How to Approach A Girl At School | 5 Ways to Talk to the Girl You Like

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Alright, a lot of you guys in high school and college are always blowing up my DMs asking

how to approach that cute girl at school so today I’m gonna break it down for you real

quick because this shit is REALLY simple.

But before we get into that, I want you to imagine the girl in your class that you want

to approach


Ok, here we go.

#1 Try to sit next to her in class

This one is simple but it’s also the EASIEST way to strike up a conversation with her.

Once you position yourself next to her, it increases the chances that she’ll notice

you and you’ll be on her radar.

And if you’re well dressed and stylish like you should be, sitting next to her will easily

grab her attention and separate you from everyone else.

You don’t even need to say anything the first time you sit next to her or even the

first few times you sit next to her.

Just sitting next to her enough times will make her notice you AND it’ll make her subconsciously

more comfortable with you since you’ll become familiar to her.

Now don’t use this as a way to procrastinate talking to her for the whole year and then

once school is over you’re going on youtube and complaining that it’s impossible to

get girls.

You can and should talk to her literally the first time you sit next to her by using this

next tip.

#2 Make a comment about what’s going on in class.

If the teacher says something weird or anything even remotely interesting happens, just turn

to her and make a comment about it.

She won’t see it as weird or unnatural since you’re sitting next to her and it makes

sense that you’d make a comment to her because you guys are right next to each other.

This is why I recommend sitting next to her because it makes this step WAY easier.

If you’re sitting next to someone or standing next to someone and something happens, it’s

natural to turn and say something about it, but if you’re on the other side of the room,

you can’t just yell across the room and be like “HEY JULIE DID YOU SEE WHAT JUST



NO of course you can’t do that.

So do your best to sit next to her.

The benefit of sitting next to her is also that you don’t have to rush into getting

her number.

You can build up the interactions and make her comfortable with you by talking to her

a few times in class before getting her number.

Knowing that you’ll see her again in the future is an easy way to take the initial

pressure off of trying to get the number and can allow you to focus on just talking to

her normally and building the interaction.

This way you can calm your nerves and just focus on doing one thing at a time.

It’s easier to get the courage to just make a comment in class one day, then to go up

to her, start a conversation, talk a little, get her interested, and get her number.

I know just thinking about that makes your palm sweat and gets you all nervous and anxious.

And if you’re gonna be sweating when you approach her you wanna make sure you cut that

out before you talk to her, otherwise you’re gonna smell like shit and there’s no way

she’d like you.

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#3 Just ask for her number.

If you’re in the same class and you’ve talked to her a few times, just mention an

assignment and ask her for her number so you guys can help each other out with it.

This is probably the easiest and most organic way to ask for it because if you guys are

gonna be helping each other out with notes and studying, then she has an incentive to

give you her number so don’t be afraid to just ask for it.

It’s really not that weird to get a girl’s number to discuss shit going on in class and

she won’t think it’s a big deal either.

#4 If you can’t sit next to her for whatever reason OR she’s not in your class then you’re

gonna have to man up and cold approach.

If she’s in your class but you can’t sit next to her then just follow step 3 and mention

an assignment to her, then go for the number.

Otherwise, you just gotta man up and do it.

When I was in school I used to be hesitant about cold approaching but an easy way to

approach her is to literally just go up to her and introduce yourself.

I actually found a lot of success in doing this because although it’s not common for

guys to do this, it actually helps separate you from all the other guys who are too scared

to do it.

Cold approaches also help make your intentions clear from the start and will avoid you getting

friendzoned because if you just randomly approach a girl at school and start talking to her

and eventually get her number at the end of the convo then of course she’s gonna know

you’re doing it because you’re interested in her romantically.

An easy thing you can do to start the conversation is just make a comment about your surroundings

like I said before BUT if you can’t think of anything or there’s nothing to make a

comment about, just go up to her and say “Excuse me, what’s your name?” and then the conversation

will flow naturally from there.

You can ask her about her classes, what hobbies she has, or just straight up say “I honestly

just thought you were cute and wanted to get your number.”

This method is straight up and will either give you a yes or a no so you won’t have

to waste any time.

This is also good if you have a really poppin instagram because if you exchange instagrams

and she sees you’re a really interesting guy then that’ll do a lot of the work for


As long as you’re confident, approaching it in a cool way, and smiling then she’ll

either be down and continue the conversation or she’ll make it clear that she’s not

interested and boom you got your answer without needing to waste brain space day dreaming

about having sex with a girl you never talked to.

#5 Get a mutual friend to introduce you guys.

This is a really easy way to organically meet a girl, but it requires you to be friends

with guys who are good at getting girls and meeting a lot of them.

So you basically have two options, either be really good friends with that guy or become

that guy.

It’s up to you to decide.

If you’re Based as fuck like me, then you can be that guy AND make friends with other

guys like that so that way you’ll always have a good pool of girls to talk to.

And that’s it.

In summary:

Sit next to her in class Make a comment about something in class

Just ask for her number Man up and cold approach

Get a mutual friend to introduce you

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