what's going on bro it's David here and
in this video I'm gonna give you five
steps that any guy can take today to
start getting more matches on tinder and
just start turning more of those matches
into actual dates let's get started
right now if you're single and you want
to be going on more dates then you
absolutely need to be using tinder look
I have a girlfriend now so I don't use
it anymore but back when I was single I
was able to easily schedule three to
four days per week just by using tinder
when I wanted to and yes I was probably
going overboard but you get the idea
here it's an extremely powerful tool
anyway
let's get into number one which is
abundance mentality when you're using
tinder you have to adopt an abundance
mentality you have to realize that
there's basically an endless supply of
women using this app so you cannot
afford to get caught up on one single
girl and while the majority of the women
on the app are actually looking for
dates you have to realize that there's a
decent percentage of them we're just
using it to get matches for their own
validation and just to feel good about
themselves so whenever a girl does not
reply to your first message or whenever
she stops replying to your messages down
the line you have to move on bro just
keep swiping and let her go anyway you
guys know what it is it's time for me to
get started with my day
I'll give you number two in a minute all
right bro I'm walking to Target to buy
the new GoPro Hero six if you watch my
channel you know that I already have a
little action cam that I use when I go
jet skiing or surfing but this new GoPro
looks so dope so I got to get it but
let's keep the video going number two is
to use a simple bio and first of all
you've got to realize that your photos
are way more important than your bio but
we'll get into that in the next step and
second of all you have to realize you
have a lot more to lose than you do to
gain by putting a lot of information in
your bio so if you do what most guys do
they try and be really funny or clever
or they try and tell way too much
information about themselves
you just have a much bigger chance of
turning the girl off and making her
think they're a little bit weird and
then if she's unsure she's just gonna
swipe left so
sted I recommend you use something that
short simple tell us a little bit about
what you're passionate about but still
leaves room for curiosity so for example
for the longest time my bio was just
witness travel and other adventures
again it sort of piques their interest
but it doesn't say too much but that
being said I also had no bio for a long
time and also did very well so do a
little short bio and make it work for
you let's go into target and get this
camera
so they only get the five here but I
swear online it says the six is in stock
let's figure this out and we got it it
was hiding in the back of the store
let's take it home and give you number
three anyway enough about that number
three is to take better photos you need
to realize that the most important thing
on tinder is your photos because when
someone is using tinder they're looking
to find attractive people you're looking
for attractive girls and girls are
looking for attractive guys I literally
cannot stress this enough your photos
are gonna be the number one thing that
dictates whether or not you're
successful on tinder and right now if
you're thinking David I don't have the
looks I'm ugly well first of all you
need to realize that it is possible to
improve your looks and become more
attractive to women in fact I just
released a free video training series
that shows you a few key steps to take
in the gym and with your style to
achieve the exact look that has been
proven to be what women find the most
attractive if you want to get access to
that now just click the I in the top
right corner or the link in the
description and beyond actually changing
your appearance another quick fix is
just going out and taking higher quality
photos if you're like most guys and you
probably don't really enjoy taking
photos of yourself and because of that
you probably don't have a lot of good
photos so here's what I recommend
I recommend teaming up with a buddy of
yours who's also single and going out
you know grabbing three or four outfits
and taking a few hours to take some good
photos of each other and if this seems
corny or weird to you you have to
realize that if you're going to invest
the time to use tinder then you might as
well take these preliminary steps so you
get the most out of your effort and you
actually get quality matches and you
don't need any fancy camera equipment to
get this done
just grab your iPhone go outside and
find a cool looking location and snap
some photos and if you're looking for
some ideas for some cool poses to use
that are gonna make you look good check
out my Instagram I've really been
stepping on my game lately
and pretty much all my recent photos
would be an awesome tinder photos that
all being said I cannot contain my
excitement bro let's go get some dope
footage with this and then after that
I'll give you number four so keep
watching
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all right so I just shipped out the old
camera since selling that one on eBay
was the only way for me to justify
buying the new one I hope that footage
came out dope there'll be a lot more
than some upcoming videos but let's keep
this video focused the fourth tip that I
have for you is to keep it simple and
I'm talking about sending the opening
message here when you're sending that
first message keep in mind that your
only goal should be to get a response
you're not trying to get her to laugh
you're not trying to get her to come
over to your apartment already you're
just trying to get her to start a
conversation with you this is pretty
much the same concept we were talking
about with your bio when you go
overboard here and you try to be too
clever or too funny
you just have a lot more to lose than
you do to gain because there's a good
chance that she's gonna perceive it as a
little weird or creepy and then she's
just not gonna respond so here's my
advice to you keep it extremely simple
honestly one message that I used to use
all the time was hey Katie how's your
day going and I know that seems so
[ __ ] basic but it's gonna get you a
response most of the time and then
you'll have a chance to work your magic
like we're gonna talk about in point
number five but first let's find a cool
spot to film around here I'm actually at
BU my old alma mater and then we'll make
it happen all right guys I am here
walking alongside the Charles River
which is like the river that the BI
divides Boston in half anyway we're
gonna wrap the video up now the fifth
and final thing I got for you is to
close the deal so at this point you've
set up a nice simple bio you've taken
some quality photos you've got the right
mentality that you know you're not gonna
get stuck on one girl and also you've
sent a simple first message and she
replied to you good job bro the next
step is to close the deal most guys do
one of two things here either they rush
into this too quickly and then like the
first or second message they're like you
know you would come over you want to
hang out and most girls are not gonna be
down for that some might be down don't
get me wrong
but most things gonna be down and then
the second thing the guys do and I think
is actually more common is that they
start sending like 20 or 30 messages to
the girl and they become like her
[ __ ] pin pal and then it becomes
really hard to break out of that dynamic
and actually ask her out and meet up
with her in person so what you want to
do is sort of take a middle route a
middle passage if you will shout out to
Buddha what the middle passage here is
is this descend like three or four
messages each back and forth just making
some basic small talk and learning a
little bit more about her and then after
that before you've settled in to that
lengthy conversation go ahead cut this
[ __ ] and ask her out and the way that
you want to do this again is very simple
and straight up what I used to say all
the time was just hey look I'll cut the
BS I think they're really cute do you
want to hang out and grab drinks
sometime and that works like [ __ ]
gangbusters bro but if you ain't 21 then
this asks do you want to hang out
sometime if you're hanging out and get
ice cream sometime no excuses and then
after that just get her phone number and
take the conversation on the text so you
can set up the logistics for the date
itself anyway that's pretty much all I
got for this video I promise you that if
you apply those tips you're easily gonna
be able to set up as many dates as you
want each and every week without putting
in too much effort if you made it all
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