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How to have an AMAZING threesome with two women (S.M.A.R.T.T. Method)
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the menage tois threesome with two women
one of the most common sexual fantasies
for men and for great reasons it's hot
it's sexy there's two ladies bodies
instead of one or instead of zero it's
kind of wonderful and it can be really
wonderful for you and your partner and
your other partner and Men you need to
know that there are some landmines
lining the path to threesome pleasure
town and I am here to share those with
you I'm also going to share with you my
smart system for engineering the perfect
threesome if you follow my exact steps
which I will lay out over the next few
minutes you should guarantee or as close
as security can be made yourself to have
the best threesome ever and you'll set
yourself up to have many more threesomes
which is actually what we want because
it's one thing to nail one threesome but
it is quite another thing to nail it so
well that your wife or girlfriend or
that girl that you just met who invited
her friend into bed with you wants to
keep doing it with you again and again
and what's even cooler is that this
method works even if you are concerned
about your stamina your endurance or
your ability to please both women in a
high-pressure environment if you follow
these steps exactly you should have
absolutely nothing to worry about I'm
going to share with you from personal
experience what things prevent women
from wanting to have threesomes or from
giving themselves full permission to let
go and truly enjoy and I'm gonna address
some of the more common challenges that
have come up in my own sex life and my
own Theresa experiences and journeys so
that you don't have to repeat the
mistakes that I have made alright so if
you've ever worked in corporate America
you know what a smart objective is and I
swear to you this is not that this is
Caitlyn B's smart system for having a
three
some s sands first stop and check in
with yourself why do you want to have a
threesome if it's to fix a relationship
then I Got News for you that's what
therapy is for not with threesomes are
for different different t actually th e
know th are you stop and reflect why is
it that you want to have a threesome are
you super clear on why it is there you
may be hoping that it's gonna end your
relationship for you're hoping that it's
gonna fix your relationship are you
hoping that it's gonna drag you out of a
sex rut there's no like specific right
reason like you should want to have a
threesome because of this one thing but
if you're hoping that it's going to fix
something more likely it's only gonna
make it worse of you and your partner
not a good place not the best time to
have a threesome wait until you're in a
good place before you start inviting
other people to make things sexier yes
but also more complicated M stands for
make time to talk about it you need to
have excellent pre threesome
communication with your partner about
the threesome itself this includes what
they're into what they're not into what
they're worried about what they're
fearful of when you have a good idea of
all of the things that your partner
again whether you've dated one week or
one year is concerned about like where
are her fears is she concerned she's
gonna see you with this other woman
she's concerned that she's not gonna be
good enough the other woman's gonna want
to touch her the other one's not gonna
want to touch her when you hear those
things out in a safe and non-sexual
environment ie
days weeks or months before you ever try
to actually make the threesome happen
you're creating a safe space for her to
share her individual concerns for me the
first time that I knew I was gonna have
a threesome with my partner I was
actually more nervous about the woman
then I was my partner with her like was
she gonna be into me was she going to
find me attractive what if I couldn't
please her what if she didn't want me to
touch her what if I accidentally messed
something up those were my major
concerns and being able to speak to my
partner about those one-on-one before we
even got into the situation was really
really relieving and the other part of
this is to make time for multiple
conversations now a stands for asked
about boundaries
this is of
critical importance you need to have
from your woman previous to the
threesome actually happening what are
her boundaries ie I don't want you to do
a B or C I don't want to watch you have
anal sex with her okay
I don't want you to reach orgasm or
ejaculate with her maybe with or without
a condom that's something that I want to
share this 'only I want to experience
and maybe it's like I don't want her to
sleep over at our place great those are
just three examples your wife or partner
or girlfriend may have totally different
boundaries that don't even overlap with
those again it's a very individual thing
and that's why you have to ask about
those boundaries and then become clear
that you are going to follow her
boundaries if she's got some like strict
boundaries for the first threesome okay
maybe that's what she needs to feel safe
and in a future through some perhaps she
will relax and change her boundaries and
they're gonna get updated which brings
me to R which stands for relentless
consent when it comes to the threesome
you have to remember especially if
you're in a couple that the third person
that you're bringing it doesn't have the
same sort of power as the two of you
that are in like established couple them
especially maybe if they're coming over
to your house like they are in a
position where you need to ask them over
and over and over again if they are
consenting and enthusiastically
consenting like a hell yes and not just
a hell yes that sounds good I want that
so you need to continue to ask both
women if they're good with and they are
enthusiastically into whatever it is
that you're doing are you into having
penetrative sex are you into giving oral
sex to my wife are you into this and if
it's a hell no great thank them for
knowing their boundaries and get
creative about coming up with something
else which brings me to tea which is
take hosting seriously you are hosting
person you want to make a great
environment for them to be able to relax
and that includes giving them water or
having snacks like reassuring them that
there's no one else in the house or that
maybe lead taking the dog out of the
bedroom so that the dog doesn't erupt at
any point asking them like what kind of
music they like candles that they're
into what their boundaries are what they
do and do not want to experience what's
their hottest fantasy what are their
thoughts on having sexual contact with
another woman what are their thoughts on
having sexual contact with bodily fluids
you know maybe they are like a strict
condom user and in that case like make
sure that you have some condoms around
and I would highly recommend that until
your fluid bonded with that person that
you just use protection because if you
just use protection you don't have to
worry about all these other things like
what happens if the kind of slips
I accidentally ejaculate inside of you
and then we got this third person
pregnant like that's a real concern so
the more things that you can communicate
about before and use safety for and be a
good host you're hosting this woman
inside of your house and she's hosting
you inside of her body so do your due
diligence and make sure that you're
making a great and comfortable
environment let her know what the plans
are for aftercare like the three of us
really plan on like cuddling maybe
grabbing a snack maybe we drop you off
back at home maybe you crash in our
giant new king-size bed with us
if you watched my other video on setting
up my bedroom you know that I just got a
king bed and it is like the biggest dang
thing I have ever it's like it's aside
from my car it is the biggest thing I
have ever owned and it feels like me and
my husband are not like we need a third
person in this bed to make of all that
extra space it's just - I don't sleep
like that weird who's using all the
other space all right the second T is
take care of your woman and that means
dance with the wine he came with in
other words make sure that you
prioritize the needs and the pleasure of
your partner the person that you were
with the person that you're in a
relationship with whether that's your
wife or your girlfriend or just the
first girl that you met at the bar
before you found the second girl it
doesn't matter make sure that you are
pleasuring and pleasing and taking care
of and checking in with her the first
time that I ever had a threesome one of
my biggest fears was that
I wouldn't get my needs met like the guy
that I was with would be so enamored and
excited about having sex with this new
person after basically only having sex
with me for years at that point that he
would just forget about me and I
wouldn't really be involved well guess
what
that fear totally came true and I felt
like I was just another decoration in
the room watching these two people go at
it like rabbits well it was like I
wasn't even there now I'll tell you what
I did in that moment that helped me to
survive it without feeling frustrated or
butthurt figuratively was I tapped into
what I thought was hot and sexy about
the situation so I was like okay usually
it's me that's receiving that pounding
right there and it feels pretty good
when it's me this is what it looks like
from a third person's perspective this
is what it like I'm usually with that
guy I'm usually where that girl is
okay what if I could watch myself have
sex with him from this angle or that
angle like that would be kind of hot
that allowed me to kind of get into her
pleasure like wow she's really liking
that she's really enjoying that I can
support how much pleasure she's in and
then ultimately that made way for me to
get into my partners pleasure and feel
excited for the pleasure that he was
having and by the time that I got to
that point where I was now happy for her
happy for him and just kind of into it
myself like it was my own private show
that I'm usually the star of but now I'm
letting somebody else be the star and
that was kind of sexy by that time both
of them were paying attention to me
again they were back all over me and I
told them hey guys I was feeling a
little left out you know what they said
to me what do we need to do to make you
feel like the star and then I had to
people's attention focused on just me
and before I knew it I had crossed the
bridge into menage tois
town and I was very happy with my
arrival or arrivals all the times that I
arrived so those are some of the common
challenges that women Express or reasons
that they may not want to have a
threesome some other common ones are
they're concerned about you as her
partner and this other woman falling in
love
now there are so many different ways
that you can have that conversation like
you can never really promise that you
won't fall in love with another person I
parentid I guarantee that you didn't
mean to fall in love with the person
that you're in love with right now like
you might have fallen in love with them
and you weren't even trying to fall in
love like how could you promise that you
can't what you can do is you can promise
to always put your partnership first no
matter what comes up another common fear
for women is that she's gonna be hotter
or better-looking or whatever and that's
something that you can also address by
just reaffirming for her constantly all
the things that you find sex and the
reasons that you want to share her with
another woman and then finally another
common concern is around bisexuality so
statistically women's sexuality has been
determined to be more fluid over their
lifetime that means that more women
experience changes in their sexual
orientation from maybe being primarily
attracted to one sex and then primarily
attracted to another or mostly attracted
and then a little bit and then a little
bit more all it means is that women's
experience of sexual attraction is more
likely to change than a man's so what
are the primary reasons that threesomes
are so much fun is that if your woman
your partner is interested if she's like
a little bit bisexual and she's like a
little bit interested in what it's like
to be intimate with another woman this
is the perfect place you're there to
support her in this exploration and if
it turns out she's like not really into
it then you're there to keep things
heterosexual for lack of a better word
and if she's really into it and you're
really into it then you're just there to
be the supportive audience that's just
cheering from the sidelines like whoa
yeah honey you get that that's hot or
yeah babe I'm so proud of you for using
that fingering technique that Katelyn
taught us or oh honey you're gonna go
for the squirting you can't do it so
your job in that instance is to be the
most supportive cheerleader known to man
while you're watching these two hot
women may be cheerleaders may be all
three of you are cheerleaders but
they're playing the game mode that falls
apart they're the football player
be a good supporter is all I'm trying to
say all right now what to do if you
accidentally do step on a landmine well
it can be very challenging to just check
in with your partner sometimes like
mid-coitus without somebody feeling
strange or left out but if you need to
do it
do it make communication key I like to
have a little hand signal or another way
of letting my partner know or getting
his attention if I need to communicate
with him so sometimes that means I just
give him a little pinch somewhere on his
body and all I mean by that is hey I
need your attention over here then once
I have his attention I can communicate
something like I'm feeling left out or I
kind of want to do this but I'm afraid
to interrupt or I just need to check in
with you and I just need to hear that
you love me you're not wrong for needing
support she's not wrong for needing
support knowing what you need and asking
for it before it becomes an issue is way
better than just festering with it and
letting it bother you and then bringing
it up the next day or like on Friday
when you have couples counseling and
you're like you ignored me during the
threesome and I hated it I'd never want
to have fun again we don't want that I
don't want that I was so sorry I even
put that idea in your head instead of
that communicate communicate communicate
it is the answer communicate often and
frequent and then at the end of the
threesome here is a secret trick for
those of you who made it all the way
through the video this is just for you
my friends the best way to make sure
that you have more threesomes in the
future is by celebrating what went right
as soon as the three of your bodies
separate on the bed or the floor the hot
tub or wherever you are as soon as your
hot sweaty bodies they're all finished
touching each other and giving each
other pleasure talk about what was
awesome about that experience and
literally I would use that language what
was awesome about that for you great
what was awesome about that for you
great what else was awesome about that
for you keep asking until they can't
come up with any more answers my husband
and I do this after ever
more than just sexual stuff we do this
all the time what was awesome about that
any time that we go through something
that was even kind of challenging like
what was awesome about that what is
awesome about that what is going to come
with us what do we want to take from
this experience when you're always
asking what was awesome what worked what
is worth celebrating you're putting your
mind and your lizard brain which needs
to be redirected constantly towards
what's working instead of what didn't
work or what wasn't awesome and when you
cement that in when you take the time
needed to permanently etch into your
brain what was awesome about this
threesome you will open up the door for
having more threesomes and that my
friends is the most important part now
one last thought if you are concerned
about your stamina or your endurance
there's a couple things that you can do
number one you can share that you can
bring lots of toys with you and you can
rely on the two of them to please each
other if you've had that conversation in
advance but if you really want to arm
yourself with the skills and the tools
to last as long as you want in bed so
that you can endure not just one hot
woman's sexuality but two at the same
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