So you’ve been dating each other for a while, but lately things have been feeling stale.
You don’t want to breakup, but something has to change or your love life is out the
door. So how can you make your relationship feel fresh again?
Hey YouTube, my name is Amy North, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver Canada and
today I’m going to share with you some tips for bringing the spark back to your relationship.
Before I get started I just want to let you know that it’s quite common for long term
relationships to feel a bit dull over time, so don’t panic and think your love life
is doomed. By simply following the seven tips that I’m about to share, you’ll be able
to spice things up and bring the passion back in no time!
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Now, let’s get started.
1. Be spontaneous Do you remember in the beginning of your relationship,
how things just happened? There was no reason or rhyme for what you did together, no routine
and no excuses. Drinking wine on a work night together seemed dreamy, and the late night
movie was never “too late.”Those are the nights you’ll never forget and the memories
you’ll cherish forever. And what’s to thank for those moments? Spontaneity!
That said, it’s not unusual for couples to get swept up in routine, and while it can
be great for getting things done, it’s important to be spontaneous every now and then too,
especially if you’re looking to bring the spark back between you.
2. Kiss like you mean it Puckering up, smooching, snogging, lip-locking,
tongue-wrestling, whatever you want to call it, is one the most important parts in a relationship.
Why, you ask? Because it’s a sign of being in love. If you’re at a point in your relationship
where kissing has either left the building or has become a monotonous task then it’s
important to bring it back.
To do so, make a point to kiss your partner more often, and more passionately. Remember,
a quick peck on the lips isn’t going to stir up much emotion.
3. Try new things together
Everyone knows at least one “perfect couple.” You know, the ones who go rock climbing every
Wednesday, spend their weekends on kayaking trips, take road trips and have countless
stories of adventures they’ve shared together. The thing is, as much as those couples seem
perfect, the secret behind their loving relationship is a willingness to do and try new things
Experiencing something new and exciting with your partner is a great way to bring the spark
back because you’re sharing it together. By making a point to put yourselves out there
more, your relationship will be feeling rejuvenated in no time!
4. Touch each other
When it comes to sex and other intimate activities, every couple is different. For instance, some
couples get close once a month, others once a week, and others find time to get frisky
every single day. There’s no right or wrong answer here, and no magic number you need
But, what IS important is realizing that making time to touch one another will strengthen
the bond you share. Whether this means holding hands more often, cuddling, massaging, or
having sex, when you make a point to physically connect with your man you’ll emotionally
To learn more about how you can physically reconnect with your man visit my website CoachNorth.com
and watch the free video presentation.
5. Be open about your feelings
One of the most common problems so many couples face is a lack of communication. The problem
with this is that when you don’t share what’s on your mind, your partner will never know
how you feel!
In order to bring the spark back to your relationship it’s crucial that you open up the communication
lines between you. Make time to talk about your feelings, wants, needs, desires and dreams.
Tell your man when you feel neglected, bored, frustrated or sad. Only once you’re honest
about your feelings will your relationship improve.
6. Go on dates
This one may sound a bit obvious, but you’d be surprised how many couples let dates disappear
once they’re comfortable with one another. Instead of replacing a night out with Netflix
on the couch, keep your dating habits alive. It doesn’t matter how busy you are with
work, family, kids, pets, whatever, there should never be a reason to put these romantic
rendezvous on the backburner. If you want to bring the spark back then this is a big
one for getting on the right track.
7. Reminisce about your relationship
There’s no better feeling than the one you get while talking about the early days of
your relationship with your partner. Recalling how the two of you got together and other
memorable firsts will not only make you feel closer as a couple, but it can also help to
reignite that spark between you. Some quick words of wisdom though, don’t get stuck
living in the past. If all you’re doing is talking about how things used to be then
your man is going to get tired of hearing it.
So, now that you know what needs to be done to bring the spark back to your relationship
go and do it! Even if you feel like you’re in this alone right now, once you get some
of these tips into play you’ll be amazed at how quickly your partner responds.
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do my best to get back to each of you as soon as possible.
Well, that’s all for this video. As always thanks so much for watching and I’ll see
you again, soon!