So you approached a girl she seems really into it, and now you have to go
for the number. But you start to get nervous because you don't know the best
way to ask. Should you just be straightforward about it? Or should you
try to make her laugh? I mean, what's the best way to go for it where she's more
likely to say yes? I'm Mat Artisan from The Attractive Man and these are my
three favorite ways to get her number.
We've done all the testing, we know what works.
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Now most guys ask for the number. "So... can
I have your phone number?" Big mistake! Because that shows a lack of
confidence, because it presupposes that you're not sure if she likes you, and
that you're not sure if she actually wants to give you her phone number.
Because I mean you're asking instead of just assuming that she likes you. So
instead, display confidence and rephrase it like a command. "Here, put your number
in my phone." It's really that simple.
I think a lot of girls now don't just want to give out their phone numbers to
strangers. I know I never liked to, so maybe, you know, try to make it funny.
Ask her for her phone, if she says why, say "Well I want to look for my number in
your phone!" Or just maybe even offer your phone number. For me personally it's much
more comfortable whenever I have someone's phone number. And yeah "Will
they call?" "Won't they call?" But you know as a woman we do have to be somewhat safe.
Now what I like to do is this: I just tell her "You know, you seem pretty
cool. I'll give you my number, let me see your phone."
Then I go to her texting app and I send myself a text. "Hey Matt you're so hot" and
I sign her name. Then after we part ways I'll wait a few minutes and I'll text
her this - "Oh thanks you're so sweet" and she'll probably get a kick out of it.
It's fun, flirty, and it works great. And the best part is that she's very
unlikely to object to you giving her your number. Because she doesn't know
that you're secretively sending yourself a text. She just thinks you're harmlessly
saving your number in her phone and she could always just not text you if she
doesn't want to. Hmm... I think that's a double negative. "You're a double negative."
Here's another funny move you can do: Save your number in her phone and then
call your number from her phone. "Let me see your phone, I'll give you my number.
I'm gonna call myself so that way you have my number too." But actually pick up
the call and use this opportunity to do a funny role play. "Come on pick it up.
Hi mom! Yeah, hey I just met this girl she's kind
of cute but I don't know she's kind of a dork. What do you think, should I give her
a chance?" Or if all of this seems too silly or gimmicky for you, you can always
just go for her number like a boss. Say something like: "You know, you seem pretty
cool. Here, put your number of my phone!" And remember to always stand beside her
when you get her phone number so you can touch more. All right that's it! This
video can't be over already is it? Okay well how about this: Let's show some pictures of hot girls instead.
*Slide show of hot girls* (whew)
So try that out man. And remember to be
assertive and don't ask for permission. I already know all the hardcore YouTube
feminists out there are gonna give me s*** for saying that but I'm sticking to
it. Because asking for permission to have her phone number shows uncertainty, and
you should assume that she likes you. Unless she makes it really obvious that
she doesn't. *Slap* And now that you have her number,
you need to know how to escalate. That's why I created a free Escalation Cheat
Sheet that lists out some of the best ways to create sexual tension, turn a
girl on, and escalate things to the bedroom. It's filled with advanced
escalation techniques that will turn a platonic, friendly vibe into a more
sexual, "I want to rip your clothes off!" vibe. This is very useful when you're
talking to girls and it's going nowhere. Click the image in the bottom right of
the screen right now to download your free Escalation Cheat Sheet. There's also
a link down in the description. Get it, because you'll want to keep it handy
before you go out. And if you're not already subscribed, hit that subscribe
button! And if you want us to work with you in field make sure to check out our
bootcamp schedule. My name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man and i'll
see you in the next video.