When Your Sister In Law Is Jealous

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if you were expecting a new shopping

buddy and spa body it may seem strange

that your sister-in-law would be jealous

of you and your spouse but it's

surprisingly common so we have some

helpful tips for what to do when your

sister-in-law is jealous the issue may

arise because she sees you as a

potential threat to her behind with her

sibling she's had them for so many years

either as a big sibling to look up to or

as a lovable little brother or sister

but now you're in the picture

permanently most likely with the new

last name sometimes the sister-in-law

will view this as her sibling being

taken away from her now you get them all

to yourself and she gets less time to be

with them kill your sister-in-law with

kindness even though you know this isn't

true you may find yourself stuck with a

rude and downright mean sister-in-law

the troubling part is that while you may

get hit with the brunt of her crappy

attitude your spouse may never see any

of it this may lead to many frustrating

discussions in which you try to tell

your partner about her bad behavior only

to be told it's nonsense and the

sister-in-law is not the person you are

making her out to be her behavior can

vary she may completely ignore you when

you are talking or she may say rude

things and in general be very negative

whatever her attitude it's important

that you not react to it remember she is

the one with the problem

not you

there's no reason to let her anger and

issues get to you instead you can kill

her with kindness people often don't

know what to do when they are mean and

instead of seeing a frustrated response

get a smile and a pleasant comment if

she sees you as easily angered or

flustered that she will realize she has

control take back and control your

sister-in-law should not have control

over you

you married your spouse because you love

them anything she says should not be

able to change that you should plan to

take back control if necessary by

ignoring your sister-in-law at the right

times and being polite the rest of the

time she will soon realize that

everything negative that she does has no

effect on you this may result in her

attempting to amp up her rudeness but in

doing so out of frustration

it may betray her to your spouse thus

bringing the whole issue into the light

and shutting down the problem completely

or she may discover that you aren't

there to steal away her beloved sibling

and that you are a good person

and she is in the wrong it can be

frustrating and annoying but by sticking

to your guns when your sister-in-law

comes around you should be able to

disarm the situation and eventually

become friends with her still struggling

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