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How to Stop a Break Up Before it Happens



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how can you stop a breakup before it

happens how can you get a woman to

change your mind and not go through with

wanting to break up with you what you

need to do is change your approach you

need to start saying and doing things

that make her feel a renewed sense of

respect and attraction for you if you

keep using the same old approach that

you've been using you're going to get

the same old results however when I say

that you need to change your approach I

don't mean that you should make any of

the following mistakes okay so the first

mistake is asking her what she needs you

to change when a man asks a woman what

he needs to do to make her stop being so

distant be more affectionate be in love

with him like she used to in most cases

she's not going to tell him the real

answer the main reason why is that a

woman doesn't want to be a guy's teacher

in life about how to be a man another

reason why is that in many cases she is

embarrassed to tell him what she really

wants for example sometimes a woman

finds herself in a relationship with a

guy who has become a bit of a pushover

he has become insecure and he doesn't

feel very confident in his

attractiveness to her anymore and he

puts up with her bad behavior just so he

can stay with her what she would like to

tell him is hey I actually need you to

stop being so insecure about your

attractiveness to me I need you to

believe in yourself and I need you to

not put up with my BS if I get out

online I need you to put me back in my

place in a dominant but loving way I

don't want you screaming at me and

getting aggressive but I want you to put

me back in my place in a dominant but

loving way I want you to make sure that

you don't let me walk all over you most

women are embarrassed to admit that they

want that sort of thing

likewise most women don't actually want

to take on the teacher role for a guy

and say all right look sit down I'll

teach you how to be a man all right this

is what I need from you she doesn't want

to take on that role because it'll make

her feel like his big sister or mother

or teacher she wants to feel like she's

his woman she wants to be able to look

up to him and respect him as her man she

doesn't want to look down on him as a

boy or a little brother or a confused

guy that she has to continually lift up

and guide as they go through life she

just wants a man

understand how to be a man now or a guy

who is willing to figure it out and then

start doing it so if you're in a

situation where your woman wants to

break up with you do not rely on asking

her what she wants you to do because she

will either not be able to tell you

because she is embarrassed or she won't

want to tell you because she doesn't

want to feel like your mother or big

sister the second mistake to avoid is

becoming extra nice sweet or considerate

next one doing extra chores around the

house

next one pouring your heart out to

express how much you feel for her

when a woman is thinking of breaking up

with a man it means that she has lost

respect for him as a result she will

then stop feeling proper attraction for

him if that goes on too long enough

she'll fall out of love with him so when

a woman gets to the point where she

actually says to a man hey I don't feel

the same way anymore I think we should

break up or I don't want to be in a

relationship anymore she's not going to

care about his feelings for her

she doesn't have strong feelings for him

anymore because she's fallen out of love

he lost her respect and she stopped

feeling attraction to him as a result

and then fell out of love so if the guy

actually wants her to care and wants her

to stay with the relationship he needs

to change his approach and start saying

and doing things that make her feel a

renewed sense of respect and attraction

for him in some cases a guy can pour his

heart out to his woman and get another

chance this will happen if the woman is

young or inexperienced with

relationships yet for most women when

they get to the point where they

actually say that they want to get out

of a relationship they're not going to

change their mind unless the guy changes

his approach but when you change your

approach to her she changes how she

feels when you start making her feel

respect and attraction for you she feels

that then she starts thinking okay I

don't want to break up with him anymore

because I feel something for him now I

feel like I can love him again I feel

like there can be a future for us I

respect him again I feel attracted to

him I actually want to be around him now

that is what matters

you've got to focus on making her feel a

renewed sense of respect and attraction

for you when you do that she reconnects

with the love that she used to feel for

you the reason

I say reconnect is that love doesn't

actually die when a woman falls out of

love with you she simply disconnects

from the love yet the love is still

there in the background and she will

reconnect with that if you make her feel

respect and attraction for you again

she will naturally reconnect with the

love right she'll start having those

loving feelings for you again she will

look at you from a different perspective

she will respect you now she'll feel

attracted to you again and as a result

she'll start to think about you in a

positive light she'll start thinking of

things about you that she actually likes

when that happens she'll start to

reconnect with the love the next mistake

being romantic or having date nights

like I said in the previous example if

she doesn't have strong feelings for you

then sucking up to her with date nights

and being romantic isn't going to mean

crap to her you can be as romantic as

you want to be put some candles out take

her to an expensive dinner doesn't mean

a thing if she doesn't actually respect

you but if she has lost respect for you

and you don't get that back nothing that

you do is going to work you can take her

on the most romantic date that the world

has ever seen

but inside of her she's still going to

feel like she wants to break up with you

because she doesn't actually respect you

she might enjoy the date and be laughing

and happy for that time but when the

date is over and she's interacting with

you and realizes that you're still

making the same mistakes that caused her

to lose respect for you then she's still

going to want to go through with the

break-up the next mistake ignoring her

to hopefully make her realize how much

she needs you this will work when a

woman is just being a pain in the butt

and she really does love and respect her

man but she just wants to mess with him

by threatening to break up with him so

if he then ignores her and just gets on

with his life without her she's going to

feel like she doesn't want to break up

and she wants to be with him yet if a

woman wants to break up with a guy that

she has lost respect for and it's not

feeling attracted to anymore and it's

fallen out of love with then him

ignoring her isn't going to mean much to

her at all if the woman has some

experience with relationships she's just

going to use that time that he's

ignoring her to move on she's going to

go out with their girlfriends and meet

guys or she's going to let the guy who

has been hitting on her at work take her

out in a date or she's going to get on

an online dating app or an online dating

site and have hundreds of guys overnight

who want to meet up with her for a date

the thing is if a woman threatens to

break up with a guy and he thinks all

right well I'm just going to start

ignoring her an hour and teach her a

lesson it can work in some cases but if

the same problems exist in the

relationship when she starts interacting

with him again she's still going to want

to go through with the breakup right if

he's still saying and doing things that

caused her to lose respect for him and

she isn't able to look up to him and

feel respect and feel attracted and be

in love with him then she's going to

want to go through with the break-up

additionally if she senses that he's

trying to play mind games with her by

ignoring her all of a sudden she might

decide to get revenge by going and

hooking up with another guy so if your

woman wants to break up with you don't

run that risk of pushing her into the

arms of another guy simply change your

approach right when you change your

approach he changes how she feels when

she changes how she feels he changes

their mind but she doesn't want to go

through with the break-up anymore

because she feels respect and attraction

for you now she feels that love that she

used to feel for you she feels good

around you now she wants to be around

you the next mistake giving her an

ultimatum giving an ultimatum and saying

hey you either decide to be with me now

or leave can work in some cases for

example if the woman is inexperienced

with relationships and can't handle the

pain of going through a breakup if she

thinks that she's not going to be able

to move on quicker than him or if the

problem is in the relationship really

aren't that bad and can be worked

through however if a woman doesn't

respect their guy and isn't feeling much

attraction for him anymore and it's

fallen out of love with him she's not

going to really care about his ultimatum

she doesn't have strong feelings for him

at that point so it feels like there's

more benefit breaking up with him than

actually staying with him so when he

gives her the ultimatum she's like okay

cool well let's just break up then and

she leaves if she's inexperienced with

relationships or can't handle the pain

of the break-up then she'll come running

back however if she's experienced with

relationships and

can move on then she's going to move on

because she's leaving behind a guy that

she doesn't even respect she doesn't

feel strong attraction for anymore and

she's not in love with that is why if

you want to stop a breakup you have to

change your approach you've got to start

saying and doing things that make her

feel respect and attraction for you

again you got to make her feel that

renewed sense of respect and attraction

she then starts to look at you

differently she looks at you in a

positive light she starts feeling good

around you again she reconnects with the

love and then she doesn't want to

actually break up with you there's more

benefit in staying with you than

breaking up with you

the final common mistake to avoid is

playing it cool and acting like

everything is okay

the thing is if a woman is considering

breaking up with her man then everything

isn't okay what guys need to understand

about women is that they don't actually

want to go through a breakup most women

don't want to be that woman who is

unlucky in love she's always getting in

and out of relationships and getting

hurt she has to face up to her family

and friends and say yeah we broke up and

be that woman who's unlucky in love her

friends and family members and

co-workers are in happy relationships

and enjoying life and she's breaking up

all the time she doesn't want to be that

woman she just wants a man that she can

be proud of and man that she can look up

to and respect and feel attracted to and

be in love with she doesn't want to have

to go through breakup after break-up she

wants to have a relationship that works

so that you and her can reach new levels

together as a couple so if you want to

stop a breakup before it happens

you need to make sure that you are

willing to change your approach for

example if a guy has become insecure in

a relationship with a woman he suddenly

becomes confident nothing that she says

or does makes him lose confidence in

himself another example is where a woman

will throw tantrums and insult her guy

and he will usually become angry about

that suddenly he changes and he's able

to turn situations like that into

something to laugh about together for

example a couple is driving along in a

car and a woman tests her man by saying

something like you're such a crap driver

get in the right lane like what are you

doing and

rather than getting angry at her and

feeling insulted he just turns it into

something that they can laugh about

together you might say yes true I'm the

worst driver in the world I should

probably get a trophy for it and then

continues driving along she then looks

at him as a man that she can respect he

doesn't lose control of his emotions

he's cool and calm and confident under

pressure nothing that she says makes him

lose control he's a man that she can

rely on he's a man that she can look up

to and respect and he's also a man who

makes her feel happy right he's able to

create moments of laughter he's able to

get her smiling he's able to turn

situations that would make other couples

get into fights into something that they

can laugh about together and feel good

about okay so I hope you've enjoyed this

video and learned something useful from

it if you'd like to learn more I

recommend that you watch or listen to my

program make her love you for life when

you watch or listen to the program you

will learn exactly what to say and do to

make your woman respect you feel

sexually attracted to you and be totally

in love with you for life when you start

using the techniques from the program

she will not want to break up with you

she will change how she feels and as a

result she will change her mind about

wanting to break up with you what I want

you to know is that you actually have a

lot of control over the situation you

may feel like the situation is out of

control at the moment because she wants

to break up but what you've got to

understand about women is that they are

reactive women react to the dynamic that

men create if you create a dynamic in

the relationship where she respects you

and feels attracted to you and is happy

to be with you and is in love with you

she will go along with that however if

you create a dynamic in the relationship

where she doesn't respect you and she

doesn't feel happy with you she doesn't

really feel attracted to you and she's

falling out of love with you she's

distant she will go along with that as

well my women don't want to take on the

leadership role and fix the relationship

themselves they want to be with a man

who can take the lead and guide the

relationship towards deeper feelings of

respect attraction and love when you

start doing that she will stop wanting

to break up with you right when you

change your approach she changes how she

feels so if you want to stop the

break-up just make sure that you

are willing to change your approach to

her when you do that she will change how

she feels and as a result she will

change your mind about the break-up and

want to stay with you