like your
coffee or your tea
personally I'm addicted to both so it
was very hard for me but you know I
would say try to limit it to like one a
day maybe I don't know
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then that's pretty much everything that
I did to have hey baby girl
I hope that this video helps some of you
guys out I know I did get a whole bunch
of questions on my previous one so maybe
if you guys rewatch it and have
questions feel free to leave them down
below or if you're new definitely leave
questions down below and my previous
video I was saying how when I first
tried this out with my son
I didn't document anything I just did
the process on my own this is before I
even had a youtube channel or anything
like that so I didn't document anything
which I definitely regret now I wish
that I had documented it just so I could
have proof of what I did and how it
worked for me but like I said we tried
it the second time documenting
everything a word and we're probably
going to try it again in the future so
you'll have to stick around to see what
happens and if it works again for us say
that was pretty much it for this video
guys we hope you enjoyed it
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that is pretty much it for this video
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