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Text Your Man Closer! Scripts to Text Right Into His Heart! Adrienne Everheart



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Hi... I'm Adrienne Everheart and I'm a certified

love and relationship coach. Today I'm going to teach you how to talk to a

man in a way that brings his heart closer to yours... and this is also going

to help you build a deeper connection with him -- all the while really expressing

your true feelings and being authentic. Being true to yourself the best part!

This will not only improve your but you're going to feel calmer

more centered and better than you felt in a long time. So today I'm going to

share with you some top texts that most men send women and how you can respond

to them... As well as a few problem areas that can cause problems with men.

I first want to start off by telling you a little bit about me and how I got into

coaching and became a pro at talking to men both in person and over text and

email. I was once where you are right now. I was in love with a man who the

more I tried to bring him into my life the further he drifted away. You see in

college it was so easy to meet guys then when I was out of college and into my

30s things shifted and like a lot of women... I met someone and I got married!

Then also like many women, I got divorce and I split from a man I loved deeply.

Because we couldn't figure out how to make it work. :-( So when I was on boyfriend

number two - post my divorce - and I was going through yet another breakup this

is when I sought out relationship coaching and it worked so well for me I

changed my career and became a full-time love and relationship coach. I'm here

to tell you you don't have to make the same mistakes I did in love.

My ex-husband and I saw over six professionals six therapists with

multiple degrees and co-pays and we did so hoping to find help. Yet all we did

was argue more and grow further apart. I also read every

self-help book on relationships in the self-help industry...and I must have read over 100

books... but I really couldn't apply much of it to my life. Plus who really has

time to read all these books you need until you find that one book that really

works well. This is where personal coaching transformed me and it can

transform your life as well

I needed one-on-one help and something more than I could get from simply reading a book.

At first I was really nervous about investing in 1:1 coaching. I thought well, 'what if it doesn't work?'

That's one reason why as a coach I offer your first session for free because you

will see changes and feel better immediately. You see I already knew

having a loving long lasting relationship with a man was one of the

most important things I wanted in my life.

I found a way to put coaching into my life I cut down on my barre lessons and my coffee

drinks and other little luxuries I bought myself and I instead invested in

myself and into my future relationship. I look back on this time of learning

as one of the best things I've ever done for myself. So if you're ready and truly

want to have a loving long-lasting relationship -- all you have to do is email

me to get started. Now moving on how to talk to your man... These are top texts many women

received from men,... such as 'what's up' or 'what are you doing' and this text

irritates a lot of women because it is what it is...

He's dropping a line maybe only to you maybe to some other women we don't know...?

He's seeing who's going to take a bite - so I suggest you respond

with warmth - because after all this is a man you like and he's taking the time to

reach out in text to you. Now I don't believe in playing games whatsoever but

I do believe in doing what feels best for you and what will work best for the

relationship. So if your man texts you and says 'what's up' and you're doing

nothing and you're watching television I want you to instead tell him how it

feels to hear from him. For example you can reply, "It feels so good to hear

from you." Then let the man continue to direct the conversation. Now if he falls

off and has nothing else to offer I can promise you this is a trend you're going

to continue to see with this man. An inability to step up and claim you.

If he furthers the conversation and asks, so how was your day?' I want you to

find something in your day that felt good to you because most of us will

immediately tell a person our day was stressful or irritating. We connect with

people sometimes through our pain instead of connecting to

them with our happiness. Happiness and being positive, this is how you connect to

a man's heart. By answering his message with a feeling statement you will stand

out from all the other ladies he's talked to. So seek a positive moment in

your day and express what you feel in a poetic way not a robotic way.

Now here's a robotic way to respond to, "how was your day?"

"Had a great day. Got a promotion at work. How about you?"

Sounds very plain and robotic right? Again this is not going to connect you to his heart. Instead I

want you to create a feminine poetic response. This is something that will

connect to his heart. So let's say you did get a promotion or something else

positive happen today and you you want to ask yourself: :how does this feel in

my body? So an example would be saying something like... hmm I'm feeling a

tingling rush all over today because I got a promotion it feels so good to be

rewarded for all my hard work. Now can you feel the difference in that

message? So here's another one here's robotic response he can ask "how was your

day?" You say "nothing much today had lunch

with my friend Jennifer. How about you?" Now here is the feminine poetic response

the one that is beckoning your man closer,

"My tummy still feels full from my fun lunch date with my girlfriend Jennifer -- where we shared

as many laughs as we did nachos today!" So you can see how this feels different and

how it will connect to your man? You can keep it fun and light -- the point is to

have a feeling statement in your communication with your man. His ears

will go up -- his interest will get piqued -- and he will feel a warmth in his heart

that men only get when they really connect with a loving caring woman such as yourself.

A man this feels amazing... this feels like nothing else to him.

Here's the last one, to avoid an argument. Another popular problem is men are late

or they have to cancel, or he didn't complete a chore or do something he said

he would. Now if canceling dates is what he does and he does it often it's clear

this man is not respecting you or your time. There's some advanced scripting for

that and I can help you with that another time. Let's say he has to

cancel plans last minute due to work or maybe a longtime buddies popping in a

town unexpectedly. Now I want you to consider letting him off the hook and

just seeing how this feels you can say these magic words, "okay I understand."

Your man might really get quiet after you speak this because he's expecting a

storm to start coming through. So again this is going to be what sets you

apart from other women in his life. You're not saying that you love it or

you like it -- you're just saying "okay" I understand now.

I want you to remember your man is free -- we're all free even when we're married.

A man can decide to leave the relationship at any time. So controlling him and making it tight

rules only distances him from your heart. So I encourage you to

let him off the hook and let him him come to you. Now if your man doesn't take out

the trash or he didn't do what he said he was going to do I want you to try

this and say nothing. Now maybe you already do this and you go silent on him

in the form of brooding? So if you can drop the brooding and let him be free to

forget or even free to be a jerk and forget on purpose. The key is to let him

come to you about the matter. Now if he's a good guy he'll do this and we really

want him to know that it's safe for him to come to you and say, "I forgot to take

out the trash" without getting his head bit off. This is the key! So when he does

take out the trash and he does what he says he was going to do -- a powerful

feminine response is, "I feel really impressed with you! Thank for

remembering!" Now your man will shine like a diamond when you say that to him and

his heart will grow closer to yours. Now if a long-lasting relationship with a

man is what you want and what you desire -- you are already one step closer just by

watching this video. The next step is to set up a complimentary coaching session

with me and usually within a few minutes of talking to you I can find out what's

going on and help you turn it around. Now if you're not quite ready for a free

one-on-one coaching session I have a free newsletter

Visit EverheartCoaching.com or check out my best selling book "500 Ways to Speak to a Man."

Get big issues solved just with those methods alone. And this is what I do... my life was

transformed with relationship coaching and I can transform yours as well. :-)

I hope this presentation has been helpful for you and I look forward to hearing

from you soon! xoxox!