How to encourage A Man
Encourage your Man!
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I saw a video online a couple weeks ago
I guess and it was a of Steph Curry you
know the basketball player and probably
if not the best in the league the second
best in the world one or the other and
his team rarely loses but this day they
lost so he's walking down the tunnel on
the way back to the locker room and his
wife is standing there and as he comes
up to her she has confetti in her hand
and she throws it up in front and he
looks at her and he just smiles and when
I saw that I grabbed that I posted a I
was like this is exactly what wives need
to do for their husbands and when he's
dialing up she steps in and says I'm
celebrating your baby it's alright
everything's gonna be okay I got your
back I was like that up reach right
there so I'm preaching it right now I
look at that just part of doing him good
and that even sort of tearing him down
when things fail build him up in fact
you know sister Kay will talk about this
all the time she talks about how you
ought to build up your man's ego bail it
up his ego tell him how great he is tell
him how how much you appreciate him tell
him how much you appreciate all that he
does and part of the reason why some men
fall into affairs is it because of
someone's curves we always think when
men is always physical and with men a
lot of times it is physical but a lot
sometimes it's not that is that there's
other woman it's celebrating him she's
you know when the Bible talks about the
strange woman in the book of Proverbs
you know it talks about more than her
hips her lips and it's her words that
she uses that draws him in how is that
possible well clearly he needs to do
some things differently but also what
happens
sometimes is that there's a void in his
life that his wife is supposed to be
feeling feeling but she's not doing that
and so she's constantly telling him what
she needs to be done or she's focused on
whatever she's interested in or she's
constantly criticizing him and then he
goes somewhere else
and she's like men you are amazing I
hope your wife appreciates you man you
do this and that and you find to it and
at first he might be like hey you need
to chill out you to chill out
but after why he goes home after hearing
that and here she is you know honey I
don't know what's wrong with you I
should have married someone so you too
skinny you too sure you tune it and then
he go back to work and she like ooh you
look good today I hope she take it good
and I hope that in the bedroom you liked
all we talk about the bedroom now but
you know you still kind of well you know
you you're kind of right here you go
home and you can't even get none in the
bedroom and she won't even let you touch
her it and if all the lights gotta be
off and the clothes got to be on it and
then you come to work and this woman
barely got clothes on during the day you
know see you and before you know it here
he is in the bed messing up and he got
an answer to God for that but she played
a role in it
come on ladies you got to encourage your
man hey you ought to do it all the time
men need that from their wives I notice
what I just said I don't say they want
it they need like men need food there
are some things men need emotionally
they need sex with their wife and they
need encouragement or respect needed
with all those two and they're not very
well you know we're not so complicated
that we need 10 things we just need
about two things really you take care of
the bedroom you give me some respect and
I could Evi some of McDonald's every day
I might be all right with my McDonald's
and you give me those two things but if
you ain't got things right in the
bedroom ain't no fire here and you
aren't encouraging me now I'm vulnerable
you need to own purpose really try to go
out today and encourage them almost
every day build him up make him think
like make him feel like he's Superman or
Batman whichever sides whatever team you
want
