How to excite Man Over Text
3 Texting Secrets Men Can't Resist - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy
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oh hi I was just texting let's talk
about texting for a moment some people
say well I'm not a type of person that
texts I just don't like texting well if
that's the case then you're the weird
one because everybody is texting it
needs to be got over texting is one of
those things that can be an evil both
ways if you never text and you're the
person that only wants to be on the
phone then you miss vital opportunities
to flirt and connect and have fun for
example you might send a text that says
you looked cute today but you wouldn't
want to make a phone call for you
wouldnt want to call someone up and go
you looked cute today all right bye
weird but with texting you can send that
text it's easy on the other extreme of
course you have the person that takes 20
times a day and never calls that person
is an idiot have you ever been on a date
for example and found that having texted
and texted and texted and thought you
got close you suddenly realize it's
really awkward because you've never
actually had a proper conversation with
that person such other dangers of
texting there are three things that I
want to give you today the first one
give value in your text messages when
you say hey what you up to her hey it
both shows that you're bored and boring
at the same time when you say hey what
you up to it's the equivalent of you
saying please entertain me because I
couldn't be bothered to think of
anything interesting to send you you
entertain me so what are some
interesting things you can do by text
well one of them is sending a picture
message pictures are great because you
send a picture that reminds you of
someone or in some way triggers a joke
that you've both had or a memory you
send it to them with a little caption
saying why you think it's relevant I got
a text message recently in the last
couple of days that was a picture of a
house and outside there was a sign that
said Hussey house on the post box which
was funny
it could either mean a cute little
cottage or a house
number two was number two Jameson number
two eliminate some of the question marks
in your text messages I would much
prefer to send someone a message saying
hey I'm doing this thing this weekend
you should come then saying hey what are
you up to this weekend do you want to
come and join us when we do blah blah
blah one of them shows uncertainty one
of them shows complete certainty and
just you know it's going to be fun why
would you even ask if they want to come
just tell them to come don't need to add
the question mark and give them
something to reject just be assumptive
the certainty that comes with it
communicates a much deeper level of
confidence that you want someone to
seeing you and number three use text as
a as a way to assert your standards and
to communicate your standards it was on
radio recently telling the story of
someone I used to see in London we would
see casually each other I was travelling
I wasn't living in London okay so stop
judging I was there now and again
travelling and I'd be like hey you want
to get together and I'd be like I have
an hour between these two meetings let's
see each other she said I'm not really a
1 hour time slot kind of a girl
this was upon receiving a text message
from me she sent this I'm not really a 1
hour time slot kind of a girl but if you
want to take me on a date this week
that'd be lovely
she put a winky face at the end changes
everything
it wasn't like I'm not really a 1 hour
time slot kind of a girl so if you want
to take me on a date this weekend that'd
be lovely there was a little wink you
know a little cheeky just fine it was
playful the tone was right but the
standard was there that's a great text
immediately I saw her differently and
the dynamic changed so those are three
things you can do add value eliminate
your questions and show your standard
through text messages by the way I have
something a little special for you a
mini texting crash course that's
complimentary I'm gonna give it to you I
don't even want to charge for it I just
want to give it to you these are
literally nine texts that you can copy
and paste from the document into your
phone if there's a guy that you're a
friend of right now but you want more
with him you can send him these texts if
there's someone that you're a lover of
right now your casual but you want more
you want a bit more commitment you can
send these texts they will revive a
situation that's gone cold if some
has lost its edge or its passion I hope
you enjoy them I enjoyed writing them
and in underneath each text I explained
why each one works and what the
psychology is behind it so here's how
you get this guide go to 9 texts dot-com
and it will be there waiting 9 texts
calm I'll link it up under the video as
well so you can click through and go
straight through and start using those
texts literally in the next few minutes
pull up a guy from your phone book right
now and send him one of the 9 texts
that's what needs to happen straight
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