Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
A few hours ago I did a Facebook Live
which I do every single week
answering your questions on dating sex
and relationships. And I want to show you
a quick segment that I did from the live
show about dating in the workplace. If
you have a girl that's in your office that's in
your work and you want to get her out,
I'm going to teach you how to do that.
Check this out right here. When it comes
to meeting girls in your office, the
reason why I decided to make this video
is because I put out a video recently
called "How to pick up girls in your
class" and a lot of guys said well what
about the office. Because there's a
lot of guys out there who are past class
or maybe will be graduating soon and
they're going to be they're going to be
in an office.
What's the scenario there? Well if you
guys have watched the video of how to pick
up a girl in your class, the beautiful
part about it is it's actually it's
actually very similar. Except you're going to be using
different lines and things like that.
Here is the best way to ask a girl out
in your office. Here's what I want you to
do. First of all, before I give you the
steps, you gotta know that this is
something that could be potentially
detrimental...not to be too dramatic
here. But it could be potentially
detrimental to your workspace. Before
I give you the steps, you've got to think
about, is this a girl that you really
really want to be asking out?
Ok, so is this a girl that it's gonna be
worth it to ask out? Is she on your team?
Is she in the cubicle next door? Is this a
girl that you're working with a lot?
Where if you end up asking her out or
maybe guys end up dating, it's going to
get really weird and then you're stuck
seeing her every single day unless
someone quits or gets fired or gets
promoted? Really think to
yourself, is it worth it?
That's like, that's like step number one
there in terms of office. Now of course picking
up girls in your class in the other video
that I put out,
it really doesn't matter because class
only lasts so long and so what. Work can
I mean anywhere from you know one year
to 50 years depending on where you're at.
So, is this something that you really
want to do? That's the first thing I want
you to think about. The next thing is if
this is something you want to do, we
don't want to ask her out
and we don't want to flirt with her in the
office. I think that's a big no-no. That's
a big no-no. The office is not a place to
be doing that. Now of course if you guys
start dating and you get into a
relationship, be careful. I'm
sure you know there's rules and stuff
in terms of dating in your office. But if
yeah you might be flirting in the office
whatever. I'm specifically talking about
meeting a girl for the very first time.
And so if you guys are in the office
and this is someone that you want to
ask out then what I want you to do is
I want you to create an event.
Okay, I would say in most circumstances
and most offices, you can probably do
something like this. And comment below
if this is not possible for you. We'll find
you another solution. But i think this is a
pretty much one-size-fits-all solution.
You create a happy hour. You get people
from your office out and about. That's the
magic here. You create some sort of event.
Easiest like I said is a happy hour. Get
people out, invite people out, send a
mass email. You know talk to people in the
office. Get her to come. Get her to come.
Now you can ask her in person like you're
doing with everyone else. You can email her.
You know get her on a group chain.
Basically the point is we want to get
her outside the office. You want to be
communicating with her and flirting with
her and getting on a more personal level
outside the office, not inside. Instead
of asking her out and saying hey let's
go out sometime when she's like I don't
even know you, or it's kind of weird. And
maybe you guys do know each other.
I still think it's better to get her out
in a more casual setting, right than your
professional setting. And get her out and
then you guys can connect there and
that's when you can get her number.
That's what you could be talking with
her and you get a chance to display your
personality and get to the point where
you say to her
you know it's fun talking to you. We
don't hang out enough. We should hangout
sometime. You know we should do something
Let's exchange numbers. Let me get your
number. Ok so that's going to be the way
you're going to want to do it. You're
going to want to ask her out outside of
the office. You're not going to want to
do it when you're in in the office, when
you're working, in the middle of the work day.
You don't even want to do it during
lunch even if that seems very casual.
Create that event. Create that happy hour.
Get her out there and that is the best
way to ask a girl out in your office.
If you have any questions below go ahead and write
them. I want to hear from you and we'll
talk about that a little bit more. Now if
you end up meeting her at the event and
you're not sure what to do to get her
attracted to you, I want you to check out
my new program called Hooked. And you can
check that out in the description below
at www.getherhooked.com. That
program is going to teach you all the
methods on how to attract her, how to get
her hooked on you and how to get her wanting
you to meet up with her. Check that
out at getherhooked.com. That's in the
description below and I'll see you on
the next video.