How to enhance Your Personality
How To Improve Your Personality | 9 Personality Enhancing Tips
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personality we all have one but after
this video you're gonna have a better
one our personality is our typical
pattern of thinking feeling acting and
communicating so the key term there is
typical your typical pattern of acting
feeling thinking and communicating right
it's what you do consistently not just
like with one person or with one group
of people across the board as a whole
alright so now what I want you to do is
think of somebody who you consider to
have a great magnetic personality got'em
yeah it's pretty easy to do most of us
can alright these people are just
radiating with personality right we feel
better being around them but now if I
asked you to tell me why what about
their personality specifically makes
them have a good personality it's
tougher to do right because there's so
many factors and variables that go into
making up somebody's individual
personality the good news is that we at
alpha M have done the legwork and
figured out what makes a good
personality tick actually we kind of did
so here's the deal we can break down a
good personality into traits and if we
work on developing these traits for
ourselves we in the long run are going
to have a better personality and who
doesn't want that
exactly we all do let's rock tip number
one is be a better listener work on your
active listening skills alright because
communication is a skill listening is
also a skill alright when you listen to
somebody it's not just your ears right
you're just hearing the words come out
your whole body should be listening
which means put your phone away iContact
nod engage them this is what I'm talking
about in terms of being an active
listener and who doesn't like talking to
somebody or being around somebody that
when you're talking to them you think oh
my god they're actually listening tip
number two is become more interesting
yeah you can actually become more
interesting how do you do that by
engaging and at
of Lee seeking out education information
trying new things the more stuff you try
the more stuff you do the more
information you seek and absorb the more
interesting you're going to be for other
people to communicate with tip number
three is practice and adopt a more
optimistic outlook on life optimism is
sort of that glasses half-full type of
thing right nobody and I mean nobody
likes being around somebody who's
pessimistic always talking about the
negative never looking at the good and
anything right well this is something
that you can absolutely change if you
are persistently and consistently
talking about negative things
acknowledge that you're doing it and
then work on developing a more positive
outlook all right
sometimes simply look at it things a
little bit differently can make all the
difference in the world tip number four
be encouraging and supportive to others
good job you can do it oh good luck I'm
telling you people that are supportive
to me or people that I interact with
that are encouraging you think I like
them yeah I love them because I want to
be around these people there are people
that are raising you up through positive
energy these people fantastic
personalities a lot of times
tip number five is have integrity and
treat people with respect leading us to
tip number six which is don't talk bad
about people don't make fun of them and
don't gossip people that make fun of
other people or mean gossipers they just
suck tip number seven is don't be afraid
to be yourself so often we get caught in
this cycle of trying to please everybody
being something different in different
social circles when you stop doing that
and just decide that you know what this
is me take it or leave it you're going
to lose some friends some people aren't
going to like you but it's okay the ones
that are still there they're going to be
solid they're going to be your friends
and you're going to find new ones and
these relationships and interactions are
going to be far superior to the ones
that you're putting up a facade in order
to facilitate tip number eight is have
the ability to laugh at yourself now
this is easier said than done and until
you actually have a secure sense of self
and feel good about who you are and
comfortable in your own skin you're
probably not going to be able to do that
I did a video talking about the
importance of being able to laugh at
yourself and if you miss
that I would say absolutely go check it
out after this video it's it's it's
something that I feel people with good
personalities this is something they all
pretty much have in common there's a
link down below and as with pretty much
everything that we talk about it boils
down to tip number 9 which is do things
that you need to do every day to
facilitate and develop your confidence
when you feel good about who you are the
person you see looking back at yourself
in the mirror knowing that a I am a good
person I bring value to the world and
people around me let me tell you
something your personality is going to
skyrocket it's going to emanate it's
going to be like a a death laser-beam
just going out because you're going to
be like oh I feel great about myself and
that is going to transition and
transcend every aspect of your life
including your personality and if you
need a confidence kick in the ass
there's actually a link down below to
the Alpha M confidence course where I am
going to personally help you unlock the
five phases of self-confidence gentlemen
unfortunately we weren't all born with
dynamic radiant amazing engaging
personality some of us it just wasn't in
the cards or shy or for whatever reason
we just don't let it shine when we're
around people the good news is that if
you implement and embrace and adopt
these nine tips into your daily life
your daily interactions you are well on
your way to personality perfection
